Is he gay?

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    Mar 09, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    Could he be gay?. This is properly the question that every gay man has ask numerous times in he's life, and now I'm facing having to answer that question yet again.
    I work with a lot of guys with a lot testosterone, and sex and vagina is all ways the main topic. They always adjusting, rubbing and touching there business which is very distracting FYI I'm still in the closet so they don't know I'm playing for the same team.
    So apart from them always checking out woman and talking about sex they keep mentioning how horny they are, now that I get coz I'm always horny and them touching there junk doesn't make things easier I try not to stair for to long at there crouch for them to notice me looking and drooling lol.
    All of this don't bother me, what did was when one of them sayd " I'm so horny I u can fuck you right now" he said this to me in private and once with everyone around. I was dum stuck to a point of me being unable to move or speak the second time he kinda make a joke out of it he even said that I got a nice ass and as he moved pass me he's hand brush my ass ever so softly lol, I then said that I will never get drunk with him cos I just might wake up with a sore wet ass hole hahahah. If been around a lot of str8 men to say that this is not str8 male behavior, right? I am kinda crushing on him but not to the point of me wanting to make a move on him, I'm I reading to much into this I need some advice
    Ps if me post is "unreadable" sorry english not my first language.
    Thanks
  • Lanter

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    Mar 10, 2013 1:44 AM GMT
    Well, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg
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    Mar 10, 2013 1:52 AM GMT
    Sounds like more of a fantasy/crush! If he was gay, he wouldn't make such an announcement in front of a crowd full of str8 men! I'm sure he was joking but your fantasy is hoping he wasn't.
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:01 AM GMT
    If you're not ready to make a move on him even if he is gay or bi or curious, what does it matter? If you're suspected of being gay and you're afraid of what might happen if they found out, then just laugh it off and keep pretending to be straight. But my real advice is to find a good job at a place that you can be open in and then come out to the world. Trust me, you'll be much happier out than in this place where you are afraid. It doesn't have to be that way. Good luck, mate.
  • thegaymessiah

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    I catch other gay guys in real life check me out all the time, it's like they can't help it.

    i can tell they are gay almost instantly because of the way they look at me. they give me a romantic, love/soulful look. they just look like they are interested.

    you can tell via social skills, paying attention to other people - even if you are introverted like me, you can read body language and tell when a person is interested in you.

    straight guys just are bored of your presence, and they won't talk to you or make a conversation or flirt with you.

    it's SOOOO CUTE when im in real life (not the internet ew) with another gay guy and we are having crushy demi lovato feelings for each other. nobody is gonna find real love being on the internet 24/7 it just aint healthy lol.
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    Mar 10, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    I say proceed with caution. This guy sounds "rough" and not necessarily in the good kind of way.

    Generally speaking my experience has been that men who go to an EXTREME degree to prove/demonstrate their heterosexuality are often times hiding something. They're overcompensating for a reason. Just throwing that out for your general consideration.
  • MidwesternKid

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:18 AM GMT
    Boys will be boys. Some guys have no filter. Until he is asking you to get naked with him and have sex, he is just being a typical dude.
  • LJay

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    Trevor, this script has been played before.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    If he ever again says he's so horny he would fuck you, yell out:
    "I call Top"
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    Or do Beyonces 'Put a ring on it"

    He probably suspects you are gay and he's just trying to see how you will react to see if he can read if you are
  • BuggEyedSprit...

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    Mar 10, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg



    Crap, mine are dead even...
  • nomad4life

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    Mar 10, 2013 3:18 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIf he ever again says he's so horny he would fuck you, yell out:
    "I call Top"
    icon_twisted.gif

    Or do Beyonces 'Put a ring on it"

    He probably suspects you are gay and he's just trying to see how you will react to see if he can read if you are


    I support that answer. Call him out on it and see his reaction to your joke.

    There's a test I learned though that has an amazing accuracy rate. Get a really hot girl and a really hot guy to both walk by him at virtually the same time. Watch his eyes. If his eyes dart to the girl, he's straight. If they dart to the guy, he's gay. But be careful. If he turns his whole head to follow the girl, then he's gay but doesn't like that about himself and is trying to be straight.
  • tyler_helm

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    Mar 10, 2013 3:19 AM GMT
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg


    What if they are the same length?
  • HottJoe

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    Mar 10, 2013 3:56 AM GMT
    I remember a quiz posted in another thread to determine masculinity, which had you measure your index finger in millimeters. Now someone posts a palm test???? Is there anything to this?icon_confused.gif
  • LJay

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    Mar 10, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI remember a quiz posted in another thread to determine masculinity, which had you measure your index finger in millimeters. Now someone posts a palm test???? Is there anything to this?icon_confused.gif


    The method described in the quiz the other day is apt to give a more accurate result. Apparently there is something to it, but I can also tell you that I am the exception to the rule. None of this stuff is 100% reliable.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 10, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
    There was a previous reference that indicated if he has a hair colic that swirls counter clockwise then there is a good chance he is gay. But mine swirls clockwise, so I doubt it is very accurate
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    Mar 10, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
    mine is about the same length.. Does that mean I'm bi then
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    Mar 10, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg


    Mine is like the one on the left.
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    Mar 10, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    My left hand is gay but my right is straight.............. what does that mean?? HA
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Mar 10, 2013 1:42 PM GMT
    BornFree said
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg


    OMFG, This WORKED icon_eek.gif


    Didn't work on me
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    Mar 10, 2013 1:46 PM GMT
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg


    wtf... I'm straighticon_eek.gif
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    Mar 10, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    BuggEyedSprite said
    Lanter saidWell, as I'm sure your aware, you will never know for sure unless he says so, but you can always try alternative methods with varying accuracy rates. Try the finger test. For guys the left picture is straight and right is gay. digits.jpg



    Crap, mine are dead even...


    Same here icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 10, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    He might be..gay, curious, bi, gay friendly or just a Shock Jock

    ..Or he really might be straight.

    Maybe..just maybe he's feeling you out.

    ..For now..Consider this a joke..

    If it keeps happening well.. you never know.

    Would you want to bang a co-worker anyway??

    ..