Getting and staying hard while being fucked

  • SubBttmBoy

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    Apr 01, 2013 2:49 PM GMT
    The last guy I met up with was kind of upset I wasn't hard. I'm a total bottom, and honestly, I never really focused on it too much. I love getting another man off, and not really worried about myself. I didn't think it'd even be an issue.

    Anyone have any advice on this? I think it's just nerves from meeting a new guy. But still, I guess I'd like to avoid in the future. I don't have problems with erections any other time.
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    Apr 01, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    It could be just an isolated incident since you stay hard any other time. Ask the guy if he wouldn't mind fucking you again. If he says yes, then you need to relax and enjoy it. You'll get your groove back! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 01, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    BottomsUpMD saidThe last guy I met up with was kind of upset I wasn't hard. I'm a total bottom, and honestly, I never really focused on it too much. I love getting another man off, and not really worried about myself. I didn't think it'd even be an issue.

    Anyone have any advice on this? I think it's just nerves from meeting a new guy. But still, I guess I'd like to avoid in the future. I don't have problems with erections any other time.

    Are you saying you weren't hard while he was fucking you? Was that his problem? Or did you not get hard at all while you were together?

    As a bottom I sometimes get hard, sometimes not. A lot depends on whether I feel pain or not. Pain is a shrinker for me.

    Other times I get rock hard, and even shoot when getting fucked, if I'm getting stroked by either of us.

    So what was going on with you? I've known lots of bottoms who don't harden when fucked (I'm versatile and also a top). Never bothered me a bit. I knew he'd get hard when we needed him to get hard. A bottom's hardness while fucking is optional, not a requirement.
  • SubBttmBoy

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    Apr 04, 2013 1:11 PM GMT
    Thanks for the help guys... Might wear my jockstrap next time and just stay covered up hahaha
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

    Posts: 480

    Apr 04, 2013 8:18 PM GMT
    It's not at all uncommon to not be erect while bottoming -- just look at some porn. icon_smile.gif

    Sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not.

    The way I see it, my ass is squeezing a dude's cock from just about every angle...giving him amazing pleasure. What my dick does during that act is none of his business. icon_smile.gif If he doesn't like, he can go f..... himself!