I am completely attracted to this guy I met online and he is attracted to me but one problem I have with him is feminine characteristics....

  • Matt2004

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    Mar 21, 2013 5:20 AM GMT
    I am attracted to his physical body so much that I decided to meet up with him to see if I can look past his feminine characteristic...

    What do you guys think I should meet up with him even though I know his characteristics isn't appealing to me.
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:23 AM GMT
    why not, give the guy a chance. You'll never know until you try.
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:29 AM GMT
    Is he sashaying around? If not give him a chance
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:29 AM GMT
    Maybe his mannerisms won't bother you as much as you think. You'll never know until you meet him. It's not like you're out anything if it doesn't work, so I'd go for it. Good luck!
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    If it's not appealing to you..then it isn't ..

    I will say this though.. Masc/Fem is relative.. You might consider yourself to be masc..but someone more masc than you are might consider you to be a total queen.

    Not being rude ..it's just the way it works.

    .. Is he a nice guy?, Respectful?, Honest? kind?.he really could be you know!
    ..Pass up this date and you'll never know. icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:32 AM GMT
    Does he mind your grammar skills and lack of punctuation?
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:33 AM GMT
    I say give him a chance. A good man that's a keeper ain't easy to find.
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    Mar 21, 2013 5:39 AM GMT
    Probably just me, but I think there's something endearing about a hot muscle mary. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 21, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
    If you care that much he deserves somebody better.
  • TheBizMan

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    Mar 21, 2013 6:37 AM GMT
    I am completely attracted to this guy I met online and he is attracted to me but one problem I have with him is feminine characteristics....
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    Jul 19, 2013 12:06 PM GMT
    Matt2004 saidI am attracted to his physical body so much that I decided to meet up with him to see if I can look past his feminine characteristic...

    What do you guys think I should meet up with him even though I know his characteristics isn't appealing to me.


    I would say go for it. What difference does it make? If you like him then see if there's something there. I'm more masculine than my partner but that doesn't matter because I love him.
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    Jul 19, 2013 12:14 PM GMT
    Everyone is different, but even when I was dating I liked to get to know new people.

    You never know if they turn out to be the love of your life, or if they become the new friend that introduces you to the love of your life.

    The only thing I would say is that you should be open about the fact that you are just getting to know him, and that you believe in getting to know people as friends first.

    You wouldn't think you have to say that, but there are some guys who make assumptions about the nature of the relationship quickly.

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    Jul 19, 2013 12:16 PM GMT
    give it a chance. Maybe is not as extreme as you think it is and after a while you wont even notice it most of the time
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    Jul 19, 2013 1:30 PM GMT
    A thread from March. So what happened with the date? When guys start an asking-for-advice thread like this, they should really close the loop, and let us know how things went.