Guy that i met on grindr drunk called me..Thoughts?

  • LoveAndPeace

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    Mar 19, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    So i met the guy yesterday and we had a great and engaging conversation.Anyway,he said his phone was about to die so he gave me his phone number so we can keep in contact besides grindr. At 12:45 he called my phone I didnt answer because i didnt know what to do tbh. Anyway he texted me and said i wanna talk.I would have talked to him but one my mother is extremely homophobic and if she found out i was talking to this cute guy on the phone idk what would happen,and two because e he was driving while intoxicated.I asked him if he was okay he said he was fine.He hasn't texted or called me back so thoughts...He sounded mad after i told him i had to go.
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    Mar 19, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    Oh Ok
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Mar 19, 2013 5:10 PM GMT
    JEWLICIOUS saidOh Ok

    Great response -_-
  • thegaymessiah

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    Mar 19, 2013 5:15 PM GMT
    lol i never know how much ppl are trolling on the internet but i'll take you seriously because i love to be a Santa's Little Helper. (for goyim ness)

    Your first responsibility is to try and be brave and take control of your own life, away from your mother. That way you won't have to worry about this roadblock. How old are you? I wish I had my own place, my own car - by the time I was like 17.

    So you can meet guys and have control and independence. You can meet men in public places, with good lighting - so if it doesn't work out , or they are a creepo you have good escape exists.

    Even if you are a bit shyer and don't wanna meet at some crowded bar, you still need your own sense of power away from your mom to handle dating men. Big hairy smelly muscular men. mmmm. but, men who want to be your lover not your mother.

    That way if she doesn't accept you or if you have a worst case scenerio, at least you are able to take care of yourself.
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    Mar 19, 2013 5:17 PM GMT
    LoveAndPeace said
    JEWLICIOUS saidOh Ok

    Great response -_-

    Well your narrative is a bit unclear. You met him in person first? Did you actually talk to him when he phoned? Or only talked briefly because of your mother? Or were you texting only, or both? I can't follow the sequence here at all. icon_confused.gif