What does the hotlist button mean for you?

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    Mar 25, 2013 9:58 PM GMT
    So i noticed that many people hotlist other people.....i kinda stopped hot listing cuz i felt like its not right if you are with someone to actually say your hot to a other guy....so the point of this thread was to ask you guys...when you hot list a guy what do you actually mean by it?
    Ohh yes and guys who are in a relationship and hot list other guys why do you do it....is it cuz you want to meet the guy you just text that he is hot, or capture his attention? ....and dont tell me its nothing cuz ...nothing is nothing in this world as i recently noticed.
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    Mar 25, 2013 10:01 PM GMT
    I'd probably date them or think they're attractive.

    I haven't hot listed someone in a really long time...
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    Mar 26, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    hmm... at first when I'm new to RJ, I thought it has something to do with...you know...sex!(Yes, I was naive)
    Later...I felt that everyone is hot in their own way & then I deleted all my list...
    Now it means nothing to me!
  • Apparition

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    Mar 26, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    boys that have caused an orgasm
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    Mar 26, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    It means I think they're hot.

    Is this a trick question? icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 26, 2013 1:06 AM GMT
    Yeah I hot listed both 1) friends of mine; and 2) guys I thought were hot. it has nothing to do with being in a relationship.
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    Mar 26, 2013 3:33 AM GMT
    Because they are hot !
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    Mar 26, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    it means i'd fuck u without getting to know u and never talk to u again and be ok with it. icon_smile.gif (if i were single of course)
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    Mar 26, 2013 5:17 AM GMT
    For me, not only do I find them hot but they have certain values and opinions that are important to me.
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    Mar 26, 2013 6:24 AM GMT
    I've pissed people off before by simply hot listing them..So I really don't use it that much.
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    Mar 26, 2013 6:44 AM GMT
    For hot listing - if someone is hot I hit list them, no because I want to get a date/get in to bed with them
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    Mar 26, 2013 10:09 AM GMT
    I take into account several things when I hotlist guys.

    1/ I view their photos and review their profiles.
    2/ Get a good sense of who they are
    3/ I think they're sexy, hot as hell and I'd love to date/fuck
    4/ They remind me of either porn stars or other dudes I slept with in the past.

    but unfortunately most of the guys are far from where I am !
  • Trauts

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    Mar 26, 2013 10:33 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidIt means I think they're hot.

    Is this a trick question? icon_confused.gif


    Lol, exactly what I was thinking.
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    Mar 26, 2013 7:31 PM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidIt means I think they're hot.

    Is this a trick question? icon_confused.gif


    Pretty much. Unless there's some sort of secret meaning to it I'm not aware of, which wouldn't surprise me.

    Kinda like how poking people on Facebook can mean different things depending on who you ask. lol
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    Mar 26, 2013 7:39 PM GMT
    because those are the types of men im attracted to. Physically. Doesnt necessarily mean they are good guys, they could be, i dont know, afterall I dont even know them. Just visually exciting... LOL.. Like porn... for the real world... hahah
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    Mar 26, 2013 8:00 PM GMT
    To me it means they are one of the types I like physically. It is no reflection on how good or bad they are as a person, and I don't expect them to message me to say thanks (which takes 5x longer than the hotlist) or start a conversation. If they want to then they are welcome to of course. I do understand some people will see it differently.
  • thadjock

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    Mar 26, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    it's a casual hat tip to dudes i find attractive. a very nsa acknowledgement

    like brief eye contact and a nod while passing on the street
  • HottJoe

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    Mar 26, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    thadjock saidit's a casual hat tip to dudes i find attractive. a very nsa acknowledgement

    like brief eye contact and a nod while passing on the street


    Stalker!!icon_mad.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Mar 26, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    Do you honestly think that being in love with one person blinds you to the rest of the world? Thinking someone is hot and telling them isn't cheating---unless you're in an unhealthy jealous relationship.
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    Mar 26, 2013 9:56 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidDo you honestly think that being in love with one person blinds you to the rest of the world? Thinking someone is hot and telling them isn't cheating---unless you're in an unhealthy jealous relationship.


    Well said!
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    Mar 26, 2013 10:42 PM GMT
    Just put up my profile today. Still deciding whether to keep a hot list at all.

    Seems like a really low-key way to telegraph what turns you on, without being so explicit that you inevitably hurt someone's feelings.

    A guy can look through your list and see if he's your type, if he cares to.
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    Mar 26, 2013 11:21 PM GMT
    shortbutsweet saidJust put up my profile today. Still deciding whether to keep a hot list at all.

    Seems like a really low-key way to telegraph what turns you on, without being so explicit that you inevitably hurt someone's feelings.

    A guy can look through your list and see if he's your type, if he cares to.

    exactly my point...
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 30, 2013 6:53 PM GMT
    neffa saidBecause they are hot !


    Sometimes it's just that simple
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    Mar 30, 2013 6:59 PM GMT
    what is a hot list?
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    Mar 30, 2013 7:02 PM GMT
    I mostly hotlist people when I think they have a look that I wish I had (body/face) which makes them a more attractive person? Is that a good enough reason?