GRINDR racial slur

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    Mar 21, 2013 9:47 PM GMT
    so earlier today I was on grindr checking messages and what not.

    Started talking to this guy (who had no profile pic).

    Traded the usual "hey what's up" talk.

    Not long (after 2-3 messages) he asked for my face pic. No big deal I sent him mine and he sent me his.

    His next message and I quote, "Sorry I'm not into chinks."

    I thought to myself, "WTF? is this guy serious? Calling me a chink? I'm not even chinese...."

    It was plain rude. icon_evil.gif

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    Mar 21, 2013 10:07 PM GMT
    it makes me scratch my head about how a good portion of the white lgbt population are prejudiced as fuck towards all of us nonwhites regardless of our sexual orientation whether we're straight or gay like them. then they turn around and expect the same people that they're prejudiced towards show support for our movement against discrimination since those groups have experienced it.

    they can't put two and two together to see that the way that they're acting is actually fucking it up for all of us lgbt people getting people to be sympathic with our cause. bad enough, you have many people thinking that lgbt people are white and that there aren't any black, asian, indian, and nonwhite people outthere that are gay. they look at the white gay guys as representatives of the lgbt community more so than all of us nonwhites. icon_sad.gif

    it's one thing if dude would have simply ignored you or said not interested BUT he had to throw out that he doesn't like you because you're asian. it's clear that some gay white folks are feeling themselves because they're white. i mean they think that they're victims because they're being discriminated but yet they're ready to be victimizers to us nonwhites by looking down on us, calling us all the ugliest slurs in the book. the funniest part is how those same idiots like to use the race card as well when they FEEL they're being discriminated for being white even in things that have to do with fixing institutional prejudice towards "minority" groups in society such as affirmative action. hilarious.
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    Mar 21, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
    Grindr is loaded with that kind of crap. Do a google search for douchebags of grindr. You'll see plenty there!
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    Mar 21, 2013 11:32 PM GMT
    O/P didn't say white or any other race.
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    Mar 21, 2013 11:38 PM GMT
    Turin said O/P didn't say white or any other race.


    the guy was white.
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    Mar 21, 2013 11:45 PM GMT
    Turin said O/P didn't say white or any other race.


    you're right. i shouldn't have jumped to conclusion so i apologize. there's other people besides whites but it's usually white people that do that shit though.
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    Mar 22, 2013 12:09 AM GMT
    I'm shocked u haven't encountered that same outlandis.h behavior here... Oh wait, just read the post above
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    Mar 22, 2013 1:31 AM GMT
    The Internet and apps have allowed people to say things to people in a seemingly intimate way that they would never have the balls to actually say to someone's face.
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    Mar 22, 2013 1:44 AM GMT
    scaredmidget saidit makes me scratch my head about how a good portion of the white lgbt population are prejudiced as fuck towards all of us nonwhites regardless of our sexual orientation whether we're straight or gay like them. then they turn around and expect the same people that they're prejudiced towards show support for our movement against discrimination since those groups have experienced it.

    they can't put two and two together to see that the way that they're acting is actually fucking it up for all of us lgbt people getting people to be sympathic with our cause. bad enough, you have many people thinking that lgbt people are white and that there aren't any black, asian, indian, and nonwhite people outthere that are gay. they look at the white gay guys as representatives of the lgbt community more so than all of us nonwhites. icon_sad.gif

    it's one thing if dude would have simply ignored you or said not interested BUT he had to throw out that he doesn't like you because you're asian. it's clear that some gay white folks are feeling themselves because they're white. i mean they think that they're victims because they're being discriminated but yet they're ready to be victimizers to us nonwhites by looking down on us, calling us all the ugliest slurs in the book. the funniest part is how those same idiots like to use the race card as well when they FEEL they're being discriminated for being white even in things that have to do with fixing institutional prejudice towards "minority" groups in society such as affirmative action. hilarious.


    The douche on grindr is scum and I'm sorry but your comments above are just as racist towards whites, every ethnicity has racist members. No one member is representative of the entire population of their ethnicity and your repetitive reference to "they" as in reference to whites in the plural and to quote "a good portion of the white lbgt population" based on this individuals comments is just as unwarranted. Rather than speaking to the comments of this one individual you went on an accusatory tirade toward members of your community too
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    Mar 22, 2013 1:54 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod said
    scaredmidget saidit makes me scratch my head about how a good portion of the white lgbt population are prejudiced as fuck towards all of us nonwhites regardless of our sexual orientation whether we're straight or gay like them. then they turn around and expect the same people that they're prejudiced towards show support for our movement against discrimination since those groups have experienced it.

    they can't put two and two together to see that the way that they're acting is actually fucking it up for all of us lgbt people getting people to be sympathic with our cause. bad enough, you have many people thinking that lgbt people are white and that there aren't any black, asian, indian, and nonwhite people outthere that are gay. they look at the white gay guys as representatives of the lgbt community more so than all of us nonwhites. icon_sad.gif

    it's one thing if dude would have simply ignored you or said not interested BUT he had to throw out that he doesn't like you because you're asian. it's clear that some gay white folks are feeling themselves because they're white. i mean they think that they're victims because they're being discriminated but yet they're ready to be victimizers to us nonwhites by looking down on us, calling us all the ugliest slurs in the book. the funniest part is how those same idiots like to use the race card as well when they FEEL they're being discriminated for being white even in things that have to do with fixing institutional prejudice towards "minority" groups in society such as affirmative action. hilarious.


    The douche on grindr is scum and I'm sorry but your comments above are just as racist towards whites, every ethnicity has racist members. No one member is representative of the entire population of their ethnicity and your repetitive reference to "they" as in whites in the plural rather than speaking to the comments of this one individual.


    in no way am i talking about white people as a whole or generalizing. i made that clear with what i said. when i said THEY, i'm talking portion of the number of persons that it applies within that population and the reason why i said that there's a good amount is because the issue is quite noticable to the point where it is recognized as to be a problem in the lgbt community. sad to say but it's true. if it that wasn't the case, there wouldn't be threads and constant topics like this involved which usually are about a white person that ejects a nonwhite person for their race. in no way was i saying every white person in the lgbt population or white people as a whole nor was i implying that with what i said. i apologize if it came off like that but that wasn't what i meant.

    but on that note, i would also like to ask the op a question as well. would you date someone that is of your race? not talking about you op, i think another issue is that is also overlooked is that you have a good number of nonwhite guys that want to date white guys BUT refuse to date someone who is nonwhite. then they get rejected by a white guy who isn't interested in dating them for the same reason they refuse to date a nonwhite, they call racism as if they're not doing the same thing. i've seen this bullshit too. i just had to bring that up because it's a two way street.

    however, it's one thing to reject someone because you're not attracted to them or have preferences such as height, body type or whatever BUT it's a different thing when you reject someone because they're asian, black, white or whatever.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:07 AM GMT
    Dude..I'm sorry you had to go through that.. !

    ..I thought the K.K.K. was trying to "Re-Vamp" their image .. icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    Well that guy has some nerve (like many others). Racism and discrimination is a bitch. *shrug*
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    Mar 22, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    I cannot believe he said that! I get the discrimination too (wears a yarmulke) and I just get so annoyed that alot of gay guys are such hypocrites.
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    Mar 22, 2013 4:01 AM GMT
    Next time, take a screenshot and post to..
    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/

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  • Lucky350

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    Mar 22, 2013 4:04 AM GMT
    You're still cute honey....

    Tell that jerk to go away!
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    Mar 22, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    xrichx saidNext time, take a screenshot and post to..
    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/

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    those people are worthless piece of human garbage. I favor guyswithiphones.com much better icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 22, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    Honestly, you should know better than to be on Grindr. It's well documented that the most ignorant and shallow gay men on Earth are on the app. Hopefully you'll have enough sense to delete your profile after this.
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    Mar 22, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    xrichx saidNext time, take a screenshot and post to..
    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/

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    This
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    Mar 22, 2013 4:24 AM GMT
    you will get those types of low life fuck heads on grindr.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    hahha... he didn't even bother to racially slur you correctly.

    Seriously, as an ethnic minority, I'm sure you have experienced this in the past. Unfortunately, this will happen again. Yeah what the guy said was rude but obviously don't let it get to you, and certainly don't let him define who you are. Just keep moving on.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    I was just called an Asian Trash an hour ago by a white guy. He was not happy when I said no to his request 'I need a nice dick in my hole'. He blocked me before I can say anything. Everyone has his preferences but being rude is uncalled for.
  • wesv

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    Mar 22, 2013 2:37 PM GMT
    That is just plain rude. Well at you know he's not your type. I font know what's going on with younger gay whites guys. They seem like all they want to date is a mirror and say that's just they're preference. Unfortunately their preference isn't even a person.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    oh boo hoo icon_sad.gif

    some black guy called me a honkey on grindr and said white people smelled like horse hair. I dont make a thread about it crying.

    I'm sure you'll get over it. Yes, the guy calling u that racial slur was a dickhead, but aint that obvious to everyone?

    Like, u just have to move on bro lol
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    youngRJ1 saidso earlier today I was on grindr checking messages and what not.

    Started talking to this guy (who had no profile pic).

    Traded the usual "hey what's up" talk.

    Not long (after 2-3 messages) he asked for my face pic. No big deal I sent him mine and he sent me his.

    His next message and I quote, "Sorry I'm not into chinks."

    I thought to myself, "WTF? is this guy serious? Calling me a chink? I'm not even chinese...."

    It was plain rude. icon_evil.gif



    Ignore him. He's not worth even a nanosecond of your time. You will become a bitter, angry person if you allow bigotry to get under your skin every time you encounter it. Try to let go when ignorant people who don't matter do ignorant things. Save your emotional energy for the truly significant stuff.
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    Mar 22, 2013 3:02 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidThe douche on grindr is scum and I'm sorry but your comments above are just as racist towards whites, every ethnicity has racist members. No one member is representative of the entire population of their ethnicity and your repetitive reference to "they" as in reference to whites in the plural and to quote "a good portion of the white lbgt population" based on this individuals comments is just as unwarranted. Rather than speaking to the comments of this one individual you went on an accusatory tirade toward members of your community too


    I must have missed all of those news stories and anecdotes of white people being stopped and profiled by the police, as well as all of those white people fired or not hired because of their names, not to mention all of the negative white people stereotypes that are perpetuated by people of color on tv, film, and on Halloween. icon_sad.gif

    I'm sorry, but "racism towards whites" does not exist. People of color do not hold racial power against white people. Being white is favored in this world, and that's just the way it is. Prejudice does not equal racism; with that said, yes, prejudice against all races, including white people, does exist.

    Carry on.