there's a lot of single guys on this site.

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    Mar 15, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    what gives? why are so many guys on here single?
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    Mar 15, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    The partnered guys have better things to do.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 15, 2013 7:36 PM GMT
    because it is a really big world filled with 7 billion people.
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    Mar 15, 2013 7:43 PM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidThe partnered guys have better things to do.


    it's not even that. just going through the profiles. i've seen way more single guys than partnered guys. why though?
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    Mar 15, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    Why are of single? Go on, Enlighten us.
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:06 PM GMT
    scaredmidget said
    DudeInNOVA saidThe partnered guys have better things to do.


    it's not even that. just going through the profiles. i've seen way more single guys than partnered guys. why though?


    Well, if you were single wouldn't you join a website that had other single gay men and.....oh wait, you did. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:09 PM GMT
    For me it's because I don't want to date anyone and I don't want a relationship.

    I had a long relationship and two shorter ones and I honestly have no interest in another one at all right now.

    So I don't bother dating at all.

    A lot of guys I've met though, who want a relationship. I've noticed a disturbing trend.

    They want the relationship, all the comfort it provides, the security and the happiness it can potentially give but they them self aren't willing to invest in it and ride the bumpy waters long enough after the honeymoon period is over and see out the rocky times for the good.

    Or they spend so much time craning their necks over the fence at the greener pastures and jump ship early and often.
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:22 PM GMT
    The grass is amazingly scrumptious in Australia...*sigh
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    scaredmidget said
    DudeInNOVA saidThe partnered guys have better things to do.


    it's not even that. just going through the profiles. i've seen way more single guys than partnered guys. why though?


    Well, if you were single wouldn't you join a website that had other single gay men and.....oh wait, you did. icon_wink.gif


    uhhh where's the hostility coming from? i'm simply asking a question off of an observation that i had. no need for anybody to get offended or throw a hissy fit. wait til i say something offensive so you can do that. let's not get ahead of ourselves yet.
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:39 PM GMT
    scaredmidget said
    meninlove said
    scaredmidget said
    DudeInNOVA saidThe partnered guys have better things to do.


    it's not even that. just going through the profiles. i've seen way more single guys than partnered guys. why though?


    Well, if you were single wouldn't you join a website that had other single gay men and.....oh wait, you did. icon_wink.gif


    uhhh where's the hostility coming from? i'm simply asking a question off of an observation that i had. no need for anybody to get offended or throw a hissy fit. wait til i say something offensive so you can do that. let's not get ahead of ourselves yet.



    That was offensive?!?!?!?!

    ...oh my. Well apologies are in order. I was being cheeky. Hence the wink.

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    Mar 15, 2013 9:39 PM GMT
    datscarf saidThat's a very interesting question....
    That's a very very interesting question....
    That's a very interesting question....



    I think you get the point.


    i guess it is. *shrugs* didn't expect people to get irritated about something so simple.
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:41 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    scaredmidget said
    meninlove said
    scaredmidget said
    DudeInNOVA saidThe partnered guys have better things to do.


    it's not even that. just going through the profiles. i've seen way more single guys than partnered guys. why though?


    Well, if you were single wouldn't you join a website that had other single gay men and.....oh wait, you did. icon_wink.gif


    uhhh where's the hostility coming from? i'm simply asking a question off of an observation that i had. no need for anybody to get offended or throw a hissy fit. wait til i say something offensive so you can do that. let's not get ahead of ourselves yet.



    That was offensive?!?!?!?!

    ...oh my. Well apologies are in order. I was being cheeky. Hence the wink.



    sorry, man. i apologize for that. i didn't see the wink smilie and i usually am the last one to understand a joke if i ever understand it. i'm sorry, man. it was all a misunderstanding. *hugs*
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    Mar 15, 2013 9:44 PM GMT


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  • calibro

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    Mar 16, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    seriously, have you not listened to this crazy people?
  • Rhi_Bran

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    Mar 16, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    Because although gaymers abound near Minneapolis, most of them don't take very good care of their bodies icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Rhi_Bran saidBecause although gaymers abound near Minneapolis, most of them don't take very good care of their bodies icon_rolleyes.gif


    i'm a gaymer in the closet. icon_mad.gif haha.
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidFor me it's because I don't want to date anyone and I don't want a relationship.

    I had a long relationship and two shorter ones and I honestly have no interest in another one at all right now.

    So I don't bother dating at all.

    A lot of guys I've met though, who want a relationship. I've noticed a disturbing trend.

    They want the relationship, all the comfort it provides, the security and the happiness it can potentially give but they them self aren't willing to invest in it and ride the bumpy waters long enough after the honeymoon period is over and see out the rocky times for the good.

    Or they spend so much time craning their necks over the fence at the greener pastures and jump ship early and often.


    Truth. I could not have said it better myself.
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    dude,,,,, a lot of VERY HOT single dudes on here.. wtf????? i noes!!!!
  • Rhi_Bran

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    Mar 16, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Seric said
    Rhi_Bran saidBecause although gaymers abound near Minneapolis, most of them don't take very good care of their bodies icon_rolleyes.gif


    i'm a gaymer in the closet. icon_mad.gif haha.


    Sigh. Most of the gaymers around here are the kind that chug soda all day and don't work it off.
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    gaymer? Why have I not learned this term. I'm assuming a gay who is into video games. simple enough. Therefore....I am..a Gaymer! Whoop!
  • calibro

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    Mar 16, 2013 3:10 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidFor me it's because I don't want to date anyone and I don't want a relationship.

    I had a long relationship and two shorter ones and I honestly have no interest in another one at all right now.

    So I don't bother dating at all.

    A lot of guys I've met though, who want a relationship. I've noticed a disturbing trend.

    They want the relationship, all the comfort it provides, the security and the happiness it can potentially give but they them self aren't willing to invest in it and ride the bumpy waters long enough after the honeymoon period is over and see out the rocky times for the good.

    Or they spend so much time craning their necks over the fence at the greener pastures and jump ship early and often.


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    Mar 16, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    because you're all stupid icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:14 AM GMT
    McQueen saidbecause you're all stupid icon_smile.gif


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    Mar 16, 2013 3:16 AM GMT
    Why are you on here? You're single, maybe you have something in common with a lot of other single guys.... just a thought.
  • Medjai

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    Mar 16, 2013 3:18 AM GMT
    Because so many single guys have higher standards than they can justify.