DO YOU THINK A OLDER GUY SHOULD ASK THE YOUNGER (18 and over) GUY ON A DATE?

  • MartinMPL

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    Mar 11, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
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    Mar 12, 2013 1:13 AM GMT
    I'd ask you out!
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    Mar 12, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    Was trying to figure out your accent....then I looked its Australian! Good luck mate!
  • Medjai

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    Mar 12, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    I would love to see an older guy take you out, Martin.
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    Mar 12, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Of course. As long as everybody cums.
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    Mar 12, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    Onigumo saidWas trying to figure out your accent....then I looked its Australian! Good luck mate!


    I think it's adorable the way he goes back and forth between gangsta and North Queenslander.
  • BmwKid92

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    Mar 12, 2013 3:40 AM GMT
    I think hes trying to hard to be someones hes not
    and you sound like your unsure of yourself when you talk. you made me laugh at 1:30-1:42 though lol
  • MidwesternKid

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    Mar 12, 2013 4:17 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidOf course. As long as everybody cums.


    Amen.

    But seriously it doesnt matter to me and as long as both parties are mature and know what they are wanting from the date.
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    Mar 12, 2013 4:30 AM GMT
    I always get really grossed out when gays talk about "understanding what you want", "love yourself", "your needs", "safe/consensual", "mature/experienced", ick icon_lol.gif
  • stratavos

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    Mar 12, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    ... whoever wants to go out more should say it (regardless of if they're younger, older, or better off financially, hell race doesn't even matter for this). It's just a date for fuck's sakes (didn't watch the video).

  • MartinMPL

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    Mar 12, 2013 5:36 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidOf course. As long as everybody cums.

    HAHAH your dirty!
  • MartinMPL

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    Mar 12, 2013 5:37 AM GMT
    stratavos said... whoever wants to go out more should say it (regardless of if they're younger, older, or better off financially, hell race doesn't even matter for this). It's just a date for fuck's sakes (didn't watch the video).

    good for you take the reward of the day
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    Mar 12, 2013 5:39 AM GMT
    it depends. if you like a guy and your comfortable with asking him out then go for it whether he's older or younger. but it all has to do with what you're comfortable with. for example if you're comfortable with asking out the younger guy but a guy younger than you whom you like ask you out then why not ask them out on a second date after the first date or ask them out on a different date that you both are free?
  • EricLA

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    Mar 12, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    Maybe the older guy doesn't think he has a chance with you. I like a bit of equality. I'd be flattered if a 20-something asked me out.

    You did bring up money. Now, I wouldn't expect him to pay for the date unless he made really good money, I'd at least go dutch, or paid for what he could and I'd cover the rest.

    But any older guy would be lucky to have a guy like you interested in them,
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 12, 2013 6:17 AM GMT
    An older guy can get very rudely treated when he hits on a younger guy, so don't put all the onus on him. Step up to the plate.
  • Saffron69

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    Mar 12, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    Having been taken out by both older and younger guys I will admit having the younger guy pay made me feel a little inadequate, but he was done with school n working n I was still in school. Needless to say If the situation was turned around I wouldn't mind paying for the older guy. I think it had more to do with the fact that I wouldn't have been able to take the younger guy out cause I was broke at the time.
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    Mar 12, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    WHY ARE YOU YELLING
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Mar 12, 2013 7:17 AM GMT
    timshel saidWHY ARE YOU YELLING



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  • O5vx

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    Mar 12, 2013 7:46 AM GMT
    50/50 no cheating is how paying for date meal should go. Who cares who asks first really? If ya like him go for it.
  • MartinMPL

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    Mar 13, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
    timshel saidWHY ARE YOU YELLING


    whos yelling? lol
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    Mar 14, 2013 1:11 AM GMT
    mashedpotatoes saidI always get really grossed out when gays talk about "understanding what you want", "love yourself", "your needs", "safe/consensual", "mature/experienced", ick icon_lol.gif


    "love yourself" is so 2011/lady gaga. As for the rest, hehe, I think all that other shady gay-speak comes from 40 year olds on craigslist icon_lol.gif
  • whytehot

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    Mar 15, 2013 12:28 AM GMT
    I particularly like "clearly communicating what YOU want, safe words, etc" like at a whorehouse in Amsterdam. If it's not written in a contract it's your fault
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    Mar 15, 2013 1:39 AM GMT
    MartinMPL said
    GAMRican saidOf course. As long as everybody cums.

    HAHAH your dirty!


    If you LITERALLY knew. icon_twisted.gif
  • He_Man

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    Mar 15, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    If said "older" guy is interested in going out on a date with said "younger" guy, then, yes, the older guy should ask the younger guy out! Is it really that hard? If said "younger" guy is interested in going out on a date with said "older" guy, then, yes the younger guy should likewise as the older guy out.

    Whatever party is the interested party should be responsible for asking whomever they are interested in going out with. Life shouldn't be all that complicated.

    It reminds me of this video (start at 1:00):

  • jayatl56

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    Mar 15, 2013 1:35 PM GMT
    My ex and I had 30 years between us. He chased me for months and I caved. He was in school and didn't have a job so it meant I paid for everything. After graduation he worked for me, in my company, and had a salary plus commissions. He did very well but even then never contributed because he thought that it was his money and he wanted to save it. He never contributed to the household and when business started sliding I asked him to help with some expenses. He got angry that I was asking him to help pay a few bills. It was then I realized that it was all about him and his lifestyle not OUR lives together. Then he got caught cheating - with older guys with money. When they didn't "take care of him" he moved on.

    Needless to say, when a young guy approaches me I'm very hesitant - so much so I ruin things. But on the other end of the spectrum I get the straight shooters who write and ask immediately "are you generous?". It's just assumed that older men = money I guess when there are many more successful young guys out there. Men in their 30s are doing quite well but I think, much like my ex, they have the "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine" attitude when meeting an older man.

    (Am I bitter?)