Cruised at the Gym: Flattering or Annoying?

  • CKTwink1253

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    Mar 16, 2013 1:48 AM GMT
    I've been getting cruised on at my local gym. Part of it flatters me that I get so much attention. But, the other part of me is there to work out, and maybe the gym shouldn't be treated like a club.

    Your thoughts?
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    Mar 16, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    depends on what you mean by "cruised"?

    do you mean a smile as you pass each other on the way to the water fountain

    or

    do you mean smiles at you in the locker room with him in nothing but a towel as he licks his lips, his left hand pinching his nip while his right hand strokes his buldge?





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  • CKTwink1253

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    Mar 16, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    Maybe it depends on my mood haha
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    Mar 16, 2013 1:57 AM GMT
    you go to a gay gym or something?
  • CKTwink1253

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    Mar 16, 2013 2:01 AM GMT
    dudewithabeard saiddepends on what you mean by "cruised"?

    do you mean a smile as you pass each other on the way to the water fountain

    or

    do you mean smiles at you in the locker room with him in nothing but a towel as he licks his lips, his left hand pinching his nip while his left hand strokes his buldge?


    The second one, surprisingly. Guys will actually stop, turn, and just dead stare at me until I say something. So weird!
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    CKTwink1253 saidMaybe it depends on my mood haha



    huh.. not sure what you mean by that.. but just in case we are on the same page.. smile at the water fountain is ok... smile in the locker room where at least one person is groping himself is NOT ok at my gym.

    edit: saw your next post... and no, unless this gym is in a bath house, then no, it's not cool. It's membership revoked and possible arrest and not what other members pay to put up with in their gyms.
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    Be glad your'e getting the attention..
    I guess you must be kinda crusin' too to be so distracted?
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:09 AM GMT
    It's annoying I am working out please stop staring at me like I robbed you it's weird and uncomfortable....doesn't matter that you are hot I am trying to focus!
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:09 AM GMT
    CKTwink1253 said
    dudewithabeard saiddepends on what you mean by "cruised"?

    do you mean a smile as you pass each other on the way to the water fountain

    or

    do you mean smiles at you in the locker room with him in nothing but a towel as he licks his lips, his left hand pinching his nip while his left hand strokes his buldge?


    The second one, surprisingly. Guys will actually stop, turn, and just dead stare at me until I say something. So weird!


    OK, the second type is over the top. I'd find it off-putting in that milieu.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 16, 2013 2:12 AM GMT
    unless someone is actively getting into your way, just let it go and ignore it
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:12 AM GMT
    It is a bit distracting, appreciate it for what it's worth, but just continue to move on with your workout. I found not making eye contact and having your headphones on is the best bet for them to stop, or even if they don't stop you can't tell because you're not looking at them :]
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:21 AM GMT
    I do think it would be annoying. I'm focused on my workout when at the gym. Fortunately, it doesn't happen much (if at all).
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:25 AM GMT
    CKTwink1253 saidI've been getting cruised on at my local gym. Part of it flatters me that I get so much attention. But, the other part of me is there to work out, and maybe the gym shouldn't be treated like a club.

    Your thoughts?


    I don't seem to have your problem. icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:30 AM GMT
    Depends on whose cruising you. If he's hot, then... icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:51 AM GMT
    I tend to pick up the hottest chick at the gym and then the dudes there hate me haha.
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    Where is Firebrand when you need him
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    Mar 16, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidDepends on whose cruising you. If he's hot, then... icon_wink.gif


    Yep +1
  • calibro

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    Mar 16, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    i hate it when tom cruise shows up at my gym...
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    I work out at a college gym and often get cruised by the college boys especially the black guys.. I just smile.
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    Mar 16, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
    calibro saidi hate it when tom cruise shows up at my gym...


    I hate it when Penelope Cruz shows up at my gym
  • TroyAthlete

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    Mar 16, 2013 3:47 AM GMT
    Cruised by attractive guy = flattering
    Cruised by unattractive guy = annoying

    /end thread
  • FlypinHigh

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    Mar 16, 2013 4:50 AM GMT
    there is more than one reason someone will look at you at the gym
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 16, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
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    Mar 16, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    TroyAthlete saidCruised by attractive guy = flattering
    Cruised by unattractive guy = annoying

    /end thread


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  • calibro

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    Mar 16, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    calibro saidi hate it when tom cruise shows up at my gym...


    I hate it when Penelope Cruz shows up at my gym


    but i like her husband