Mar 25, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
Hi I'm new to this forum. Just joined and rant for some advice. My ex broke up with me after 6 years. We lived together for 4. Our relationship was very good in many ways. We are best friends, we share alot of the same interests. Our biggest issue was in the bedroom. The first 2 years sex between us was great, we wanted each other in every possible way all the time then slowly that died down mostly due to me. He will always want me and want me to want him but I was never in the mood and didn't always listen to his needs. I usually only have sex with him when I wanted it and it made him very sad and felt unwanted and unhappy. So after 6 years being together, we spent a month apart due to him being on vacation and me having to travel out of state because of my mother's health, he decided it was time to call it quits. I was initially devastated and after some talking and realizing how much me not wanting to have sex with him have hurt him I needed to let him go. He has done more for me as a person than anyone else. We have been through some hardship in the relationship and we've gotten past it. He gets me and knows me better than myself sometimes. I just wanna remain friends with him because he is one of the most important person of my life. And he said he wants to remain close to me as a friend and be part of my life. He was my bestfriend and he was family to me. I'm in the process of moving back to my parent's apartment thats vacated so I'll be living there alone. Not the most ideal location but it's a place to live. I think i'm slowly accepting the fact that its over but it still hurts. Just need some advice and help. Thank you.