Grindr dickheads ?

  • dragonyear

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    Apr 02, 2013 2:48 PM GMT
    anyone with interesting grindr story to share, including douchebag icon_smile.gif) feel free to attach here pic.icon_razz.gif
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Apr 02, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    Well this one guy i got his number and it seemed like he was rlly into me.Then all of a sudden he just stopped texting and calling me and i just said fuck it and i nvr talked to him since.People that lead you on=Douchebag
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    Here you go:

    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com
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    Apr 02, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    Not really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian
  • billbos

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    Apr 02, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    Ok, I'm not on GRINDR, so maybe this is ignorant, BUT....obviously the ones who think they are hot or whatever are douchbags, but if you are not into Asians are you not supposed to write that and just put up with a ton of messages? It's for hooking up, so shudn't you say what you are and are not into?
  • dragonyear

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    Apr 02, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    i had few times asking them to send a face photo, but they keep on sending dick/naked photo. I do not know if they dont speak english or they consider dick is face? hmmmicon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 5:08 PM GMT
    billbos saidOk, I'm not on GRINDR, so maybe this is ignorant, BUT....obviously the ones who think they are hot or whatever are douchbags, but if you are not into Asians are you not supposed to write that and just put up with a ton of messages? It's for hooking up, so shudn't you say what you are and are not into?


    technically Grindr is family friendly, I know shocker but when you get banned from their you learn this, so putting what you are into and not into for a hookup really is not allowed. and besides, I don't think most would have issues with that.. the rudest thing I have ever seen on Grindr dealt with this topic.

    some dude from San Fransicso had this written in his about me

    "Not into asians, so prease reave me arone"

    even this one got banned from http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com
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    Apr 02, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidHere you go:

    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com


    da faq! some of those guys are ugly as shit! and have no right to be talking mess. Lmao!
  • Import

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    Apr 02, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    billbos saidOk, I'm not on GRINDR, so maybe this is ignorant, BUT....obviously the ones who think they are hot or whatever are douchbags, but if you are not into Asians are you not supposed to write that and just put up with a ton of messages? It's for hooking up, so shudn't you say what you are and are not into?


    technically Grindr is family friendly, I know shocker but when you get banned from their you learn this, so putting what you are into and not into for a hookup really is not allowed. and besides, I don't think most would have issues with that.. the rudest thing I have ever seen on Grindr dealt with this topic.

    some dude from San Fransicso had this written in his about me

    "Not into asians, so prease reave me arone"

    even this one got banned from http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com


    LOL, im sorry.....but lolz
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    Apr 02, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    Let's see:

    Guy using another guy's photos and asking to swap pics
    Someone using Ryan Kwanten's photos (lol) and asking to swap pics
    Someone using "Ridiculously Photogenic Guy's" pics (double lol) and asking to swap pics
    Guy who I agree to meet and work out he is the old man sat in the corner looking over nervously, not the 30 year old middle eastern guy I was chatting to
    Guy who would delete his profile and make a new one every time I blocked him so he could message me again
    People contacting me from blank profiles just telling me where they saw me (creepy)
    People contacting me from blank profiles saying "Accom?"
    People contacting me from blank profiles sending just the map
    Guy sending me different maps showing him getting nearer and nearer until he was 10m from my flat
    Getting blocked because I didn't reply within 20 minutes
    The guy who wanted me to force him to do domestic chores around my flat (was tempted I'll be honest)
    Overweight guys taking a photo from above and to the side looking up, so you can't tell they are fat
    Guys with hats superglued to their heads in every photo (I have dated several bald guys, I just don't like someone trying to deceive me)
    The usual age/height/weight amnesia

    Probably lots more but that's all I can think of off the top of my head. I have had so many problems with the faceless profiles that I just ignore them now even if they send a face pic as their first message. You can't be sure it is them if it isn't on their profile where it can be challenged.
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    Apr 02, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidI think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    Similar thing can be said of height, weight and age as well. So should those be removed from profiles as well? icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 02, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    Seric said
    Erik101 saidHere you go:

    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com


    da faq! some of those guys are ugly as shit! and have no right to be talking mess. Lmao!


    Seriously, right? My favorite one is this butt ugly Asian dude from Australia who said in a rude manner that he's not into other Asians. All I thought about was what kind of guys would be into him, if any at all?
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    Apr 03, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    Seric said
    Erik101 saidHere you go:

    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com


    da faq! some of those guys are ugly as shit! and have no right to be talking mess. Lmao!



    omg hillarious!!!
  • TheBizMan

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    Apr 03, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    LoveAndPeace saidWell this one guy i got his number and it seemed like he was rlly into me.Then all of a sudden he just stopped texting and calling me and i just said fuck it and i nvr talked to him since.People that lead you on=Douchebag

    No.
  • dragonyear

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    Apr 03, 2013 5:28 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    Seric said
    Erik101 saidHere you go:

    http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com


    da faq! some of those guys are ugly as shit! and have no right to be talking mess. Lmao!


    Seriously, right? My favorite one is this butt ugly Asian dude from Australia who said in a rude manner that he's not into other Asians. All I thought about was what kind of guys would be into him, if any at all?


    hahaha good one. before saying anything should look at himself first ,what he got to offer ,i guess
  • Tombo

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    Apr 03, 2013 11:40 AM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    dudewithabeard saidI think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    Similar thing can be said of height, weight and age as well. So should those be removed from profiles as well? icon_wink.gif


    What? No wayyyyy, I don't want end up with a fatty, oldy, youngy or shorty
  • dragonyear

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    Apr 03, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    funny is, for example today, the main profile photo in grindr looks great n sexy , but when ask to send other photos, the rest are like yuck.. what happened? its like 2 different persons
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    Apr 03, 2013 5:31 PM GMT
    TellMeMoar said
    dudewithabeard saidI think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    Similar thing can be said of height, weight and age as well. So should those be removed from profiles as well? icon_wink.gif


    Don't really think that those are the same but I see your point. Personally I only put my age on there. The reason I do that is that I am trying to help redefine what is "normal" for 39. (Soon to be 40).
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    Apr 03, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidNot really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian


    Trust me, when it comes to online dating sites and apps many try to hide their ethnicity for whatever reason -- super bright pictures, etc.
  • Apparition

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    Apr 03, 2013 5:59 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidNot really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian


    asian could mean chinese or an orthadox jew in israel right? how is that helpful as a description.
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    Apr 03, 2013 6:49 PM GMT
    Apparition said
    dudewithabeard saidNot really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian


    asian could mean chinese or an orthadox jew in israel right? how is that helpful as a description.


    that was actually a joke, I really didn't do that.
  • Apparition

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    Apr 03, 2013 6:51 PM GMT
    it would be a neat icebreaker.

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    Apr 03, 2013 6:52 PM GMT
    Apparition said
    dudewithabeard saidNot really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian


    asian could mean chinese or an orthadox jew in israel right? how is that helpful as a description.


    Since when has "Asian" ever been used to describe someone from Israel?
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    Apr 03, 2013 7:02 PM GMT
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    Apparition said
    dudewithabeard saidNot really a dickhead story, just something I did that I had to rethink..

    I think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    so because of my annoyance with this feature, my most recent stint on grindr the only thing I had listed on my profile besides my nic was that I was white. I started to wonder if people thought I was racist because of it. Without knowing the reasoning behind it I might think it would be rather odd and something a racist might do.. so I changed it up..... and said I was asian


    asian could mean chinese or an orthadox jew in israel right? how is that helpful as a description.


    Since when has "Asian" ever been used to describe someone from Israel?

    This, although my dear friend LingLing has been to Israel many times and those dark, sweaty, meaty Jews stare at him like he is some exotic Asian jewel, which he kind of is. I like to drag him around Tel Aviv and watch the horny Jews stare and pant and come on to LingLing in awkward jewish ways and then say things in Hebrew like, "he is a vile punk who does not even bother to speak our language, leave him alone and bring me another drink."
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    Apr 04, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
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    TellMeMoar said
    dudewithabeard saidI think the option of putting your race on your profile is stupid. If you can't tell I am an white then you have issues. And besides, if you have any interest in me because of my race, then I really don't want to talk to you..

    Similar thing can be said of height, weight and age as well. So should those be removed from profiles as well? icon_wink.gif


    Don't really think that those are the same but I see your point. Personally I only put my age on there. The reason I do that is that I am trying to help redefine what is "normal" for 39. (Soon to be 40).

    I agree what height, weight and age cant be as easily determined as race from a pic. But what if someone liked older guys (or younger, if he is older than you) and was interested in a 39 (soon to be 40) yo. Would you still say "if you have any interest in me because of my age, then I really don't want to talk to you." icon_razz.gif

    Personally if someone contacts me with incomplete profile info, I'm less likely to reply.