What should I do? Help!

  • ryanx91

    Posts: 5

    Mar 18, 2013 1:46 PM GMT
    Hey, everyone I'm new here, this is my first time posting. I'm 22.
    There was a day I went into a restaurant, the waiter who served me, I was physically attracted to him.
    I've talk to him for awhile because about 2 weeks ago I came here before.
    And I just compliment about his service.
    This time I've talked to him, and he remember me after I mentioned it.
    We talked for a few minutes since he was working, and I find that he's friendly, the way he talked made our conversation could last long.
    After my food was served, I didn't see him anymore, probably he had a work-shift into the kitchen.
    I was trying to wait for his show up so I can get his contact.
    However, I'd been waiting for a long time so i went to the toilet before I left.
    Afterwards, I walked towards the exit and he was there.
    I said goodbye to him, and asked for his Facebook.
    He gave me his phone number just in case I can't find him on Facebook.

    The following morning, I search for his profile, and realized that his profile was highly protected, I couldn't send a friend request because we don't have mutual friend or no connection at all.
    Therefore, i sent a msg on FB to him to let him know that i couldn't add him, but as far as I know, FB will put all the non-friend's message to spam automatically, I guessed that he didn't see it, since there's no notification.
    And so, that night I sent a text msg to him on phone, it was written that i couldn't add him, and i left my email for him to search for me on FB.
    However after 2 days I still have got any reply or friend request from him yet.

    My mind always thought about this, is there something went wrong? or should I just have some patience? or perhaps should I send him another text? or go to that restaurant again? I know he might not be the same as I am, but there's no harm to make friends right?

    I'm still young and new to this field, probably this post doesn't mean anything to you. But I do hope that I can get some advice from you. Thank you.
  • jackooh

    Posts: 109

    Mar 18, 2013 2:01 PM GMT
    Did something go wrong? maybe, you can never know for sure, maybe his number was slightly wrong, maybe the text didnt go through, maybe he gave you a fake one to spare your feelings
    I would be patient n try not to think about it, its not the end of the world if a handsome stranger doesnt add you on facebook, there are people you'll like better out there
    but you never know he could have recieved the message when he was drunk n forgotten about it or something

    I dunno if i would text him again just because if he didnt reply on purpose it would be a bit awkward, n if he was gunna reply eventually you may seem a tad stalker-y

    but theres no reason you cant eat at the restaurant again! if he comes over n says hi then you know that he must like you a bit n you can joke around about the facebook thing

    For me personally though i would just shrug my shoulders n let it lie
  • ryanx91

    Posts: 5

    Mar 18, 2013 5:28 PM GMT
    thanks for the reply. I guessed I should be patience and maybe visit the restaurant sometimes after a week or two. By that time he couldn't recognized me probably. And I could asked him about that maybe. I should try not to think about it.
  • calibro

    Posts: 8888

    Mar 18, 2013 7:58 PM GMT
    how about you not be a sock account?
  • mybud

    Posts: 14219

    Mar 18, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    Dude...He's really not into you...Move on...
  • ryanx91

    Posts: 5

    Mar 19, 2013 1:30 AM GMT
    Thank you for the advices.
    The reason I would like to go more is because:
    1. we talked and would like to know more about each other, he asked me questions.
    2. he's friendly to me, i know a waiter have to do their job(friendly). But he's different from other waiter who served me, probably this is his personality.
    3. I went to washroom before I left, probably he knew that I was leaving, so he went to the exit to wait for me. I'm not sure about this, could be I thought much.
    4..I just asked for his Facebook, but he gave me both facebook and phone number, and he said "just in case I can't find him on Facebook."
  • Lucky350

    Posts: 167

    Mar 21, 2013 9:00 AM GMT

    Good lord!...

    I'm already confused... =P

    Brb.. *looking for asprin*