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  • wherewillwebe

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    Mar 20, 2013 4:43 AM GMT
    hi all.. this is my first post so please go easy on me....I met this nice guy a month ago and am starting to like him...a lot....I expressed my feelings for him a couple of times but he is not quite sure yet and says he is taking as it comes which i think is fair enough..anyway we have agreed to be exclusive...I log into gaydar from time to time to check messages and saw him on line a few times...but his 'right now i am' status is always 'looking to hook up now' and it bothers me big time....I haven't told him about this as I might come across as just 'too much'...I don't think I will ever bring that up with him but would love to know what others think about this.....also how do you konw if the feelings that you have for someone is true or something you are imagining out of sheer desperation and loneliness? I have been a single for 5 years by the way....

    thank you for your replies in advance!!!
  • 1blind_dog

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    Mar 20, 2013 6:52 AM GMT
    He's lying. Trust your gut.
  • Fable

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    Mar 20, 2013 11:08 AM GMT
    move on.... he's just not that into you.
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    Mar 20, 2013 11:37 AM GMT
    wherewillwebe saidhi all.. this is my first post so please go easy on me....I met this nice guy a month ago and am starting to like him...a lot....I expressed my feelings for him a couple of times but he is not quite sure yet and says he is taking as it comes which i think is fair enough..anyway we have agreed to be exclusive...I log into gaydar from time to time to check messages and saw him on line a few times...but his 'right now i am' status is always 'looking to hook up now' and it bothers me big time....I haven't told him about this as I might come across as just 'too much'...I don't think I will ever bring that up with him but would love to know what others think about this.....also how do you konw if the feelings that you have for someone is true or something you are imagining out of sheer desperation and loneliness? I have been a single for 5 years by the way....

    thank you for your replies in advance!!!


    There's no such thing as an exclusive relationship if a commitment doesn't exist. The feelings you have for him IS true but the problem is that he is not reciprocating your feelings. There's nothing you need to say to him about his gaydar account.....you just need to move on.
  • winwin

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    Mar 20, 2013 11:57 AM GMT
    I would also say move on and find someone else who is into you and not the rest of the world.
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    Mar 20, 2013 12:10 PM GMT
    Why does your profile say "Looking for: ..., Hook ups"

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    Anyways, like most here said, move on he's playing you...
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    Mar 20, 2013 12:25 PM GMT
  • wherewillwebe

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    Mar 21, 2013 9:44 AM GMT
    thank you all for your replies..I guess you are right on 'he is not that into you' thingy. I like him so I will keep him for some casual fun. I have been talking to some other guys since forever...way before I met him..so I guess I will arrange to meet them icon_razz.gif
    Should I tell him about this? I guess not as it seems like he thinks that we are not exclusive!
  • Import

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    Mar 21, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    You guys agreed to be exclusive, right?

    Perhaps mention that when u logged onto whatever site u were using that u noticed his status on there and that being "exclusive" is supposed to mean neither one of fucks other guys.....; so... with that being said...whats the deal?

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    Mar 21, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    Any n00dz?
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    Mar 21, 2013 4:05 PM GMT
    Haha.

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    Just looking for friends, guys. No hookups, for realz!!