life is easier as a top

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    Mar 14, 2013 2:27 AM GMT
    so i've concluded after much done personal experiences that A) life is much easier as a top , i don't have to watch what i eat , i could 5 minutes before sex and be ok , 2) no over stretching ( unless someone is a complete whore and has bumps and lumps on their peen that's gross lol )

    i started as a bottom , because my first Bf was afraid to bottom , than i topped for the first time in college got some practice , sophomore year i topped once and i don't know why or what the fuck was up with my sex drive that day but i actually couldn't finish, i kept going and going and going but as a bottom after about 30 minutes i wana stop i'm so paranoid about discharging on someone how embarrassing. also as a top i think it feel better IMO

    has anyone just randomly changed their preference for top vs bottom ? if so why and did you eve go back ?
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    Agreed. I used to bottom all the time, but I've started topping and its so much easier. I still love to bottom, but topping requires almost no work haha.
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    Ha. Yes. The hard life of a bottom.icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 14, 2013 2:40 AM GMT
    You guys just got around to figuring this out huh? I think I randomly found this out accidentally around age 14.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 14, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidHa. Yes. The hard life of a bottom.icon_cry.gif

    Ha. Yes. The HARD life of a bottom icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 14, 2013 3:15 AM GMT
    fucking someone requires lots of energy... so i am happy to be a bottom.hahaicon_eek.gif
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    Mar 14, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    I wonder if the top thinks it's easy when he becomes dependent on Viagra or Cialis.
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    Mar 14, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    ShawnLee saidfucking someone requires lots of energy... so i am happy to be a bottom.hahaicon_eek.gif


    This is true, I forgot being a bottom you don't work as hard icon_razz.gif. Well, during the actual sex part anyway
  • highforthis

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    Mar 14, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
    Also bottoms outnumber tops, so they'll have to share icon_lol.gif
  • geebus

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    Mar 14, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    XDanW said
    ShawnLee saidfucking someone requires lots of energy... so i am happy to be a bottom.hahaicon_eek.gif


    This is true, I forgot being a bottom you don't work as hard icon_razz.gif. Well, during the actual sex part anyway


    Reverse cowgirl. Boom.
  • Hothouse

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    Mar 14, 2013 2:00 PM GMT
    Sure, there's not as much prep before sex for the Top, but he's usually more physically active during the act.
    (I hear one bottom say he wasn't sure if he was a bottom because he liked it or because he was lazy.)
    If he's doing it right, there's usually a lot of foreplay prior to fucking too - and it's usually expected that the Top is going to get and stay hard - and that's he's going to reach orgasm too.
    So, maybe more preformance pressure for the Top man.
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    Mar 04, 2014 6:03 AM GMT
    Being Top gives me a manly pride. Ofcourse thats no excuse but it does. My experience so far speaks, sometimes or may be all the time bottoms turns out to be helplessly inactive. They want tops to do everything. In that such a case I wonder women would be have been choice.
  • Puppymuncher

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    Mar 05, 2014 11:24 PM GMT
    Not all bottoms are lazy..

    Powerbottoms represent!
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    Mar 05, 2014 11:32 PM GMT
    Not all guys who bottom are inactive/lazy by choice though it's not like gay sex ed is taught at school so sometimes it may be the case they don't know what they are actually doing. Also I can confirm as someone who has never topped a guy you can still get performance anxieties.
  • Svnw688

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    Mar 06, 2014 12:18 AM GMT
    Life is EASIER as a top, but it FEELS BETTER as a bottom.
  • Apparition

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    Mar 06, 2014 3:04 AM GMT
    all the bottom has to do is say yes...I will take care of the rest...and I dont worry about a little mess so relax.