What is considered sex?

  • highforthis

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    Apr 08, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    I was talking to a gay friend, and he said that his definition is "anything that involves the penis", ie touching, even if feeling from outside the clothes. I think that's a good place to draw the line between romantic (making out) and sexual activity. In this standard, (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intimacy), he draws the line between stages 9 and 10.

    I'm thinking about this obviously in the context of some recent uh, trangressions haha.

    Thoughts?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 08, 2013 5:52 AM GMT
    He's obviously unfamiliar with rimming
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    Apr 08, 2013 5:56 AM GMT
    Sex in terms of absolution mean when two individuals are actively penetrating each other through the act of intercourse or via similar channel.

    Now would you consider getting a blow/hand job sex...I would say Yes

    Your friend is also forgetting that Lesbians don't have 'penises' . Instead they have something called a clitoris.



  • highforthis

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    Apr 08, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    i'd imagine that rimming would fall around stage 11.

    And penis really means "genitals" in a non-gender-specific context, but who cares about lesbians lol
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    Apr 08, 2013 5:59 AM GMT
    highforthis saidi'd imagine that rimming would fall around stage 11.

    And penis really means "genitals" in a non-gender-specific context, but who cares about lesbians lol


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  • highforthis

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    Apr 09, 2013 4:49 AM GMT
    All my lesbian friends are very chill and self-depeciating. Not stereotypically "angry" at all icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 09, 2013 8:33 AM GMT
    "Sex" is the box you fill out on forms to determine your gender.
  • Trauts

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    Apr 09, 2013 1:32 PM GMT
    paulflexes said"Sex" is the box you fill out on forms to determine your gender.


    Really? I thought they are the bags that hold potatoes in them.
  • Hothouse

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    Apr 09, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    Trauts said
    paulflexes said"Sex" is the box you fill out on forms to determine your gender.


    Really? I thought they are the bags that hold potatoes in them.


    Is that why I've been banned from the produce stand - just because I asked for potato sex?
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    Apr 09, 2013 7:40 PM GMT
    Hothouse said
    Trauts said
    paulflexes said"Sex" is the box you fill out on forms to determine your gender.


    Really? I thought they are the bags that hold potatoes in them.


    Is that why I've been banned from the produce stand - just because I asked for potato sex?
    You're supposed to ask that before putting the potatoes in yer butt. icon_razz.gif
  • Apparition

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    Apr 09, 2013 7:58 PM GMT
    i call fucking sex
    i call blowjobs oral
    i call manual a hand job.

    "did you have sex with steve?"
    "no we just had oral"


    Cheating to me is anything that can exchange a major STD. I dont care about anything else.
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    Apr 13, 2013 10:27 PM GMT
    sex = penetration. oral sex is just that - involving the mouth. hooking up, however, remains vague.
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    Apr 14, 2013 12:17 AM GMT
    highforthis saidWhat is considered sex?


    Actually dude, it would be more appropriate to address that question to Bill Clinton. icon_smile.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 14, 2013 5:21 AM GMT
    socaldrewski saidsex = penetration. oral sex is just that - involving the mouth. hooking up, however, remains vague.


    Right on again.

    Hooking up is any act performed with someone other that person whom you are currently involved with which compromises your current relationship with that person. Boundaries will vary between couples possibly, but those involved always know what they should or should not be doing with another that may be construed by the absent partner as hooking up.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Apr 29, 2013 1:06 PM GMT
    any act you are trying to convince yourself was NOT sex so you can relieve your guilt about cheating on your partner IS, in fact, sex.

  • rnch

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    Apr 29, 2013 2:00 PM GMT
    For years my str8-when-sober friend would insist that "Eating ain't Cheating".


    His ex-wife disagreed.


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    Apr 29, 2013 4:11 PM GMT
    isnt it anything thats ends with an orgasm for both?
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    Apr 29, 2013 4:22 PM GMT

    lol, sex is any pleasuring activity that is done with the intent of sexual pleasure.


    Less confusing. icon_wink.gif
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Apr 29, 2013 9:09 PM GMT
    m4rf_ saidisnt it anything thats ends with an orgasm for both?


    not at all. It's not uncommon to "have sex" where only one person achieves orgasm and I it's easy to argue that a guy shoving his cock up my ass is "sex" even if neither of us cum.

  • Apr 29, 2013 10:06 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidHe's obviously unfamiliar with rimming


    LOL good one!!!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Apr 29, 2013 10:47 PM GMT
    Participating in activity with the intent to achieve orgasm.icon_razz.gif