Medjai saidI would not keep with a poz guy. I will only sleep with a guy who is actually negative.
Say what you will. My mind isn't changing. My health is not worth risking for a fun night.
Everyone is entitled to use whatever criteria they want. Everyone is responsible for their own sexual decisions. For me until I am with someone for several months and we decide to be monogamous and we both get simultaneously tested, I will operate under the assumption that each and every person I'm with is positive. They could be lying (and lots of people lie about their status.) Worse, they could not know themselves. I've had guys ask me if I was positive or negative. What does that tell you? Absolutely nothing.
For me personally, I have been in a great relationship with a positive man. (I'm negative.) My best friend is positive and his partner is negative. I feel like it's hard enough to meet the right guy, let alone immediately eliminate a big chunk of the population right off the bat.