Have You ever told to straight guy that You fell in love with him?

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    Mar 22, 2013 10:56 AM GMT
    Sometimes is nescesary to hear no from the other to move on. And if the one is straight, it' s much harder. I went threw that three times and with oné of that guys I' m still friend. The other two ať least weren' t angry and told mé wanted no.

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  • calibro

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    Mar 22, 2013 1:47 PM GMT
    no, because i'm not an idiot
  • GraffitiMySou...

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    Mar 22, 2013 1:48 PM GMT
    He became my best friend and after 2 years I told him I used to be in love with him. We laughed at it all night icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 22, 2013 1:54 PM GMT
    I love my best straight mate but I would never wanna be with him...its more like a brotherly love. Why torture yourself and fall in love with something that has a 5% probability of actually turning into something? Don't fall straight guys end of story
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    Mar 22, 2013 1:56 PM GMT
    I bet saying, "not to make this weird, but if you ever want a bj, just let me know" would be less awkward for a straight guy than to tell him that you're in love with him. Thoughts.
  • Montague

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    Mar 22, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    Only if he's hot.

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    Mar 22, 2013 2:06 PM GMT
    Myol saidI bet saying, "not to make this weird, but if you ever want a bj, just let me know" would be less awkward for a straight guy than to tell him that you're in love with him. Thoughts.


    This.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    I did - but in fairness I was convinced that he was gay. Now we are best friends and my feelings have gone away. Still think he is gorgeous but nothing will stop that.
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    Mar 22, 2013 2:13 PM GMT
    Myol saidI bet saying, "not to make this weird, but if you ever want a bj, just let me know" would be less awkward for a straight guy than to tell him that you're in love with him. Thoughts.


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    Mar 22, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    Honestly, if you feel compelled to tell a friend - gay or straight - that you love them, you better be damn sure that whatever happens after that is worth it.

    I told my best friend I loved him. The friendship collapsed not long after and I suffered deeply from it. Looking back, it's difficult to say if it was worth it - seeing the kind of cowardly person he really is by letting our friendship die off, who knows if it was a worthwhile friendship to begin with. But I would tell anyone to think very seriously before they go tossing around "love" at friends. Life isn't a romantic comedy.

    You said you've done this three times... I really have a hard time imagining that it could have been so compelling that you'd be willing to lose everything three times.
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    Mar 22, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    When I find out a guy is straight I just lose all interest in him, if there ever was any.
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    Mar 22, 2013 6:16 PM GMT
    I go to straight bars and I have guys telling me they love me =/
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  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 22, 2013 6:24 PM GMT
    I have no interest straight guys. if they are straight you're never going to change that, so better to set your sites elsewhere.
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    Mar 22, 2013 6:37 PM GMT


    I never did....icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 22, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    I've never had more than a passing fancy for a straight guy.

    Not even a proper "lust", let alone "love". I'd rather not be bashing my head against the wall.
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    Mar 22, 2013 6:39 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Rick_James saidI go to straight bars and I have guys telling me they love me =/
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    Yeah, but you're Rick James, bitch!

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    what did the five fingers say to the face?!

    *SMACK*

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    Mar 22, 2013 6:40 PM GMT
    I told one of my gym crushes that I had a crush on him and now we are pretty good friends. He ie constantly texting me. We coordinate our gym time on the weekends. And he is still 100% straight and very cool.
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    Mar 22, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    Any man can be yours...

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    Mar 22, 2013 7:29 PM GMT
    I have the tendency of only falling for straight guys. I'll drop hints, but I'll never expressly tell them about my enfatuation with them
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    Mar 22, 2013 10:17 PM GMT
    I tend to fall for straight guys. Certainly not intentional, but you can't really control who you develop feelings for or care about. The first time, I was pretty obsessed. It was the first guy I came out to, and fell very very hard. We worked together a lot, went out to drinks, dinner, etc. I majorly confessed my feelings for him, and in hindsight feel mortified that I did it.

    Fortunately, he's very understanding and he really cares about me, so our friendship has only gotten stronger and we're best friends now. Now he teases me about what he'd let me do to him.

    Currently dealing with another straight guy who I care about a ridiculous amount. He's actually told me he loves me like a dozen times. I've only initiated those words once, otherwise I just say, "I love you too". He's always been very affectionate with me (hugs, kisses, high fives, etc.) until recently. He's been awkward around me lately which has been pretty upsetting. I've never confessed any feelings for him, but he's probably assuming I have them. I'm not sure things with him are going to work out as well as my other friend.
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    Mar 22, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
    Did that once...We didn't talk to each other for a year
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    Mar 22, 2013 10:21 PM GMT
    If you know for a fact that he's straight, what's the point? icon_confused.gif

    If he's gay, bi, or curious, then you might tell him you have feelings for him. I wouldn't go as far as to tell him that you're in love with him. That puts way too much pressure on the situation if he's not in the same place that you are.
  • TheBizMan

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    Mar 22, 2013 10:26 PM GMT
    Oh boy...

    So whats the point? Really.. I ask you. What's the point of telling a straight man that you love him? Is it in hopes that he secretly loves you back? Do you have any reason to believe that he is not straight? If not, why would you ever think he would have intimate feelings for you?

    Or is this even about intimacy at all? Are we talking brotherly love? Hmmmmmmm....!?!?!
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 22, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    No, but one felt om boner when we were just wrestling around
  • Apparition

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    Mar 22, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    ive never really told that to anyone i havent had sex with...so theoretically a lot less awkward on the straight part for him after that. not that i have said it to a straight guy.