About Life downs...Looking for insight!

  • kyleburke

    Posts: 79

    Apr 06, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    So the purpose of this is that I slowly started to write a autobiography over a year ago and started to reflect on my life and started to really wonder about people's opinions and experiences that they have gone through. Some of the stuff I'd love to have views on will be listed and if people are open to share here, or mail me their thoughts all the info is kept confidential and looked at more as research as a whole and not singled out.

    Who thinks they would love to help a guy out and open your minds to some insecurities or some of the things we hide or are ashamed about.

    Some topics:
    -->Thoughts of people who had bullied others, as well as thoughts of those that were bullied
    -->Weight issues, things you have gone through, why as a society you feel you need to follow it
    -->Coming out, the struggle, your need of acceptance
    -->Relationships...Long term
    -->I'd Love to have a conversation with someone who has cheated on someone, their feeligns, thoughts as well as those who have been cheated on, the struggle to trust, share and build those pieces after it

    There are more of course but this is just thoughts I'm thinking about reflecting on as I write and love to actually get in the mind of others as well and a forum I feel is the best way icon_smile.gif

    Cheers
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    Apr 07, 2013 6:17 AM GMT
    Why does your Autobiography need external reinforcement?

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    Apr 07, 2013 6:49 AM GMT
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    Apr 07, 2013 6:55 AM GMT
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  • RaggedyMan

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    Apr 07, 2013 6:58 AM GMT
    Oh, for my good health. I’ve had spurts of bad. When I broke my back that wasn’t health, but I’ve had different things. I had whooping cough when I was very little. I still remember whooping and my parents would stand there and watch me. It must have been bad for them, but I can still see them. I was only maybe two? I don’t know. Good health would be one.

    A firm foundation if you can get one. I think for me it was religion. We were Lutheran and it just happened that my father was from the Roman Catholic area. He was a Protestant and so we had no problem there. They both went to that church and we were very faithful in going to church.

    For me that was a real – that was something else. It was about the only thing we did that was different. Otherwise it was going to school and working on the farm. It was a very simple life, really. So, that simple life is the best I think.

    Oh, I regret that I was never married (Laughs), but I had a few friends but not many. I was too bashful. Terribly bashful. Oh, awful. But, other than that, no.
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    Apr 07, 2013 7:02 AM GMT
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    Apr 07, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    kyleburke saidSo the purpose of this is that I slowly started to write a autobiography over a year ago and started to reflect on my life and started to really wonder about people's opinions and experiences that they have gone through. Some of the stuff I'd love to have views on will be listed and if people are open to share here, or mail me their thoughts all the info is kept confidential and looked at more as research as a whole and not singled out.

    Who thinks they would love to help a guy out and open your minds to some insecurities or some of the things we hide or are ashamed about.

    Some topics:
    -->Thoughts of people who had bullied others, as well as thoughts of those that were bullied
    -->Weight issues, things you have gone through, why as a society you feel you need to follow it
    -->Coming out, the struggle, your need of acceptance
    -->Relationships...Long term
    -->I'd Love to have a conversation with someone who has cheated on someone, their feeligns, thoughts as well as those who have been cheated on, the struggle to trust, share and build those pieces after it

    There are more of course but this is just thoughts I'm thinking about reflecting on as I write and love to actually get in the mind of others as well and a forum I feel is the best way icon_smile.gif

    Cheers

    Ummmm every single thing you have mentioned has been discussed in detail on the threads.

    Plus, this is such a broad subject, one can't possibly make a short response to your questions...
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 08, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidWhy does your Autobiography need external reinforcement?



    LOL yes, +100. Define autobiography:
    Main Entry: au·to·bi·og·ra·phy
    Pronunciation: ˌȯ-tə-bī-ˈä-grə-fē, -bē-
    Function: noun
    Date: 1771
    : the biography of a person narrated by himself or herself

    Get your own experiences bro