Buy me a drink?

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    Mar 24, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    If your interested in a guy do you buy him a drink? How do you do it? What do you get him? If so when was the last drink u bought for a random hot guy? Did u crash n burn? Is everyone that afraid of rejection? I don't go out a lot but maybe I jus solved tha whole hookup thing.

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    Here, you look thirsty icon_biggrin.gif

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    A lil dehydrated from last night I guess icon_biggrin.gif
  • Whipmagic

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    I don't buy random hot guys at the bar drinks, but if I meet someone there and we have been talking for a while, and it's time to refill drinks, I often pay for both of us. It's for me just a way of saying I enjoy your company. Doesn't necessarily mean I want to have sex with him that night.
  • Diceroll

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    I once had a guy come up to me in a club asking me to buy HIM a drink. He was serious too icon_eek.gif
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:31 PM GMT
    You shouldn't accept a drink from a guy unless the bartender physically hands it to you
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:32 PM GMT
    I was blown away, 2weeks ago I went out w/ my roomates and one of em was trying to pick up on a girl, made some weird comment bout her bracelet, I jumped in and said it woulda sounded so much better if he was askin what u were drinkin, she laughed he bought her tha drink, they hooked up, it never even occurred to him to buy her a drink!
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    Diceroll saidI once had a guy come up to me in a club asking me to buy HIM a drink. He was serious too icon_eek.gif


    I wonder if there's a way to get that to work?icon_idea.gif
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidYou shouldn't accept a drink from a guy unless the bartender physically hands it to you


    Jus find some random drinks on tables n start handin em out lol,

    pro tip:
    pick tha cigarette butts out first!
  • Diceroll

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    Johnnyhotsauce said
    Diceroll saidI once had a guy come up to me in a club asking me to buy HIM a drink. He was serious too icon_eek.gif


    I wonder if there's a way to get that to work?icon_idea.gif


    Lol maybe, I had to admire his honesty.
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    Johnnyhotsauce said
    ohioguy12 saidYou shouldn't accept a drink from a guy unless the bartender physically hands it to you


    Jus find some random drinks on tables n start handin em out lol,

    pro tip:
    pick tha cigarette butts out first!


    Haha, that's my PSA for the day, I had a friend who was roofied recently after accepting a drink from a random guy
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:48 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 said
    Johnnyhotsauce said
    ohioguy12 saidYou shouldn't accept a drink from a guy unless the bartender physically hands it to you


    Jus find some random drinks on tables n start handin em out lol,

    pro tip:
    pick tha cigarette butts out first!


    Haha, that's my PSA for the day, I had a friend who was roofied recently after accepting a drink from a random guy


    How does that actually work? Is that real or did he jus do 15 shots of tequila? Did they try n kidnap him? It's why I usually drink beer, keep my thumb over the opening, hope he was ok
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    Ask him how he likes his coffee in the morning instead.
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:51 PM GMT
    I think it's more the act than the actual presentation, maybe like "hey wow, u look like u could use another drink! Can I buy you one?" Surely that would work pretty often right? I mean sure it's harder if there with friends or they're out of ur league but if not what did u lose?
  • RaggedyMan

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    Mar 24, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    never bought a guy a drink for crush purposes
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    Mar 24, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    Well I'd probably walk up to you and say hi, introduce myself. Chat for a few minutes and if I'm feeling your personality then i'd ask what you're drinking and if I can buy you one (i don't like it when guys just take it upon themselves to buy a guy a drink. ask first dammit)

    But I'd buy you a drink in a heartbeat, haha icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    sanjose408 saidnever bought a guy a drink for crush purposes


    Crush purposes?
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidWell I'd probably walk up to you and say hi, introduce myself. Chat for a few minutes and if I'm feeling your personality then i'd ask what you're drinking and if I can buy you one (i don't like it when guys just take it upon themselves to buy a guy a drink. ask first dammit)

    But I'd buy you a drink in a heartbeat, haha icon_wink.gif


    Really? Ud be offended if somebody walked up n jus said can I buy u a drink? That seems like the easiest way to start a conversation, I always thought tha get em drunk policy was the best. icon_biggrin.gif
  • stratavos

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    Mar 24, 2013 5:10 PM GMT
    the better thing to do is ask them what they would like to drink and ask if they'd like one.
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:22 PM GMT
    Johnnyhotsauce said
    Diceroll saidI once had a guy come up to me in a club asking me to buy HIM a drink. He was serious too icon_eek.gif


    I wonder if there's a way to get that to work?icon_idea.gif


    Yes, the old self pat-down "I've left my wallet" routine. A guy I got talking to in a Vancouver sports bar used it on me and I bought him a beer. Still, I had a pleasant enough evening chatting and playing pool with him.
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    Buying'em a drink as an opener seems like a business transaction: I buy you a drink in exchange of you talking to me. If you really want to buy a guy a drink, at least do it after you 2 have been talking already and are enjoying each other's company.


    And to your roommate who got laid, he would have gotten laid anyway even if he didn't buy that chick a drink.
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    This is one of the many areas where I am a total failure...
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    I was a little freaked the first time.
    Overwhelmed the second time.
    The guy--so not my type, but cute as all hell, kept eying me, using the mirror over the bar, thinking himself a stealthy creeper--again a turn off.
    I had gone in the hopes of meeting up with a total RJ type, I'd hooked up with the week before, it was pretty dead so I finished off my beer; cool to call it a night--new porn and fresh tube of lube in the car, catching him shyly counting the money in his wallet, over hearing the big lez bartender say, "Five bucks" glancing to my empty bottle.
    He counted out the change in his pocket and another Corona was set in front of me.

    My first real lesson on judging a book by it's cover...I called him "meat locker" at breakfast the next morning--he didn't get the reverence.
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    I've never bought anyone a drink, and no one has ever offered to buy me a drink. I don't drint alocohol, so that line doesn't work for me.
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    Mar 24, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    You young guys need some older mentors to learn the art of cruising. lol

    Do one of two things. If the bar isn't too busy, you inform the bartender that you are buying the next drink for whomever and point out the customer. Then you pay and generously tip the bartender.

    Or... if it is a busier bar or a busy night, you tell the bartender you are buying the drink. This can be adjusted to fit for timing.

    The man whose drink you bought should then come over and thank you for the drink.