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  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 3:19 AM GMT
    Dear friends
    What should i do for the next??. I was at the gym. A guy stealing a glance at me. Well. i act indifferently cause, i dont like a guy who just only watching me. its chiken for me. he did it a couple of time.
    when i finished my work out i went to shower before finaly went to sauna. he came suddenly to the shower in front of me. he moves to sauna. so do i. i decided to finish my sauna, and go back to take the shower. the shower was full. it was a peak time. we were so longtime taking the shower together. we saw each other. i play with my ***** but i try not to have an erection, iam too shy. it takes maybe 45 minutes in the shower, finaly i he finished. i said to my self..DAMN he has gone. so quickly i finish my shoer too. and fortunately my locker is just next to him. i put some moiturising cream, he takes a glance of me. i put off my towel and put on my jockstrap. he takes a glance of me too. finaly he finished all and gone. so do i...well. what should i do for the next? should i say hi to him? or just forget it? should i run after him??? need your advice..thanks

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    Mar 06, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
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    Mar 06, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
    Just forget it. You'll see him on your next visit. Offer to work out with him if you're still game by then.
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    dayumm saidJust forget it. You'll see him on your next visit. Offer to work out with him if you're still game by then.

    so..it means next time i have to talk to him is that?
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    Mar 06, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
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    This sounds like the beginning to a low budget 70's porno icon_lol.gif
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Mar 06, 2013 1:13 PM GMT
    Talk to him. Be flirty!
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    Mar 06, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    the guy likes what he sees. You don't get it
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 06, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    This sounds like some story you read about in books ... I hesitate to say "comedy". If this is real, I would say, either talk to him and get to know him or move along. If he keeps paying attention to you, he's interested and I'd take action to determine the interest. Otherwise, 'its an offer without consideration"....lol
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    Mar 06, 2013 1:39 PM GMT
    BlackCat90 saidtumblr_m417oyrVY81rw64llo4_400.gif

    This sounds like the beginning to a low budget 70's porno icon_lol.gif

    That made me smile, because I had a BF who used to get into role playing (not surprising as a professional actor). One of his favorites was the "Locker Room Scene" where I would take an actual shower, then step out into his large dressing room wearing a towel. He would have placed a painted wooden bench in the middle of the floor, like ones in real locker rooms, on which he'd be sitting and dressed in gym clothes.

    He'd start a conversation, something actually rather uninspired, like: "Hey, how's it going? So, you come here often?" I'd improvise replies, all the while drying off in front of him. Finally he'd get more personal, commenting on the size of my dick and so forth.

    Before long he'd be fondling me, then slowly stripping for a sensual full-body embrace, often pausing for a while when he got down to just his jock. Sometimes we'd do everything standing up, or use the bench, or might end up in his bedroom (how a bed fit into this gym scenario never made any sense).

    In any case it was just OK for me, I'm not much into role playing, a story line doesn't do anything for me that plainer and more direct sex won't do. But thanks, was fun recalling his version of how to cruise in a locker room, which I never encountered in reality. I'm afraid our OP's version sounds just as contrived, and might cause him some grief if he's not more discrete.
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Mar 06, 2013 1:45 PM GMT
    OP - dude, the encounter you described sounds like you're cruising in the baths, not working out. Stop the creepy flirtation and either say 'hi' or take this dance to the back room of a YMCA in the Bible Belt.
    Who expects anything of value from this kind of encounter? He sounds creepy and you sound like a tourist looking for a quick fuck in a country where they cut your dick off if you're gay. Last time I checked, Canada wasn't on that list.
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    Mar 06, 2013 2:50 PM GMT
    Ig, pretend you are at the office and talk to him. Change your perception of what you THINK is going on.
    Ignore your thinking and simply make a friend. If there is more going on you'll find out.
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    Mar 06, 2013 4:17 PM GMT
    ignaceqbc said i play with my ***** but i try not to have an erection


    Really?! In a gym shower! Was this a bathhouse? If it wasn't that's really inappropriate.

    And we wonder why straight athletes don't want to share locker rooms with gays!

    Sometimes people stare or look at someone else because they think that person looks familiar and they are trying to place a face with a name or situation. Instead of playing with your cock in the shower why not say something like:

    You: Hey, have we met somewhere before? You look familiar?

    Him: I was thinking the same thing! I'm sorry for staring but you really do look familiar.

    You: Hey, I'm going to grab an after workout smoothie. Care to join me?

    If he's interested he will say something like: Sure! or Oh, I'm sorry I have a previous engagement but I will take a rain check on that smoothie.

    See how simple that is? And you don't look like a perv playing with himself in the shower.
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    Mar 06, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    UnderCoverMan said, "And we wonder why straight athletes don't want to share locker rooms with gays!"

    This is very important and a wise observation that you need to pay close attention to ignaceqbc.

    You are in a gym not a bathhouse.

  • Hothouse

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    Mar 06, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    Someone has to start a conversation - so do that next time. And, yeah, watch the prolonged flirting and trying to get attention at the gym.
    Say hi and ask if he'd like to meet up outside of the gym sometime (drink, coffee, etc.) don't be afraid to make the first move - you're a grown-ass man, dammit.
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    Mar 06, 2013 6:03 PM GMT
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidSomeone has to start a conversation - so do that next time. And, yeah, watch the prolonged flirting and trying to get attention at the gym.
    Say hi and ask if he'd like to meet up outside of the gym sometime (drink, coffee, etc.) don't be afraid to make the first move - you're a grown-ass man, dammit.


    hahah..i love your statement..thanks..grand merci
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:29 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidSomeone has to start a conversation - so do that next time. And, yeah, watch the prolonged flirting and trying to get attention at the gym.
    Say hi and ask if he'd like to meet up outside of the gym sometime (drink, coffee, etc.) don't be afraid to make the first move - you're a grown-ass man, dammit.


    but i think..i will take time.mean not too fast..first i `ll say..hi!, how you doing..thats all.
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    Mar 06, 2013 10:30 PM GMT
    yes gerl! say hello to him and get dat diq. good luck!
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    hi guys thanks for your opinion i really appreciate it..i belive. Man propose but GOD dispose..love you all
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 06, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    hardbeats saidyes gerl! say hello to him and get dat diq. good luck!

    hi thanks ya :-)
  • ignaceqbc

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    Mar 08, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    Hothouse saidSomeone has to start a conversation - so do that next time. And, yeah, watch the prolonged flirting and trying to get attention at the gym.
    Say hi and ask if he'd like to meet up outside of the gym sometime (drink, coffee, etc.) don't be afraid to make the first move - you're a grown-ass man, dammit.

    the problem is i dont know his schedule...yesterday i didnt see him to day i dont go to gym...damm