Mar 18, 2013 1:46 PM GMT
Hey, everyone I'm new here, this is my first time posting. I'm 22.
There was a day I went into a restaurant, the waiter who served me, I was physically attracted to him.
I've talk to him for awhile because about 2 weeks ago I came here before.
And I just compliment about his service.
This time I've talked to him, and he remember me after I mentioned it.
We talked for a few minutes since he was working, and I find that he's friendly, the way he talked made our conversation could last long.
After my food was served, I didn't see him anymore, probably he had a work-shift into the kitchen.
I was trying to wait for his show up so I can get his contact.
However, I'd been waiting for a long time so i went to the toilet before I left.
Afterwards, I walked towards the exit and he was there.
I said goodbye to him, and asked for his Facebook.
He gave me his phone number just in case I can't find him on Facebook.
The following morning, I search for his profile, and realized that his profile was highly protected, I couldn't send a friend request because we don't have mutual friend or no connection at all.
Therefore, i sent a msg on FB to him to let him know that i couldn't add him, but as far as I know, FB will put all the non-friend's message to spam automatically, I guessed that he didn't see it, since there's no notification.
And so, that night I sent a text msg to him on phone, it was written that i couldn't add him, and i left my email for him to search for me on FB.
However after 2 days I still have got any reply or friend request from him yet.
My mind always thought about this, is there something went wrong? or should I just have some patience? or perhaps should I send him another text? or go to that restaurant again? I know he might not be the same as I am, but there's no harm to make friends right?
I'm still young and new to this field, probably this post doesn't mean anything to you. But I do hope that I can get some advice from you. Thank you.
There was a day I went into a restaurant, the waiter who served me, I was physically attracted to him.
I've talk to him for awhile because about 2 weeks ago I came here before.
And I just compliment about his service.
This time I've talked to him, and he remember me after I mentioned it.
We talked for a few minutes since he was working, and I find that he's friendly, the way he talked made our conversation could last long.
After my food was served, I didn't see him anymore, probably he had a work-shift into the kitchen.
I was trying to wait for his show up so I can get his contact.
However, I'd been waiting for a long time so i went to the toilet before I left.
Afterwards, I walked towards the exit and he was there.
I said goodbye to him, and asked for his Facebook.
He gave me his phone number just in case I can't find him on Facebook.
The following morning, I search for his profile, and realized that his profile was highly protected, I couldn't send a friend request because we don't have mutual friend or no connection at all.
Therefore, i sent a msg on FB to him to let him know that i couldn't add him, but as far as I know, FB will put all the non-friend's message to spam automatically, I guessed that he didn't see it, since there's no notification.
And so, that night I sent a text msg to him on phone, it was written that i couldn't add him, and i left my email for him to search for me on FB.
However after 2 days I still have got any reply or friend request from him yet.
My mind always thought about this, is there something went wrong? or should I just have some patience? or perhaps should I send him another text? or go to that restaurant again? I know he might not be the same as I am, but there's no harm to make friends right?
I'm still young and new to this field, probably this post doesn't mean anything to you. But I do hope that I can get some advice from you. Thank you.
