Big Gay Question

  • Tombo

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    Mar 24, 2013 7:02 PM GMT
    Do you tell straight men they are hot or good looking when you think they are. I personally don't do this but I was just wondering about other people here. I have a gay friend who is really upfront with everyone but how about you guys? How do they react and under what circumstances do you say if? Friends? Strangers? The hot guy that works at the cafe? Etc haha
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    Mar 24, 2013 7:29 PM GMT
    Yes. Yes I do.
    mostly when the balls and chain is not in tow, so not as often as I would like too.
    Just yesterday i was at Lowe's and this god of man looked confused, picking out a gutter drain, when he grinned at me I said: "Jesus Christ, please tell me you're straight".

    Yeah, I know what, Y'all gon-a say, but unless it's completely inappropriate, there is nothing wrong with making someones day--he's probably still blushing.
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    Mar 24, 2013 8:47 PM GMT
    I don't.. If it's a friend.. I might say.. You look awesome today..or Wazzup Heart breaker.???. but I don't feel comfortable telling a random straight guy that he's hot.
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    Mar 24, 2013 9:02 PM GMT
    Depends on if they ask. Mostly if they're curious about the gay thing I just tell them, "First, you're off-limits because you're straight." and then it depends if I think they're actually attractive as to what, "Secondly, .............................." is.


    Do I usually overtly tell them that they're hot though? No.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 24, 2013 9:02 PM GMT
    I avoid to talking to men
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    Mar 24, 2013 9:05 PM GMT
    Timbales saidI avoid to talking to men

    Get off my property.
  • MidwesternKid

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    Mar 24, 2013 10:13 PM GMT
    Very rarely will I tell a guy he is handsome or attractive. I try to do it when I am on my way out so there is no awkward eye contact at a bar or gathering in case he doesn't take that situation well.

    If it is a straight guy, and only if we are friends, I find great pleasure in making them uncomfortable with me hitting on them. Love to see them squirm. Even better when they play along. All in good fun. :-D
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    Mar 25, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    Yes I do. But I don't say it to guys I don't know. Last guy I said it to was a coworker. Totally nice guy and he took it as a compliment.
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    Mar 25, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    Nah. No way. Most straight guys I know would take it awkwardly.
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    Mar 25, 2013 2:29 AM GMT
    TrevorMark saidDepends on if they ask. Mostly if they're curious about the gay thing I just tell them, "First, you're off-limits because you're straight." and then it depends if I think they're actually attractive as to what, "Secondly, .............................." is.


    Do I usually overtly tell them that they're hot though? No.


    this.