scaredmidget saidit makes me scratch my head about how a good portion of the white lgbt population are prejudiced as fuck towards all of us nonwhites regardless of our sexual orientation whether we're straight or gay like them. then they turn around and expect the same people that they're prejudiced towards show support for our movement against discrimination since those groups have experienced it.
they can't put two and two together to see that the way that they're acting is actually fucking it up for all of us lgbt people getting people to be sympathic with our cause. bad enough, you have many people thinking that lgbt people are white and that there aren't any black, asian, indian, and nonwhite people outthere that are gay. they look at the white gay guys as representatives of the lgbt community more so than all of us nonwhites.
it's one thing if dude would have simply ignored you or said not interested BUT he had to throw out that he doesn't like you because you're asian. it's clear that some gay white folks are feeling themselves because they're white. i mean they think that they're victims because they're being discriminated but yet they're ready to be victimizers to us nonwhites by looking down on us, calling us all the ugliest slurs in the book. the funniest part is how those same idiots like to use the race card as well when they FEEL they're being discriminated for being white even in things that have to do with fixing institutional prejudice towards "minority" groups in society such as affirmative action. hilarious.
The douche on grindr is scum and I'm sorry but your comments above are just as racist towards whites, every ethnicity has racist members. No one member is representative of the entire population of their ethnicity and your repetitive reference to "they" as in whites in the plural rather than speaking to the comments of this one individual.
in no way am i talking about white people as a whole or generalizing. i made that clear with what i said. when i said THEY, i'm talking portion of the number of persons that it applies within that population and the reason why i said that there's a good amount is because the issue is quite noticable to the point where it is recognized as to be a problem in the lgbt community. sad to say but it's true. if it that wasn't the case, there wouldn't be threads and constant topics like this involved which usually are about a white person that ejects a nonwhite person for their race. in no way was i saying every white person in the lgbt population or white people as a whole nor was i implying that with what i said. i apologize if it came off like that but that wasn't what i meant.
but on that note, i would also like to ask the op a question as well. would you date someone that is of your race? not talking about you op, i think another issue is that is also overlooked is that you have a good number of nonwhite guys that want to date white guys BUT refuse to date someone who is nonwhite. then they get rejected by a white guy who isn't interested in dating them for the same reason they refuse to date a nonwhite, they call racism as if they're not doing the same thing. i've seen this bullshit too. i just had to bring that up because it's a two way street.
however, it's one thing to reject someone because you're not attracted to them or have preferences such as height, body type or whatever BUT it's a different thing when you reject someone because they're asian, black, white or whatever.