Why do people call sex "fun"?

  • Tombo

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    Apr 02, 2013 1:58 PM GMT
    I also hate how people call sex 'fun,' fun to me is a eating a doughnut or going to a theme park not having a sordid sexual encounter with some stranger off the internet who is 2 stone heavier than his profile pic and 10 years older

    Ok, slight exaggeration but these things happen.

    I don't get why people call it 'fun' it is SEX, not fun. Fun is watching a panto or doing the Gangnam Style

    Fun is eating jam or making a pancake, fun is dancing to britney or hitting up a cool new bar, fun is zumba or your 21st birthday

    sex is sex, sex can be a beautiful, amazing thing, it can also be quick, fast, intense etc

    sex is sex, fun is something enjoyable, yes sex is often enjoyable but some creepy dude looking for someone on the internet to fuck should not call it fun, just call it sex because it is sex, it is not 'fun'


    ughhhhhh

    rant over

    fun. is also a great band who I love and respect <3
  • dragonyear

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    Apr 02, 2013 2:01 PM GMT
    curious too. icon_smile.gif)icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    Why do some people care about what other people think is fun?

    I think that is the bigger issue.
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    Apr 02, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    The op doesn't get laid much.

    Pleasurable = fun
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    Apr 02, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    jmusmc85 saidThe op doesn't get laid much.

    Pleasurable = fun

    I still think he's a virgin. icon_confused.gif


    Didn't he say he was a virgin awhile back?

    Anyways, exploring a mans body can be fun. Especially when you are very attracted to him. Being the little sex kitten I am, I like to horseplay before I get down to business. Wrestling around and horse playing lightens the mood. Then of course one thing leads to another and his dick is in your butt. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    Tombo saidI also hate how people call sex 'fun,' fun to me is a eating a doughnut or going to a theme park not having a sordid sexual encounter with some stranger off the internet who is 2 stone heavier than his profile pic and 10 years older

    Best fun of all is going to a sordid sex theme park and eating a 2-stone donut.

    fun |fən|
    noun
    enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure


    I don't see why sex couldn't fit within the definition of fun.
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Apr 02, 2013 3:30 PM GMT
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  • Hothouse

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    Apr 02, 2013 3:57 PM GMT
    Cause I'm not going to say - "hey, let's get naked and have some amazing" - or "have some beautiful"
    I'm gonna say fun, because it is.
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidCause I'm not going to say - "hey, let's get naked and have some amazing" - or "have some beautiful"
    I'm gonna say fun, because it is.


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    Apr 02, 2013 4:39 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidThe op doesn't get laid much.

    Pleasurable = fun


    1+
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
    I have about the same amount of fun having sex than I do going down a rollercoaster at Six Flags.

    Except if I want sex with my s.o. I don't have to wait 6 hours in line for it. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    Eating doughnuts are not necessarily fun, either.











    Or, so I've heard. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidI have about the same amount of fun having sex than I do going down a rollercoaster at Six Flags.

    Except if I want sex with my s.o. I don't have to wait 6 hours in line for it. icon_lol.gif

    That's not what I heard...

    j/k
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    Coming from someone like me who doesn't have sex very often and has slept with very very very few men in my life, yes sex can be fun. Fun in a good way. I don't know how to describe it. It's two [or more] people sharing a good time... be it a hook-up, relationship or whatever [except rape].

    I see you mention, creepy dudes looking for sex on the Internet... Well, I am one of them. Not often but I do find men on the Internet and while I am ugly I wouldn't consider myself creepy b/c I am just looking for someone to have some sex. Nothing complicated... Maybe you could just explain more.

    BTW, I love touching a lot. I love to touch penises and I don't know why. It's a huge turn-on for me and also seeing a rock hard cock inside underwear that wants to explode and be free. icon_lol.gif


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    Apr 02, 2013 4:48 PM GMT
    I think sex can be fun. Of course when I refer to sex I am talking about from beginning to end including foreplay and fuck breaks. It's nice to take a break sometimes and just chit chat for a bit. Many times have I had a smile on my face during "sex" that actually had nothing to do with the fucking.

    sucks that you have not had this kind of experience.
  • kew1

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    Apr 02, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidI have about the same amount of fun having sex than I do going down a rollercoaster at Six Flags.

    Except if I want sex with my s.o. I don't have to wait 6 hours in line for it. icon_lol.gif


    Nor be over in 60 seconds.
  • Guycicle

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    Apr 02, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    I think sex is fun but I think I see where the OP is coming from. I get a bit grossed out when I hear sex referred to as "play." Not quite sure exactly why tho.
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:56 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidI think sex can be fun. Of course when I refer to sex I am talking about from beginning to end including foreplay and fuck breaks. It's nice to take a break sometimes and just chit chat for a bit. Many times have I had a smile on my face during "sex" that actually had nothing to do with the fucking.

    sucks that you have not had this kind of experience.


    What about minority gays like me who don't do anal?

    I am very clear with my partners about it and then we move on and make the most of it w/o anal. I clearly state that before.

    And I think everyone has had that "smile" moment during sex icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 6:32 PM GMT
    "Not fun in bed"

    Now that'd make a popular Grindr headline.
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    Apr 02, 2013 7:04 PM GMT
    You are 20..still maturing on so many different levels... Just to remind you your brain is literally still missing a chunk of lobes!..

    It's scientifically proven..you have 4-5 more years before you can even begin to process half the things you are feeling right now..including sex. !! Not fair..right??

    I started having sex at 24 1/2.. didn't start having "fun" till 28..

    Now I know better...
    Stay on your knees..
    Keep your ass in the air..
    Keep quiet till the senator is finished..
    Take the money and go!

    You still have time !!

    Hugz


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    Apr 02, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    I agree with you it is a very silly thing to call it, and confusing for people new to the scene. It's like people are scared to say the word sex
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    Apr 02, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    Tombo said

    watching a panto
    doing the Gangnam Style
    eating jam
    making a pancake
    zumba



    you listed 5 things that I would not consider fun. Remind me to never ask you to throw a party for me icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    Tombo said

    watching a panto
    doing the Gangnam Style
    eating jam
    making a pancake
    zumba



    you listed 5 things that I would not consider fun. Remind me to never ask you to throw a party for me icon_wink.gif


    I still really like Gangnam Style! I am always happy to hear it come on at the gym.