how long should you wait before telling someone that you love them?:)

  • wherewillwebe

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    Apr 11, 2013 8:34 AM GMT
    there is no time limit on love but ....how soon is too soon?icon_biggrin.gif
  • Kise

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    Apr 11, 2013 10:25 AM GMT
    To me there is no time specification, but I do tend to distinguish my affection with 'like' and 'love'.

    I would say I like a certain person when we first meet, but I would only say 'I love you' when I know that person well enough and believe that I could stand his bad traits because hey, I love him. I'm not gonna leave him just like that. icon_smile.gif
  • calibro

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    Apr 11, 2013 1:05 PM GMT
    the second time you swallow or first time you do ass-to-mouth, whichever comes first
  • Montague

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    Apr 11, 2013 1:06 PM GMT
    Don't be silly! There's no such thing as "love."
  • Eccomi09

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    Apr 11, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    wherewillwebe saidthere is no time limit on love but ....how soon is too soon?icon_biggrin.gif


    When you first do. Life is too short to hold back, and everyone wants to be loved.

    That said, if you say it because all you want to do is hump him, but want to run away if you heard he's sharted, then you're just in lust. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 11, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    wherewillwebe saidthere is no time limit on love but ....how soon is too soon?icon_biggrin.gif


    Too soon is before you truly know. Before you've figured out whether you love him, or are IN love with him (there's a big difference) or are feeling both. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 11, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    tell them the very first time you see them, but you can be as discreet about it as you like.
    For example, "oh you're so funny, I love you".
    or you can go "oh you're so funny ... I love you..."

    This is a great gift to express your love for someone.
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    Sometimes, all you need is the right look and they know what you're thinking.
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    Apr 11, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    Two seconds after an earth- shattering orgasm.
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Apr 11, 2013 1:40 PM GMT
    If you think it, ask yourself this: do I mean it?

    If yes, speak up. And right after you catch yourself having said it, say it again.

    If he doesn't speak it back...breathe and be grateful that he heard you.

    Be mindful of your heart. And of his. Speak what you feel and speak with truth. Be willing to risk your heart and entirely unwilling to risk his, and you'll only give voice to truth.
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    Apr 11, 2013 1:48 PM GMT
    MuscleComeBack saidIf you think it, ask yourself this: do I mean it?
    If yes, speak up. And right after you catch yourself having said it, say it again.
    If he doesn't speak it back...breathe and be grateful that he heard you.
    Be mindful of your heart. And of his. Speak what you feel and speak with truth. Be willing to risk your heart and entirely unwilling to risk his, and you'll only give voice to truth.


    Then after this make sure to leave him this note.
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    Or this card will definitely get the message across
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    Apr 11, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    I used to run around with a wile pack of twinks, sometimes I miss their stories of love...

    The usual standouts were the ones that would be talking insatiably about how deep in love they were- even thought they had only known the guy for a month, and have never met in person "But we talk on the phone every night for hours, and skype" "Yeah, we broke up, I'm really upset" I used to just laugh

    Be like girl...you cray!
  • He_Man

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    Apr 11, 2013 2:35 PM GMT
    FlyinBrian saidI used to run around with a wile pack of twinks, sometimes I miss their stories of love...

    The usual standouts were the ones that would be talking insatiably about how deep in love they were- even thought they had only known the guy for a month, and have never met in person "But we talk on the phone every night for hours, and skype" "Yeah, we broke up, I'm really upset" I used to just laugh

    Be like girl...you cray!



    Hahaha.... This so reminds me of the scene from Queer as Folk where Emmett had a brief one-night romance. The whole relationship went from 0 - 60 overnight from honeymoon to divorce in as little as a night.

    At 9:00 minutes always cracks me up! I love Emmett.

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    Apr 11, 2013 2:42 PM GMT
    He_Man said
    FlyinBrian saidI used to run around with a wile pack of twinks, sometimes I miss their stories of love...

    The usual standouts were the ones that would be talking insatiably about how deep in love they were- even thought they had only known the guy for a month, and have never met in person "But we talk on the phone every night for hours, and skype" "Yeah, we broke up, I'm really upset" I used to just laugh

    Be like girl...you cray!



    Hahaha.... This so reminds me of the scene from Queer as Folk where Emmett had a brief one-night romance. The whole relationship went from 0 - 60 overnight from honeymoon to divorce in as little as a night.

    At 9:00 minutes always cracks me up! I love Emmett.



    funny
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    Apr 11, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    When you feel it. No forum will help you. You need to know inside.
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    Apr 11, 2013 3:24 PM GMT


    OMG!...this thread makes me wanna cry....

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    yess I would wanna know too! icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 11, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    for me I would do this style/method, if ever I find it hard to tell.

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    Apr 11, 2013 3:39 PM GMT
    Always shout it out while you're cumming. That is the best way. He'll really know you mean it!
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    Apr 11, 2013 3:47 PM GMT
    MuscleComeBack saidIf you think it, ask yourself this: do I mean it?

    If yes, speak up. And right after you catch yourself having said it, say it again.

    If he doesn't speak it back...breathe and be grateful that he heard you.

    Be mindful of your heart. And of his. Speak what you feel and speak with truth. Be willing to risk your heart and entirely unwilling to risk his, and you'll only give voice to truth.


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    lurve this!
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    Apr 11, 2013 3:56 PM GMT
    Wait at least until the third round of Tequilla shots.

    By then you should have his SS# and the keys to his car....
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    Apr 11, 2013 4:04 PM GMT
    tell him whenever its real.
  • Eccomi09

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    Apr 11, 2013 4:10 PM GMT
    So many guys are just being RealTwats in their response. But, yes, know that it's love and not infatuation, and then say it.

    You know that you love someone when you think about what could be the worst thing that they say to you before you lose respect for them. If you're not willing to stand behind them and think of them just the same as when they reveal what you think is the worst thing that you can reveal to them, then you love them. That's unconditional love. That's the love we normally have for our families. And that is when you are IN LOVE with them.

    I also love Donkey Kong and New York pizza, but those bitches are going down!

    So, IN LOVE is different than LOVE. Your goal is to learn the difference.
  • He_Man

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    Apr 11, 2013 4:21 PM GMT
    Eccomi09 saidSo many guys are just being RealTwats in their response. But, yes, know that it's love and not infatuation, and then say it.

    You know that you love someone when you think about what could be the worst thing that they say to you before you lose respect for them. If you're not willing to stand behind them and think of them just the same as when they reveal what you think is the worst thing that you can reveal to them, then you love them. That's unconditional love. That's the love we normally have for our families. And that is when you are IN LOVE with them.

    I also love Donkey Kong and New York pizza, but those bitches are going down!

    So, IN LOVE is different than LOVE. Your goal is to learn the difference.


    Wait! So you're telling me that the if the guy that I was in love with sat me down and told me that he had went on a killing spree and hacked up my entire family last night, raped my grandmother and fucked my dog that I would still have to "stand behind" him and love him unconditionally? That seems a lot to ask... icon_confused.gif
  • Suetonius

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    Apr 11, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
    After your first date is too soon. Other than that, trust your gut. You'll know it was too soon if the guy you said it to is surprised or uncomfortable in hearing it.
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    Apr 11, 2013 4:46 PM GMT
    As soon as when you can differentiate between Infatuation and love! and feel the latter one.
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    Apr 11, 2013 5:47 PM GMT
    calibro saidthe second time you swallow or first time you do ass-to-mouth, whichever comes first


    Hahaha!!!