Do you like guys around your age?

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    Mar 17, 2013 7:40 AM GMT
    I am not sure if this topic is discussed to death yet. But I noticed in the dating forum, there are several topics with hot older/younger men threads. I mean, it's cool and all. I am asking this question because well after meeting several older, younger guys. They kind of left a sour taste in my mouth (lol, ok kinda harsh and I'm not talking about cum either **for those dirty minds :lolicon_smile.gif but I just realize that I became more attracted and interested in men around my age, give or take 2-3 years. (29-33). I am sort of wishing to find a man around my age to get hitched now.

    Do any of you guys feel this way? like your own age types?

    What about guys who only date younger or older? Your thoughts on this?

    Do a lot of older guys date other older guys and younger guys date younger guys?

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    Mar 17, 2013 1:22 PM GMT
    I don't see any issues with two guys dating with large age gaps as long as both guys are happy. Personally speaking, my preference is dating guys my age but definitely not a rule. Now that I think about it, the biggest age gap I've dated was 6 years. I did encounter a guy 18 years younger who wanted to date but I said no. I think I turned him into a bitter queen.
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:40 PM GMT
    I have a solution, date who you want(as long as everyone is legal, duh), at whatever age you want. Also, allow others to do the same. Problem solved.
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    I prefer guys a couple of years older than me....although I don't like my cup overflowing.
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:48 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidI have a solution, date who you want, at whatever age you want. Also, allow others to do the same. Problem solved.


    I'm sure he meant as long as it's legal.
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    I'll date anything kind, cute and loving... Age is not an issue..

    Toss me in a crowd of guys (After i get off my knees icon_biggrin.gif ) and my immediate attraction is to older men.

    ..Put me in a circle of people socializing together and i'll go for the wackiest, kindest , funniest guy despite age (legal) ..if he's into me.



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    Mar 17, 2013 4:51 PM GMT
    I do prefer guys older than me (prefer 2-5 years, but will go up to 10), but have had relationships with men down to 5 years younger. I do think it's adorable when a 19 YO hits on me. Awwww
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    If they make me tent I don't care how old they are.
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:56 PM GMT
    I prefer around my age. Within say 10 years. But there are exceptions of course.
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    Most of my mates tend to be older because many times I cannot stand to listen to the men and women of my generation talk.

    But that's why the good Lord invented the ball gag.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidMen my age, if still single, mostly have to date up or down. There aren't too many of us in my age cohort that weren't killed off in the 80s and 90s. It makes dating especially difficult for us.


    Thank you for simultaneously depressing me and making me count my many blessings.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    After recently failing to date a guy 8 years older than me he's 28 I've concluded I like guys around my age , no older than 5 yrs . Better connection icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:28 PM GMT
    I like them old and senile.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:32 PM GMT
    I really like guys around my age, it's guys around my age that don't like me. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    I like the extreme elderly. Preferably in late stages of Dementia.

    They tire easily and don't give Me a hard time about ordering two desserts.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    Any age is good for me, but I seem to connect with the late 20s/early 30s crowd more than my own age bracket.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    I like most age ranges. Ideally though, I'd find a partner withing 1-10 years of my age. (I kinda like guys who are slightly older than me though.)

    If guys want to date just younger or older guys, I have no problem with that. However, I think it's sad that they are closing themselves off on love for something as trivial as age.

  • Whipmagic

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    Mar 17, 2013 5:42 PM GMT
    When it comes to dating, I'm looking for men who are roughly at the same stage of their life. That means professionally secure, comfortable with their sexuality, and still open and energetic enough to try new things. That usually implies roughly the same age - thirtysomething to fortysomething, but that is somewhat mallable. On the other hand, for going out, havingdinner together, etc., and maybe hookup once in a while along the lines of friend with benefits, I don't really consider age, although the hotness factor comes into play for the hookup part.
  • mybud

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    Mar 17, 2013 5:45 PM GMT
    I'm lookin for an old multi -millionare who'll wear my home made banana peel slippers to breakfast......
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:51 PM GMT
    Mostly around my age or a little older.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:52 PM GMT
    I prefer guys who are older than me....around my age isn't bad though icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    I like them Rich and Dead. icon_biggrin.gif

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  • wellwell

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    Mar 17, 2013 5:55 PM GMT
    ...Since about 1st grade, I've never enjoyed my immediate peers. Now-a-days, it's impossible to get romantic w/ anyone older than about 34/5.
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    Mar 17, 2013 6:21 PM GMT
    Erik101 said. I did encounter a guy 18 years younger who wanted to date but I said no. I think I turned him into a bitter queen.


    lol What did you say to him that made you think you turned him into a bitter queen at 18 ? icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 17, 2013 6:25 PM GMT
    Around like....

    Around the Moon? or

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    Around the Sun?

    To be honest around my age? are the ones of what you call "Ideal" age group but have not found the one I could like Not read his mind. icon_rolleyes.gif

    If I place it in broad spectrum, The ones I could read are the ones usually not the actual one, cause I tend to become more dominant later on so in life as a control factor of a kind. I don't know but its never nice nor fair having the one that tend being the dominating one, cause If there is such thing as companionship / couple /partner in life I do believe (we/they) need to do things equally together, being the One as the 2.icon_biggrin.gif

    Same goes to the ones that could read my mind it's not fun nor it is fair. icon_razz.gif

    I tend to get attracted to the ones I could never read his mind neither He could mine but same time understands that "something" of what's inside.

    * I don't know it's hard to describe it.

    To your question: Nope no really, but I do get attracted to the ones older, on younger ones I've notice I tend to argue with them. So that said I'm open to whatever that comes but with that like minded, probably there on we could adjust the equalizer of our lives as the music we listen to.icon_wink.gif