gogo_glowstik saidDon't plan hook ups it makes life better.
Plan "dates/hangouts" anything can happen
sTUPID guys who cannot understand this concept are too dense and I have to stay away from them because they will end up infuriating you.
Being Horny, is no reason to hang out I think
Even so flakes happen! 20-25% are legit reasons 75% are because of lacking interest.
The only reason for me to flake is so I can do something with someone I'm more interested in
It's not just hookups bro. I know first time can be nervewrecking sure, but come on now. In reality what's the worst that could happen to them? It's like meeting a stranger out on the street... It's a hookup. Granted certain things could happen to you but when you have some who've done it a few times it's not really a concern. Not a date or marriage. That's why you have a little chat before in person. That was when I used to hookup... They always find an excuse as to why they bail or perform a vanishing trick. The dating scene is sometimes like that too.
In the girl vs guy world a guy may give a girl."3 strikes". We're both dudes, flake 1 time without offering a reschedule or raincheck and that's plenty reason to never talk to them again.
Once a flake happens your best bet is to freeze them out. Don't react immediately and if they feel bad about it or guilty then maybe they'll try to make amends
Flaking is a serious hang up for me and It usually incenses me, I get mad and want the flake to feel some of the pain I feel. Yeah I am trying to work on it
If any of you guys are trying a 2nd and 3rd time I don't understand that
I NEVER want to be on the receiving end of a bullshit "sorry" text or "you're gonna hate me soo much..."
Fuck that (hasn't happened for 2 weeks ha )