How do you Deal with being Single ?

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    Mar 06, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    I've been single for a long time not sure why it's soo hard for love to come , I try to keep myself busy sometimes I just get really lonely any advice ?
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 06, 2013 4:18 AM GMT
    Yah,

    Now everybody - have you heard
    If you're in the game, then the stroke's the word
    Don't take no rhythm - don't take no style
    Got a thirst for killing - grab your vile...

    You put your right hand out...give a firm hand-shake
    Talk to me about the one big break..
    Spread the ear pollution both far and wide...
    Keep your contributions by your side and stroke me, stroke me...

    Could be a winner boy, you move quite well...
    You got your number down...
    Say you're a winner boy - man you're just a sinner now

    You put your left foot out - keep it all in place
    Work your way right into my case
    First you try to bed me - you make my backbone slide...
    But when you find you bled me - skip on by...
    Keep on - stroke me, stroke me -

    Give me the business all night long...
    You're so together boy...
    Say you're a winner but man you're just a sinner now

    Better listen now...(said) it ain't no joke
    Let your conscience fail ya...just do the stroke
    Don'tcha take no chances...keep your eye on top
    Do your fancy dances...you can't stop, you just stroke

    Try that
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    Mar 06, 2013 6:52 AM GMT
    Don't think about it. When the right person comes around it will happen. You probably just have high standards and want to have your cake and eat it.
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:00 AM GMT
    I think being single can be rewarding! You learn a lot about yourself when you are single. Just stay positive and enjoy life!
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Mar 06, 2013 7:42 AM GMT
    Learn how to enjoy your own company. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:44 AM GMT
    I've got the mindset that if I can have heaps of fun on my own, then I'm gonna have a ball if I ever meet someone icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:44 AM GMT
    For you, what's "a long time"?
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:47 AM GMT
    I've been through times where I was in relationships of various lengths, and through times when I was single. In my single days I just dated a lot and had my fun. My buddies and I had our share of "one-nighters" back then (now the word is "hook-ups". I have my memories of some really good times.icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:56 AM GMT
    somewhere over the rainbowww.... wayyy up high.. bliss

    sigh


    find a hobby...
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:59 AM GMT
    Integrity11 saidsomewhere over the rainbowww.... wayyy up high.. bliss

    sigh


    find a hobby...


    Does looking for a boyfriend count as a hobby? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 06, 2013 7:59 AM GMT
    There's nothing to deal with because a relationship has no effect on who I am.
    If I find someone, wonderful. If not, cool.

    Remember that the only person that can decide your happiness is yourself.

    Plus love is always found when you're not looking for it.

    So don't sweat it.
  • squally

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    Mar 06, 2013 8:16 AM GMT
    Science of Happiness~

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    Mar 06, 2013 8:20 AM GMT
    Nolesrunner saidI think being single can be rewarding! You learn a lot about yourself when you are single. Just stay positive and enjoy life!


    So true!!
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    Mar 06, 2013 8:34 AM GMT
    Nolesrunner saidI think being single can be rewarding! You learn a lot about yourself when you are single. Just stay positive and enjoy life!


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  • wild_sky360

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    Mar 06, 2013 9:35 AM GMT
    I enjoy it while it lasts. Not that I don't enjoy my relationships, but there is something to be said for your time being your own, freedom to explore, and focusing on your own goals without the distraction of someone who doesn't necessarily share them.

    It takes some getting used to after a relationship, but it's good practice for what is likely going to be a recurring state over the course of your life.
  • NorthChinaLi

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:20 AM GMT
    anthony2394 saidI've been single for a long time not sure why it's soo hard for love to come , I try to keep myself busy sometimes I just get really lonely any advice ?



    JErK OFF
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    Mar 06, 2013 10:26 AM GMT
    Be your own dream boyfriend.
    Treat yourself, give yourself quality alone time with a passion you enjoy,
    and yes, even write a letter to yourself highlighting all the things you love about you.
    Focus on enjoying your freedom...trust me before you know it there will be guys lining up to take it from you!
  • wild_sky360

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:28 AM GMT
    NorthChinaLi said
    anthony2394 saidI've been single for a long time not sure why it's soo hard for love to come , I try to keep myself busy sometimes I just get really lonely any advice ?



    JErK OFF



    There's plenty of that in relationships...sometimes alone...sometimes together
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    Mar 06, 2013 10:28 AM GMT
    OH HAIL NAW NOT DIS SHEEIT AGAIN

    The OP did this shit all over this site a while ago and ignored everyone's advice, then continued to make these worthless "pity me" threads without ever changing himself for the better.
  • dommyinlosang...

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:29 AM GMT
    anthony2394 saidI've been single for a long time not sure why it's so hard for love to come , I try to keep myself busy sometimes I just get really lonely any advice ?


    i'm the opposite... i love love love being single. i never felt there was this need to have another person be my ultimate love. i have lots of friends. a good amount of very close friends. guys i have sex with and have known for years sometimes.

    i'd say forget about love and if it happens it happens. enjoy being single. then if you do meet someone... it's icing on the cake.

    i can't help but think that if i was in a relationship for the past 10 years... i wouldn't have met all the cool, nice guys i've become friends with or intimate with. that would suck.
  • FitGwynedd

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:30 AM GMT
    I drink a lot because alcohol numbs the pain
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    Mar 06, 2013 10:34 AM GMT
    FitGwynedd saidI drink a lot because alcohol numbs the pain


    it can also get you laid icon_biggrin.gif

    #doubleedgedsword with that one.
  • nic_m3

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:44 AM GMT
    I go to the gym for 2 hours, Work, Go to school, Run a business, Run a Euro car club, Run a non-profit, hang with friends. Basically stay distracted haha.

    I hate being single. I'm big on Snugglin and having someone there for me.
  • FitGwynedd

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:46 AM GMT
    LilPuppet said
    FitGwynedd saidI drink a lot because alcohol numbs the pain


    it can also get you laid icon_biggrin.gif

    #doubleedgedsword with that one.


    Not in these parts it can't
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    Mar 06, 2013 11:12 AM GMT
    intensity69 saidFor you, what's "a long time"?


    like a year and more