Mr Perfect?

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    Apr 08, 2013 8:00 PM GMT
    Hello Friends,

    I was on the rewinding mode this eveningicon_smile.gif thought of writing some.

    When I was single, life was very hard for me! Everything is late in my life. Hard times build you. Rejections were so hard on me by Indian Dates because the expectations from the other end was so much higher equivalent to the level of a film star. Once i remember i didn't even start to talk anything but that evening an Indian Date just walked away leaving me alone and not even saying anything. Relieved from the shock, Moments later, I cried silently and then cried a lot that night because I was never offered to show my personality nor even a friendly speech to begin with! I admit sometimes on being single with considerable amount of failure attempts does make you feel desperate so i cried really hard. Although i had my physical temptations while i was single, I hardly tried any sex and so these failures had more impact on me personally. I even remember writing posts in RJ whining about being Single. But then when I always get dried out of crying, i always knew subconsciously that i am not an undervalued person but I am a really good person by all means and that is all matters to keep waiting with Hope that my prince charming would come to me seeking my hand.

    December 2011:
    On a foreign land I had my call answered from land down under. On my first date, under the moon light, I was kissed from behind on my neck while I was looking at the moon feeling blessed and emotional. That is the sweetest thing happened in my personal life ever and there was our first moment beginning December 2011 till date. I don't have anymore heart to give. Even If i have to face death the very next moment, I will be so much grateful to have lived this life with my love sincerely and faithfully.

    The point of writing down my life is that sometimes we get carried away with too many expectations and it gets us nowhere but leaving hate for someone, hurt for someone and single for everyone. I also think that the expectations have gotten too much higher allowing us to almost slide us from looking for Mr perfect to unknowingly get comfortable to remain Single. Plus the other bonus of being single is adding oil to the fire? We may have new technology, globalization, space advances and everything but deep down under a human can be fulfillingly happy only when his heart is happy. And what makes a fulfilled guy the happiest is when there is his partner with him in his old age to laugh/cry/take care of him to look after him with true love.So Guys please don't ignorantly overlook good chances and don't lose your life for physical pleasures alone. Time is running. You may actually be passing by great guys.



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    Apr 08, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Congratulations, Venky! icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 08, 2013 8:10 PM GMT
    When I wrote about "whining in RJ for being single" I only remembered the support you gave and I sincerely thank you for that meninlove.
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    Apr 08, 2013 8:17 PM GMT
    VenkyJock saidWhen I wrote about "whining in RJ for being single" I only remembered the support you gave and I sincerely thank you for that meninlove.


    You weren't whining. That was very real, very normal despair. icon_wink.gif

    I'm so happy for you!
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    Apr 08, 2013 8:19 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    VenkyJock saidWhen I wrote about "whining in RJ for being single" I only remembered the support you gave and I sincerely thank you for that meninlove.


    You weren't whining. That was very real, very normal despair. icon_wink.gif

    I'm so happy for you!


    Thank you! It means a lot icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 09, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    Venky ..I hope you celebrate a lifetime of happiness with your love.. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 09, 2013 3:53 AM GMT
    Sounds awesome! Congrats, I hope all goes very well!

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    Apr 09, 2013 6:29 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidVenky ..I hope you celebrate a lifetime of happiness with your love.. icon_biggrin.gif


    ah! thanks Anocxu icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 09, 2013 6:30 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSounds awesome! Congrats, I hope all goes very well!

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    Thank you very much HndsmKansan icon_smile.gif
  • Splendidus_1

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    Apr 09, 2013 6:49 PM GMT
    I'm really happy to hear such a good ending icon_smile.gif . Still: "(...) but deep down under a human can be fulfillingly happy only when his heart is happy.And what makes a fulfilled guy the happiest is when there is his partner with him in his old age to laugh/cry/take care of him to look after him with true love." - that stands for some us. I see finding someone only as a "bonus" in my life, never something necessary. Otherwise, you will never be fully happy until you find someone to protect you from your fears and fill that hole you created, in your head. That's my two cents icon_wink.gif