Do you Guy's Believe that Love comes when you don't look for it and that there is someone there for Everyone ?

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    Apr 09, 2013 9:32 PM GMT
    ?
  • jackooh

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    Apr 10, 2013 12:10 AM GMT
    Love comes whether you look for it or not and yes there is someone out there for everyone, depending on how picky you are
  • deep388

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    Apr 10, 2013 12:13 AM GMT
    I'm 25, haven't had a relationship since I was 21. So I'm beginning to think that I may have to start looking for Love.
  • BryUSC88

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    Apr 10, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    Those are good questions. The old cliche is that love shows up when you're not looking for it. I'm not sure how that works. Does that mean if I just sit on my couch watching TV every night that Mr. Right will come knocking on my door? I kinda doubt it. I used to think that there was someone for everyone...but not sure I believe that anymore either. There are plenty of people (especially gay people) that never found the right person. If you're still in your 20's, you still have SOOOO much time. No need to rush, but keep your eyes open and keep yourself out there. I didn't "come out" until my early 30's, and at the time thought the right guy would show up eventually. Well...I'm well into my 40's now, and he never did. And it's harder to get people's attention when you're in your 40's. Rupert Everett once said that when gay men turn 42, they also turn invisible. Unfortunately, there is some truth to that. So if you're in your 20's...it's too early to start wondering whether Mr. Right will come along. If you're in your 40's...it's a legitimate question. Not giving up yet, however. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 10, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    Yes
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    No (I believe there is more than 1 guy you can be happy with)

    Never give up not lookingicon_wink.gif
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    Apr 10, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    Yes! All of the guys I've ever had a serious relationship with happened (the date) when I least expected and to me, it was quite a nice surprise. As for your question on if there is someone for everyone, I'm on the fence with that one. I've met some guys who were complete assholes and I just can't see them spending their lives with someone else.
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    Apr 10, 2013 5:11 AM GMT
    I believe it can come when you don't look for it, but with a caveat - you have to be putting yourself in situations where you are interacting with new people regularly. If you are a home body, it will be hard to meet someone unexpectedly.

    Someone for everyone? Possibly, but a lot of people are picky, give up too soon, don't date enough, etc.
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    Apr 20, 2013 9:36 AM GMT
    Oh god not this shit AGAIN please kill it with fire
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    Apr 20, 2013 11:51 AM GMT
    Incendiary saidOh god not this shit AGAIN please kill it with fire


    He just keeps posting the same shit all the time, look up encyclopedia dramatica guys, his troll face even made it there.

    He will be forever alone for no other reason than being a dipshit, and possibly fake troll/ account
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    Apr 20, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    if there was somebody for everyone, then there would not have been single people in their 70s, 80s, 90s and yes they exist, there exist people who were never married or in a relationship and died all alone. there are people in this world who dont have enough food to eat forget about relationship.
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    Apr 21, 2013 7:49 AM GMT
    Isn't this the 3rd time you asked this in the past year.