Mar 09, 2013 7:02 AM GMT
My boyfriend and I were having sex and I might have been a bit too rough with him. Even though we used lots of lube and used toys to get ready before the act. It was about an hour ago and he has gone to the bathroom twice and each time there was bright blood.
I am searching and searching online to try and find any sort of info to determine whether or not this is just a simple fissure or if it could be something more serious that requires a trip to the hospital. I've read online that a colon perforation can even be fatal but it said symptoms would include nausea, vomiting and fever...he says he does feel a bit nauseous but that could just be anxiety about the blood. I asked him on a 1-10 pain scale how it felt and he said a dull 4.
Does anybody have any idea how to tell if this is just the sort of minor tearing that will heal in a few days or if we should go to the ER?
I've searched some other forum threads and am not finding anything and in most threads people take it off on an STD/HIV tangent...for the record we have been monogamous for over 18 months and have both had STD screens in the past six months that came back clean. He actually participates in an HPV study and got a vaccine and gets examined for that every four months and just went three weeks ago and was clean of that as well.
I am searching and searching online to try and find any sort of info to determine whether or not this is just a simple fissure or if it could be something more serious that requires a trip to the hospital. I've read online that a colon perforation can even be fatal but it said symptoms would include nausea, vomiting and fever...he says he does feel a bit nauseous but that could just be anxiety about the blood. I asked him on a 1-10 pain scale how it felt and he said a dull 4.
Does anybody have any idea how to tell if this is just the sort of minor tearing that will heal in a few days or if we should go to the ER?
I've searched some other forum threads and am not finding anything and in most threads people take it off on an STD/HIV tangent...for the record we have been monogamous for over 18 months and have both had STD screens in the past six months that came back clean. He actually participates in an HPV study and got a vaccine and gets examined for that every four months and just went three weeks ago and was clean of that as well.
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