My issue with Asians

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    Mar 17, 2013 4:45 PM GMT
    I don't know why the moderator deleted my thread from yesterday, but this issue needs to be raised. I'm aware it's politically-incorrect to single out a race, but other threads have done the same with whites, etc, and I haven't experienced this issue with other races.

    I've been online messaging a few Asian men in their 20's, and they seem nice. They seemed receptive to meeting up at their house after just one or two messages. But none of them ever show up. And for some reason the meet-ups are never local; I've driven for hours to Long Island, Westchester county, etc to get to these meetups, only to be stood up. When I message them the next day, they'd apologize and arrange another meet-up, only to no-show again.

    Is it that hard to tell someone in advance that you can't make an appointment? If they are doing it on purpose, why? and how could they sleep at night, with so much malice towards older guys?
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    Mar 17, 2013 7:29 PM GMT
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    Seriously man, please fucking disappear!
  • winwin

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    Mar 17, 2013 9:28 PM GMT
    I'm sorry that that happened to you but it could have been any race, so race is not the issue here. Some people regardless of their race/color are just downright rude and have no manners nor morals.
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    Mar 17, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    Have you ever been stood up by a young Asian who first initiated contact with you?

    Has there been a difference between young Asians who initiate contact with you versus young Asians you contact first?

    Have you ever been stood up by a middle-aged or old Asian regardless of who contacted who first?

    Do you ever message young non-Asians, and if so has there been a difference between young non-Asians who initiate contact with you versus young non-Asians you contact first?
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    Mar 17, 2013 10:01 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidHave you ever been stood up by a young Asian who first initiated contact with you?

    Has there been a difference between young Asians who initiate contact with you versus young Asians you contact first?

    Have you ever been stood up by a middle-aged or old Asian regardless of who contacted who first?

    Do you ever message young non-Asians, and if so has there been a difference between young non-Asians who initiate contact with you versus young non-Asians you contact first?

    This, but only because it does not make a lick of sense.
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    Mar 17, 2013 10:17 PM GMT
    eagermuscle, are you suggesting that OP should always let the other guy initiate contact first? Don't think that's the answer here lol...
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    Mar 17, 2013 11:49 PM GMT
    raoul22 saideagermuscle, are you suggesting that OP should always let the other guy initiate contact first? Don't think that's the answer here lol...


    To be on the safe side, nobody should ever initiate contact, then you know exactly where you stand.
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    Mar 18, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidHave you ever been stood up by a young Asian who first initiated contact with you?

    Has there been a difference between young Asians who initiate contact with you versus young Asians you contact first?

    Have you ever been stood up by a middle-aged or old Asian regardless of who contacted who first?

    Do you ever message young non-Asians, and if so has there been a difference between young non-Asians who initiate contact with you versus young non-Asians you contact first?


    It's seems to be always me initiating contact, unless the other guy is also around my age, but I'm not interested (I have my preferences). I have contacted arab and black guys too, but mostly Asian. The others say "no" or might be too shy to reply, but the several who have stood me up were all Asian, hence I am calling them out.

    It's very sad that there are others here who are judging my preferences. I am not a racist... in fact I am open to all races and PREFER Asians.
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    Mar 18, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    haha, this is like the reverse topic of *My issues with caucasians we had a while ago. Ok, speaking from a non-racist point of view, I read somewhere that Asian boyfriends (straight and gay) are like hot commodity at the moment. It's not just white guys but the trend is they're opening up to other races and their own people. (The article sums up basically because we look young, smart, had good jobs...etc. you know husband material qualities).

    I do see Gay asian couples here mixed with a lot of ethnicities in the LA metro (not just white). As far as older guys go, it depends but it's rarely that a really young guy go for a dude over 50. (Sorry, but that's the harsh truth).

    I can concluded a couple of things reading your posts and several replies.

    . They're not interested - making you chasing them like an idiot.
    . They're flaky and most guys on online dating are.
    . Just because you expressed and someone said yes, they can change their mind for whatever reasons. Life's not fair that way!
    . Your chances are slim, I think it's wise to open yourself up to *other ethnicity and even guys around your age. I mean, how many rejections can one take before they change their mind.


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    Mar 18, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    olderbetter said
    It's seems to be always me initiating contact, unless the other guy is also around my age, but I'm not interested (I have my preferences). It's very sad that there are others here who are judging my preferences. I am not a racist... in fact I am open to all races and PREFER Asians.


    So you're not a Racist....just an Ageist. Like one is better than the other? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 18, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    So could it be that you are choosing the same TYPE of guys that keep rejecting you?

    This is not a race issue..it's a TYPE issue!

    Why choose the same TYPE of guys over and over when the results are the same??

    It's 2013.. If you still think there are definitive TAGS to each race you are wrong!!!

    ..Kind,honest,open,loving caring, mean,cocky,flaky, judgmental, narcissistic are HUMAN traits..every race has them.

    ..This thread is so 1944..a good 20 years before you were born!

    ..Think, Reconsider..and stop blaming Asians for your inconsistencies !!
    ..I hope you find what you THINK you need!
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    Mar 18, 2013 4:22 AM GMT
    Okay, if you prefer Asians...then possibly you contact more of them. Thus you may have a higher likelihood of meeting a-holes as well as nice people. It's not a race thing, but rather it possibly may be a fact that by sheer numbers (not percent) you get stood up more. For example, if you contacted all races equally you may have the same percent of getting stood up...but because of the preference you simply have a higher probability than other races. Make sense? It's more a number's issue than a race issue.

    I didn't have that issue here in Korea. I got stood up in equal percentages by different races. More times (sheer numbers) by Koreans (because that's who I contacted the most) but about the same PERCENT.
  • Jr_boy

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    Mar 18, 2013 6:25 AM GMT
    Hi Olderbetter,

    Not sure why you're being stood up, especially with that super hot body, light fur on your chest and torso. =) woof.

    You're probably just having a run of bad luck. Not very helpful comment I know. But best qualify them better some how. Like get their number. Then call them and talk first.

    as for this comment:

    kennykwan saidWhen old guys approach me as if I'm in his league just because I'm asian, the only right thing to do is to send them on a very long wild goose chase...sometimes involving flights to remote locations. Usually they are suckers for punishment and will give second or third chances...

    This is to keep them off the market for the sake of those who are brainwashed by gay media into falling for any white guy. Gays like the OP who exploit racism are disgusting, and deserve what they get.


    This is possibly the most disgusting thing I've read in a long time. Man, the nasty shit people do to one another. People who do this must be poorly raised with no manners, no respect, ethics, or decency. Frankly, these are the human beings who do not deserve to exist in the society as they only spread their poor sense of value. Their social impact is so negative that if more of them were around, they would send our civilisation backwards. They really should never have been born. Either that or they suffer from some major self esteem issues, insecurity, and lack the emotional intelligence to sort their themselves out.

    Please, if you have issues, and every does, keep it to yourself, or see out some knowledge and books on the topic to aid yourself and manage your life problems, don't project your negativity on other people, because its not fair on them, and nor should any body have to tolerate your bad behaviour.
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    Mar 18, 2013 8:02 AM GMT
    Jr_boy saidHi Olderbetter,

    Not sure why you're being stood up, especially with that super hot body, light fur on your chest and torso. =) woof.

    You're probably just having a run of bad luck. Not very helpful comment I know. But best qualify them better some how. Like get their number. Then call them and talk first.

    as for this comment:

    kennykwan saidWhen old guys approach me as if I'm in his league just because I'm asian, the only right thing to do is to send them on a very long wild goose chase...sometimes involving flights to remote locations. Usually they are suckers for punishment and will give second or third chances...

    This is to keep them off the market for the sake of those who are brainwashed by gay media into falling for any white guy. Gays like the OP who exploit racism are disgusting, and deserve what they get.


    This is possibly the most disgusting thing I've read in a long time. Man, the nasty shit people do to one another. People who do this must be poorly raised with no manners, no respect, ethics, or decency. Frankly, these are the human beings who do not deserve to exist in the society as they only spread their poor sense of value. Their social impact is so negative that if more of them were around, they would send our civilisation backwards. They really should never have been born. Either that or they suffer from some major self esteem issues, insecurity, and lack the emotional intelligence to sort their themselves out.

    Please, if you have issues, and every does, keep it to yourself, or see out some knowledge and books on the topic to aid yourself and manage your life problems, don't project your negativity on other people, because its not fair on them, and nor should any body have to tolerate your bad behaviour.


    Dude, just because this guy sang the "victim" songs like Taylor Swift doesn't mean he's innocent. You may not notice yet, but he's the denominator of all the "failed Asian dates" he's had. I personally have seen hundreds of guys like him before, straight or gay, old or young. They all look for that submissive, obedient, timid, sexually shy image of typical "Asian" because they think we are easier targets. They gave themselves then the right to be lazier in dating Asians because they think they have the upper hand. What makes you think this guy is an "exception", huh? He texts couple messages and he assumed that it's a sealed deal for him to fuck these Asians. And when people didn't respond to him as his "expectation", he got upset and trash every other Asians.
    But, demand and supply always goes together. As long as many young Asians are feeling socially vulnerable or isolated, there are always "rice queens" like him to buy them out. It's a win-win situation, the young ones feel "accepted" and the old ones receive that "sexual appreciation" from their babies. They can have each other for all I care.
    I agree that standing up to dates are not acceptable. I would feel hurt if I'm in his position. But as someone who has been the targeted by so many guys like him, I frankly can't feel sorry for the dude. If you are a closeted gay, and you cruising the parks looking for anonymous sex and got robbed, then don't rant to the world how all gays are evil. Be quiet or looking to a different lake to fish.
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    Mar 18, 2013 8:27 AM GMT
    So do you use your real pics when contacting them? or these ones you've stolen from someone else?
    Maybe you're just too ugly for them? or they hate fakes?
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    Mar 18, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    they dont want ur old, ugly ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Mar 18, 2013 3:31 PM GMT
    Urgh, rude! Everyone knows its not courteous to single out groups that are already a minority... icon_eek.gif

    But to reply to your post, the problem is probably the kind of guys you look for rather than the race itself. If not, then its probably this:


    yibozSo do you use your real pics when contacting them? or these ones you've stolen from someone else?
    Maybe you're just too ugly for them? or they hate fakes?
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    Mar 18, 2013 4:47 PM GMT


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    Mar 19, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    highforthis saidI kinda think this is the salient issue with OP's "problem"

    kennykwan saidWhen old guys approach me as if I'm in his league just because I'm asian, the only right thing to do is to send them on a very long wild goose chase...sometimes involving flights to remote locations. Usually they are suckers for punishment and will give second or third chances...

    This is to keep them off the market for the sake of those who are brainwashed by gay media into falling for any white guy. Gays like the OP who exploit racism are disgusting, and deserve what they get.


    ^^At least 2 people haven't been living under a rock....

    OP doesn't prefer Asians. He prefers younger, but zeroed in on non-whites, particularly Asians because he knew his odds were better.

    This is the oldest gay phenomenon, right up there with visiting Thailand to pay for "companionship".

    Sending these exploitative geezers into the wilderness is the easist form of vigilante justice from those of us who are repulsed by the practice.

    seamonkey_88 saidI agree that standing up to dates are not acceptable...


    Every ugly or old white guy who manages to seduce a desperate young asian makes the rest of us look bad. Keeping them busy on wild goose chases is a preventative alternative to honor killings icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 20, 2013 1:46 AM GMT
    yiboz saidSo do you use your real pics when contacting them? or these ones you've stolen from someone else?
    Maybe you're just too ugly for them? or they hate fakes?


    Ok, my picture isn't me, and only approximates my "type". Sure, I'm not quite as muscular, but guys who are into my type likely won't notice the difference. Some of the guys I've been with in the past didn't even ask for a face pic. That said, in the last couple days I've received many compliments and encouraging words from others on this site, unlike anything I've ever experienced in real life or on any of the dating sites I've been on.

    As for the bunch of people accusing me of taking advantage of racism... F you and your prejudice. You will grow old lonely because you don't want to open up to other kinds of men.
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    Mar 20, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    olderbetter said You will grow old lonely because you don't want to open up to other kinds of men.


    Sounds like you already are... for this exact same reason.
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    Mar 20, 2013 2:22 AM GMT
    Old white dude goes after young Asians... never seen this before icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 20, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
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    olderbetter said You will grow old lonely because you don't want to open up to other kinds of men.


    Sounds like you already are... for this exact same reason.


    ^^ This
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    Mar 20, 2013 4:40 AM GMT
    Some very hilarious replies icon_lol.gif

    Speaking of horrible things done to white guys by asians... there's a hot but slutty guy who we regularly run into at the club, who inexplicably always end up clinging onto this asian friend of mine, and trying to touch/kiss him every chance he gets. My friend flat out told me he's not interested, but is playing hard to get just to keep him around as a prop to make him seem more attractive to the guys he actually wants icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 20, 2013 8:57 AM GMT
    meatandpotatoes saidSome very hilarious replies icon_lol.gif

    My friend flat out told me he's not interested, but is playing hard to get just to keep him around as a prop to make him seem more attractive to the guys he actually wants icon_sad.gif


    Your friend act like Angelina Jolie or any diva in Hollywood. You're Not **HOT unless several men chase after you and you just keep them around as toys/props. I've done this in the past too but to a lesser extent. icon_lol.gificon_cool.gif