AMoonHawk saidWhat about his personality? Really if he doesn't do it for you and it is not likely to work out in the long run, quit leading him on and move on to another.
This.... You seem overly hung up on this detail. Like the guy for HIM, not his picture...
You got to look at the whole picture which includes how the world and your friends receive you as a couple. He texts me all the time and we go on incredible roads trips and adventures together so he is a friend before he is a BF.
not sure if serious.
if you are, you must have some seriously superficial friends if they really care about how you guys look together.
and i don't think there's much people that are wasting their time paying attention to you both enough to care how cute you look together.
You must not have any relationship experience . If your in laws don't like you or you dispise them you are in for a rough long haul. And if you are unmarried then friends can get really weird or you can lose them altogether if they think
your bf is a douche .
this has nothing to do with that.
i'm sure not everyone in your family approved of you being gay when they found out but did that stop you from being gay? that's the point. fuck what other people think because what they might think is the best for you may NOT be the best for you. if your friends care more about how attractive your potential mate is more so than if he's a good match for you personality wise and isn't abusive, then they aren't looking out for you.
how would you feel if someone accepted you based off of only how good you looked to them?
my thing is i understand where you're coming from with the "people look better in real life than how they do in person" BUT you seem to be only concerned with how good he looks and that's the only reason why you're dating him.