Love ?

  • aldss

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    Mar 07, 2013 12:51 PM GMT
    So everyone has there heart broken once in there life time. I'm getting over mine slowly but surly. My question to you guys is, did you find true love again? Or was your next love never the same?
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    Mar 13, 2013 7:02 AM GMT
    I believe that you love everyone differently, but your first will always be your first. It's the kind of experience you never forget.

    But just wait until you find your soul mate
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:39 AM GMT
    Hate to be the pessimist but the truth is gay or straight, you will get heartbreak in life.

    Gay relationship are generally shorter, due to no obligations and the maturity of people these days. A true gentleman is the kind that knows respect. The chances of that is highly based on his family and values he grow up with.
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    Life is too short to live without passion and true love, and sometimes that comes with the second incredible illegal Asian you fall madly in love with, after getting over the hottest hairless Asian in America.
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    Yer not a grown Man until You have had at least one broken heart.

    Good news is that it heals 110% and makes You a better Dude!!!!!

    And trust Me - You will break a few without even knowing it.

    The Heart is a muscle. Muscles get bigger and stronger when they are torn a little and allowed to heal.

    A broken heart is nothing to fear.

    Fearing a broken heart is.

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    Mar 14, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    I avoided it by staying away from relationships till I was 39 lol Ry
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:51 AM GMT
    Yes I have had my heart broken...Yes I gotten over it. However, the problem is, I don't trust people and I constantly look back in the relationship and try to figure out what I did wrong. icon_neutral.gif

    But at one point you got to say Fuck it and move on.
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    RadRTT saidYes I have had my heart broken...Yes I gotten over it. However, the problem is, I don't trust people and I constantly look back in the relationship and try to figure out what I did wrong. icon_neutral.gif

    But at one point you got to say Fuck it and move on.


    In your case you need a contract, a list of requirements and a signature before you begin a relationship. That is the best approach!
  • He_Man

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    Mar 14, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    I, too, am recently getting over a broken heart. Whenever I hear of someone's breakup or of their experience with unrequited love, I always think of this powerful Neil Gaiman quote:

    “Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

    Unless your a narcissistic sociopath (i.e., my ex) then your going to experience pain and heartbreak. To feel is to be human. We are emotionally rich beings. We experience love, hate, happiness, sadness, fear, peace, sorrow and joy. Be glad that you are capable of such emotions. They make this otherwise meaningless existence a little more tolerable and interesting.

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    Mar 14, 2013 3:28 AM GMT
    Yes, I did find true love and no, none of my past loves were the same. I don't expect them to be since every ex I've had were different from each another.
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    Mar 14, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    Your next love shouldn't be the same... It should be better!