meninlove said Tombo, it's been explained to you several times that sexual banter is banter; there's a lot on RJ, and you must have known this when you first arrived and started reading topics etc. It's humour, and you not only don't get it, you appear to take it literally and condemn others for it.
It was also pointed out to you that insulting others whose ways of living and loving you disagree with is going to get you the same. Insults.
We've been on here long enough to have seen several like you come on here, condemn and insult others the way you have done, then several months later recant the whole thing and actually start doing the supposed slutty things joked about on here.
You are travelling a rather well-worn path at the moment.
Hey, I am not condemning anyone.
I respect that some people want to have an open relationship or have lots of hook-ups and that is fine, I don't tell people how to live their lives but STIs are a serious problem and when people go round barebacking and not caring or stealth barebacking guys and then getting it on with loads of guys it is likely that they will get an STI at some point.
I just want a relationship that is monogamous and I noticed that a lot of threads on here are about hook-ups and open relationships so I made a thread for monogamous guys so that they feel less alone.
I sometimes find the 'sexual banter' a bit grim, I don't think it is all banter either and I don't like anal but some people don't seem to be able to accept that for some reason but I don't care if people accept me or not, I am who I am, take me or leave me, it's not gonna effect me whether people like me or not I'm gonna stay true to myself and keep on living
You did, Tombo. Calling others not into monogamous relationships skanks and hoes is respect?
The site is not full of barebackers and stealthers. You're speaking to two long-timers here. Both activities are often roundly and verbally frowned upon here.
If you care to look, there have been many topics about monogamy on RJ and those who would like it.
I saw your topic, read it, and found it not welcoming to us at all - we're monogamous and hitting 24 years together this December.
Friendliness will get you places, acrimonious insults won't, as you're finding out.
Put a little sweet in your posts and watch what happens. It will take a little while as people here have very good memories.