Married straight men

  • manny319

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    Apr 06, 2013 5:24 AM GMT
    Would you ever have affair with a married straight man?
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    Apr 06, 2013 5:35 AM GMT
    I have! Don't do it! It's the most meaningless experience you will ever go through.
  • manny319

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    Apr 06, 2013 5:44 AM GMT
    What happened
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    Apr 06, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    of course not, the fuck is wrong with you? kgwhat.png
  • BloodFlame

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    May 05, 2013 8:18 PM GMT
    Personally, I would never date a married man at all.

    I'm not trying to be judgmental but I don't want to be the other guy and I do have morals. Call me a prudei f you want but I think things like that are unfair to the wife and kids (if he has any). I could never sleep at night or handle the guilt so married men are a no go for me. No matter how nice and open minded he is.

    Unless his wife knows and actually is open to it, there is no freakin' way.
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    May 05, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    Been there, done that.

    You're not missing anything.

    They'll never leave their wives.
  • spemat

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    May 06, 2013 5:46 PM GMT
    the predominantly straight guys were conquests from 16-21 but they will always hurt you in the long run... they were hot and the sex was fun but emotion isn't worth it...
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    May 06, 2013 5:59 PM GMT
    Are you fuckin kidding me, is this even a question to be asked.

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    May 06, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    lol, if a married straight guy is having affairs on the sly with men, he ain't straight.
    He's BI.

    He's also someone who cheats in a relationship, which sort of tells you how your relationship with him is going to go.

    There are exceptional circumstances, but those are, well, exceptional.
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    May 07, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    Yes I have. icon_eek.gif

    After discussion we went into the relationship knowing full well what we were getting into. He was separated at the time the affair began and the relationship lasted three years. I'm sure I'll be judged harshly by the RJ crew. icon_confused.gif
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    May 07, 2013 1:58 PM GMT
    CA_DREAMER said, "He was separated at the time the affair began and the relationship lasted three years. I'm sure I'll be judged harshly by the RJ crew."

    I'm not sure why you'd be judged harshly. The man was separated from his wife. icon_wink.gif

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    May 07, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    Once a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.
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    May 10, 2013 6:41 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidOnce a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.


    thank you!

    If you do dick you are not straight!
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    May 12, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    willie45 said
    smartmoney saidOnce a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.


    thank you!

    If you do dick you are not straight!

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    May 12, 2013 2:18 AM GMT
    smartmoney said
    willie45 said
    smartmoney saidOnce a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.


    thank you!

    If you do dick you are not straight!

    This.


    Does the reverse logic work as well? If you do pussy even once, you're not gay?
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    May 12, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    manny319 saidWould you ever have affair with a married straight man?
    Only if he's hot.
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    May 12, 2013 5:44 AM GMT
    Sashaman said
    smartmoney said
    willie45 said
    smartmoney saidOnce a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.


    thank you!

    If you do dick you are not straight!

    This.


    Does the reverse logic work as well? If you do pussy even once, you're not gay?


    I would argue in most cases no, because most gay men who have sex with women do so under duress (ie - they're pressured into it by family, friends, society, etc). "Straight" men who have sex with men do it completely of their own volition. So they have no excuse.
  • Amelorn

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    May 12, 2013 6:05 AM GMT
    Sashaman said
    smartmoney said
    willie45 said
    smartmoney saidOnce a man has sex with another man he automatically gives up the pretense of being straight. Words have definitions and the key definition of straight is not negotiable.


    thank you!

    If you do dick you are not straight!

    This.


    Does the reverse logic work as well? If you do pussy even once, you're not gay?


    From what I've encountered, the attitude (likes dick=not straight) doesn't go the other way.

    Married men are a pointless endeavour. Anyone expecting them to trade the comfortable heteronormative cocoon of bourgeois respectability for a gay relationship is delusional.