Have You ever dated married guy?

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    Mar 17, 2013 8:45 AM GMT
    Be a rival to wife can lead to crazy situations. Do You have any experience with that?
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:43 PM GMT
    I had several FWBs who were married...something I'm not proud of. I never met the wives and didn't care to. I'm just glad that was the past and was able to move on.
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    Mar 17, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    I have a list of deal-breakers I bust out when discussing a first date, one of which is "are you in a relationship" which would include married to a man or woman. If the perspective date is honest, he would say, "why yes, I have a frumpy wife at home, who after giving birth to quite a few children is tired and all stretched out, so I play around."
    At that point, I am done.
    Deal breakers. Get some. Avoid drama.
  • AlwaysRoaming

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    Mar 17, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    Oh hell no. The possibility of drama or shit getting messy fast is way too high.
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    Mar 17, 2013 3:06 PM GMT
    Arcturian saidBe a rival to wife can lead to crazy situations. Do You have any experience with that?


    Yes, if you think the man is going to leave his wife for you, think again. Most likely it isn't going to happen. He's too scared to own his sexuality. All he sees you is a cum dump.

    The angst, guilt and fear makes it exhausting.
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidI have a list of deal-breakers I bust out when discussing a first date, one of which is "are you in a relationship" which would include married to a man or woman. If the perspective date is honest, he would say, "why yes, I have a frumpy wife at home, who after giving birth to quite a few children is tired and all stretched out, so I play around."
    At that point, I am done.
    Deal breakers. Get some. Avoid drama.


    QFT! I had to learn as well when someone flirted with me to ask "Are you single?" I guess that question never dawned on me as being necessary before the last year...maybe I'm just too naive being from the Midwest.

    I have made my share of mistakes in my past, but one thing I take a lot of pride in myself is that I've never hit on a guy that I've known was taken. If I know someone is in a relationship (whether with a guy or girl), they are immediately off-limits.

    It's seems so hard to find love and happiness when you are gay because your dating pool is so much smaller. I would never want to ruin someone else's relationship, even if it was going through a rough patch.
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:48 PM GMT
    Hell naw. Every gay man will have a choice at some point to fool around with a married man - but my take on this is pretty clear. It's wrong, and there's another family involved. Let him fuck that up with someone else.
  • thatirishbast...

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    Mar 17, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    Sure did. We went on three dates together before he told me. There was no fourth date.
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    Technically, anyone who dates me is dating a married guy. My ex and I never did the paperwork. But we've been separated for 4.5 years... and no, never getting back with that crazy Hungarian bastard, so no guilt. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 17, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidHell naw. Every gay man will have a choice at some point to fool around with a married man - but my take on this is pretty clear. It's wrong, and there's another family involved. Let him fuck that up with someone else.

    This^^^
  • owen19832006

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    Mar 17, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    not date but shagged once he wanted to meet again and i said no.
  • thatirishbast...

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    Mar 17, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    Shawnathan saidI'm meeting up with a guy today that's legally separated, but not divorced, because his ex is an idiot and won't sign the papers.


    I thought you were spending the day-night-early morning with me!

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  • calibro

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    Mar 17, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    it depends on how closeted republican they are in that i want at least eight figures from larry flynt for the sex tape
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:09 PM GMT
    Was in a relationship with a guy who had a GF. Will never do that again. It ended in 2 months.

    It's a direct shot to one's self-esteem. Obviously, the guy "values" his significant other over you. The worst part is: you fail to love yourself because you just made yourself a second-class citizen by being the mistress.

    Lesson Learned: Never be in a relationship where you're the (male) mistress... even if you love the guy.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:11 PM GMT
    calibro saidit depends on how closeted republican they are in that i want at least eight figures from larry flynt for the sex tape

    I'll give 3 dollars, a fur ball my cat spewed up and a pint of Ben and Jerry's vanilla, but that's it-but the tape has to be a lot better that the last one with you and that pony.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:21 PM GMT
    Both my guy and I were married when we met and started living together. My guy is still married but hasn't lived with his wife since 2005. They decided to go their separate ways after she confessed to being a lesbian and he to being gay. I've met her and he and I have socialized with her on numerous occasions and have had her over to the house for parties and she has invited us to her parties. She's a good person and a lot of fun; I like her and she seems to like me.
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    smartmoney said
    calibro saidit depends on how closeted republican they are in that i want at least eight figures from larry flynt for the sex tape

    I'll give 3 dollars, a fur ball my cat spewed up and a pint of Ben and Jerry's vanilla, but that's it-but the tape has to be a lot better that the last one with you and that pony.


    1. lindsey graham is very sensitive about you calling him a pony
    2. i can't help it that all i have to record with is my cell phone from 2004
    3. it's cherry garcia or to hell with your offer
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    Mar 17, 2013 5:37 PM GMT
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    UndercoverMan saidBoth my guy and I were married when we met and started living together. My guy is still married but hasn't lived with his wife since 2005. They decided to go their separate ways after she confessed to being a lesbian and he to being gay. I've met her and he and I have socialized with her on numerous occasions and have had her over to the house for parties and she has invited us to her parties. She's a good person and a lot of fun; I like her and she seems to like me.


    Was your wife a lesbian?


    No; however, we were separated when my guy and I got together.
  • winwin

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    Mar 17, 2013 5:57 PM GMT
    Yes I have dated a guy who was married and he exited the closet after we met. He then very soon divorced her to be with me and we were together for many years. For some reason his family always thought that I "made" him gay and that I was the reason for his divorce. How dumb was that!
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    Mar 17, 2013 6:14 PM GMT
    calibro said
    smartmoney said
    calibro saidit depends on how closeted republican they are in that i want at least eight figures from larry flynt for the sex tape

    I'll give 3 dollars, a fur ball my cat spewed up and a pint of Ben and Jerry's vanilla, but that's it-but the tape has to be a lot better that the last one with you and that pony.


    1. lindsey graham is very sensitive about you calling him a pony
    2. i can't help it that all i have to record with is my cell phone from 2004
    3. it's cherry garcia or to hell with your offer

    First, Jews don't negotiate (kidding, that's all we do).
    2. Everyone already has a tape of Lindsay and a farm animal.
    2B. I only view VHS sex tapes, into high quality, or none at all.
    7. No such thing as cherry garcia, how about LingLang Surprise?
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    Mar 17, 2013 6:19 PM GMT
    NO!

    That is where I personally draw the line.
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Mar 17, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
    No
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    Mar 17, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    Date no, blow job.....lets see him first.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 17, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidI have a list of deal-breakers I bust out when discussing a first date, one of which is "are you in a relationship" which would include married to a man or woman. If the perspective date is honest, he would say, "why yes, I have a frumpy wife at home, who after giving birth to quite a few children is tired and all stretched out, so I play around."
    At that point, I am done.
    Deal breakers. Get some. Avoid drama.
    what he said. i do not understand people's logic. if they are married than you are not in a relationship. u are the other person. get some morals and self-esteem
  • blueyedgrey20...

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    Mar 18, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    fuck that shit.