Using Skype to get off

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    Apr 10, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    So a pretty attractive guy approached me online from a4a a few days ago and we struck up a conversation pretty fast. He lives relatively close to my location, about 20 miles away. We both were mutually interested in each other but he insisted on using skype to get off versus meeting in person, which sounds SO strange to me. At a point he was begging me on camera to striptease, flex my arms and chest, pull out my junk, and beat off which I found hilarious. His main excuse for not meeting was that we're too far apart even though we can meet within 25 minutes and offering to invite him to my place. So I've figured they're other issues behind his excuses and didn't care to find out. My main curiosity revolves around using skype to get off. What is sexually stimulating about a guy showing off his junk on camera. Doesn't the idea of actually hooking up with a man seem significantly more enticing than beating off to live video of a guy sticking his asshole and balls in front of a damn camera?! Sure there are LDR situations to consider with partners. However though, exchanging your skype ID with random men online just to get off simply doesn't turn me on or make much sense. Why tease yourself when you can just have the real thing? What are your thoughts guys ?
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    Apr 10, 2013 11:23 PM GMT
    20 miles is too far? holy shit man, what I would have given to have someone live even within a 40 mile radius at certain points in life.

    The cam thing I can kind of understand. It gives off a certain appeal. but when you live only 20 mins/miles away....that seems a little lame.

    in fact, there's probably other issues that he's hiding. sounds sketch. if i were to cam with someone and they lived within 20 miles you bet your ass i'd get off the computer and go to their place.
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    Apr 11, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
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    if i were to cam with someone and they lived within 20 miles you bet your ass i'd get off the computer and go to their place. [/quote]

    Exactly!whats his deal!?
  • Apparition

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    Apr 11, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    i cam with local boys all the time. i dont consider it cheating is one. just porn.

    they may be hot but their profile says they are frequent barebacking sluts so too scary for real life.

    its a good interview process.

    i kinda like camming...kind of anonymous, and more spontaneous for me...if i fuck you i have to put you through a series of tests first...cam can be spontaneous and anonymous (although i lie to know their names too) i have a couple skype slaves...i dont know their names.

  • wherewillwebe

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    Apr 11, 2013 9:31 AM GMT
    jerking off on cam is hassle free..especially when you are just too horny and don't have much time. When you meet someone in person for sex, you have to go through all the necessary steps for that...like having a shower, wearing perfume, putting on nice clothes,.....and eventually after you meet the guy....having an awkward conversation, offering a tea/coffee, taking clothes off, kissing and making out, getting a lube and a condom, sweating, taking a shower again, putting your clothes back on, back homeicon_rolleyes.gif...icon_redface.gificon_twisted.gificon_biggrin.gif

  • May 28, 2013 2:24 AM GMT
    To me it's really fun, especially when I go visit family where there are really no guys around. It's kind of like phone sex, but way better. Plus you can act out fantasies and stuff without anyone judging you or not being into it. It's really nice too when you want to jerkoff but want some more interaction than just watching porn- being able to hear and see someone who you know is getting off to you. Also, being able to get loud and verbal, its nice.
  • jobautis

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    May 28, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    Im so freaking horny, add me jobautis07
  • joeymusic

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    May 28, 2013 5:04 AM GMT
    Jerking off on skype is totally fine, I've done it. However, if you're in a close distance to the guy you're skyping with, and want to get it on, i would get off that computer and get together with him.

    But Jerkin off on skype with someone can be pretty fun, cause you can act out fantasies and maybe watch a hot video with that person, so it's cool, just as long as its not every single day
  • SubBttmBoy

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    May 28, 2013 12:32 PM GMT
    I've used it before. I like to use it with my type (older guys) because a lot of time they have a ten year old pic on their profile and then you meet them and it's very disappointing. Saying I want to Skype first is a hell of a reality check.
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    May 28, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    That's kinda a weird excuse not to meet up, but whatever floats his boat.

    I wouldn't do that though
    Can't people record stuff from Skype video? Kinda creepy.