always in a hurry..

  • wherewillwebe

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    Mar 23, 2013 12:51 AM GMT
    this guy I have been seeing is always in a hurry to send me back home in the morning after we have a wonderful night together....we both are busy to get ready for work on weekday mornings so it's understandable but on weekends?
    we have never had breakfast together because he seems so determined to send me back home as early as possibleicon_cry.gif (9 to 10am..) ...it happened this morning as well (Saturday morning here) and just right before I left, I asked him what his plan was for today and he was like 'doing some washing up and stuff"......maybe he is not that into me..

  • wherewillwebe

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    Mar 23, 2013 1:07 AM GMT
    thank you 'yourname2000' for your reply..we see each other two or three times a week after work (7 or 7:30 pm) and have a good time together watching TV and talking..I could talk to him about this or set up plans to go out for breakfast as you suggested! but it has been only two months (minus 10 days) ..I don't want to look too pushy or desperate..maybe he likes to do things on his own...I already told him that I liked him and that I wanted to spend more time with him and his response was 'taking as it comes'....I will wait til after Easter break and talk to him about how I feel about things and so on (there are some other issues as well) and then I will know if he really wants to have a serious relationship with me or not
  • MidwesternKid

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    Mar 23, 2013 4:18 AM GMT
    I do that. Why?


    I enjoy my alone time. Some people like to wind down with the company of others. Others need to wind down by themselves. Plus when we are at home, we don't usually want to be bothered. It is the one place, other than the bathroom at times, to guarantee privacy.

    Feel free to talk to him, but I have a feeling that is the reason why he gets you out the door.
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    Mar 23, 2013 4:21 AM GMT
    Did you asked him why he seems so determined to send you back home as early as possible?
    There may be some other reasons behind it :-/
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    Mar 23, 2013 4:33 AM GMT
    first thought???

    His husband works 7p to 7a?

    used to have a guy do this; it was more understandable from him though because he was deep in the closet and he was afraid of his family stopping by.
    Still funny to me how he said they were really close.
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    Mar 25, 2013 12:05 AM GMT
    Sounds like he was being somewhat evasive when you asked about his plans for the day. Maybe there's another guy in his life?
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    Mar 25, 2013 12:09 AM GMT
    May either be married, seeing someone already and afraid of them coming home ahead of schedule and catching him in the act or he has a roommate.
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    Mar 25, 2013 12:09 AM GMT
    I don't know all the details, so I would just assume that he thinks of you as a boy toy sort-of/ friends with benefits icon_confused.gif