Real Jock minorities declare May as Date Your Own Race Month

  • MadeinMich

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    Apr 11, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    Due to the ever presence of race threads that permeates the RJ thread feed all day long, how about all RJ minorities take the month of May to only seek relationships, companionships, and hookups with guys within our race. After the end of May we could all come back to RJ and reconvene on RJ to discuss our outcomes.

    Perhaps such an exercise would reinstate our selfworth back to our respective races instead of leaving it up to the elusive GWM to fulfill it for us.

    Don't mean to sound like a nationalist. Many gay minorities on RJ have been responsible for giving too much credence to how WGM treat us.

    What do ya say?
  • omgazn

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    Apr 11, 2013 9:44 PM GMT
    Lol it's gonna be hard to find another gay asian male who been in the military that likes to do extreme sports. But hey I'm up for that challenge.
  • MadeinMich

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    Apr 11, 2013 10:04 PM GMT
    omgazn saidLol it's gonna be hard to find another gay asian male who been in the military that likes to do extreme sports. But hey I'm up for that challenge.


    Alright man. Hop to it. You've got 2 weeks.
  • jtz03932

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    Apr 11, 2013 10:05 PM GMT
    Wow... What a counterintuitive event. Minority day to date your own race. What's next? Assimilation day to ignore people outside your race? Oh wait... Those days have been occurring to whites EVERY SINGLE DAY.
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    Apr 12, 2013 1:46 AM GMT
    I don't wanna. . . icon_confused.gif
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 12, 2013 1:48 AM GMT
    MadeinMich saidDue to the ever presence of race threads that permeates the RJ thread feed all day long, how about all RJ minorities take the month of May to only seek relationships, companionships, and hookups with guys within our race. After the end of May we could all come back to RJ and reconvene on RJ to discuss our outcomes.

    Perhaps such an exercise would reinstate our selfworth back to our respective cultures instead of leaving it up to the elusive GWM to fulfill it for us.

    Don't mean to sound like a nationalist. Many gay minorities on RJ have been responsible for giving too much credence to how WGM treat us.

    What do ya say?



    How about we not purposely seek out anyone using race... at all? icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 13, 2013 4:43 AM GMT
    How about we DO NOT POST OR CONTRIBUTE to ANY race based titled thread for the month of May? That is real action. While there are men of every ethnicity that have some kind of internal racism, just like there are gay men who have internal homophobia, those issues won't be worked out until they decide to work them out or ask for other perspectives when they want to change.
  • TheBizMan

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    Apr 13, 2013 5:06 AM GMT
    Multi-racial advantage here. *shifty eyes*
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    Apr 13, 2013 12:59 PM GMT


    MadeInMich, how is race a culture?

    "Perhaps such an exercise would reinstate our selfworth back to our respective cultures instead of leaving it up to the elusive GWM to fulfill it for us."

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    Apr 14, 2013 4:39 AM GMT
    ErikTaurean saidHow about we DO NOT POST OR CONTRIBUTE to ANY race based titled thread for the month of May? That is real action. While there are men of every ethnicity that have some kind of internal racism, just like there are gay men who have internal homophobia, those issues won't be worked out until they decide to work them out or ask for other perspectives when they want to change.


    I agree with the bold. I'll just go ahead and participate.
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    Apr 14, 2013 6:42 AM GMT
    What's with all the race threads? There's like 6 or 7 on page 1.

    [quote]Don't mean to sound like a nationalist. Many gay minorities on RJ have been responsible for giving too much credence to how WGM treat us.[/quote]

    I don't think you should be speaking on behalf of ALL minorities...
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    Apr 14, 2013 12:18 PM GMT
    I have not dated within my own race since college. I like people who can cook and are naturally submissive.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 14, 2013 1:08 PM GMT
    Come on, was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor!!? Can't we all just get along.

    It is amazing how every microcosm within the overall population represents the overall attitudes. It's more amazing that our own microcosm dealing with the hatred and pain we do seem to be any less tolerant for having experienced what we have and applying or using that hurt and those painful experiences to prevent any perpetuation of hurt or pain for anyone else.
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    Apr 14, 2013 1:31 PM GMT
    gay white Jewish male seeks gay white Jewish male.
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 17, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    smartmoney saidI have not dated within my own race since college. I like people who can cook and are naturally submissive.


    I don't get it. icon_neutral.gif
  • Generaleclect...

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    Apr 19, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    Nice thought, but it would never happen unless it was out of absolute necessity (as in living somewhere with virtually only people of your race around).

    Actually, I think even then, most color-struck gay men would rather be dateless and celibate than consider someone non-white. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 19, 2013 5:10 AM GMT
    Generaleclectic saidNice thought, but it would never happen unless it was out of absolute necessity (as in living somewhere with virtually only people of your race around).

    Actually, I think even then, most color-struck gay men would rather be dateless and celibate than consider someone non-white. icon_razz.gif


    Bullshit I love Latin men. In fact, I think Cuban men lay down the pipe the best. If you haven't had any, you should try!!! You won't walk straight for a week!icon_twisted.gif
  • Generaleclect...

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    Apr 19, 2013 6:17 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Bullshit I love Latin men. In fact, I think Cuban men lay down the pipe the best. If you haven't had any, you should try!!! You won't walk straight for a week!icon_twisted.gif


    I'm sure this is gonna sound douchey of me, but it's different with Hispanic men, especially white Hispanic men. They generally look like what most gay men want anyway.

    (I've gotten with a Cuban guy before. Total sweetheart, and very frisky. icon_wink.gif )
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    Apr 19, 2013 10:17 AM GMT
    lol May is Asian American heritage month. Well, let's just say I dated and slept with a couple of Filipino, Chinese and Japanese guys in the past. I don't feel guilty about being labeled as not liking minorities. The first guy I lost my virginity to was Taiwanese. I also went out with a couple of Mexicans and 2 Mixed Black guys, too. It's all good. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 19, 2013 12:12 PM GMT
    Lol I'm assuming this applies only to gay minority men who aren't already in relationships with white men.
  • Eli_jah

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    Apr 21, 2013 5:08 AM GMT
    Generaleclectic saidNice thought, but it would never happen unless it was out of absolute necessity (as in living somewhere with virtually only people of your race around).

    Actually, I think even then, most color-struck gay men would rather be dateless and celibate than consider someone non-white. icon_razz.gif


    I'm sorry, but this is the saddest thing I've read in a while. I don't know where you are, but in the big cities there are beautiful, brilliant gay men of color everywhere, in fact, we make up the majority of the gay community. And we are not all lining up to date primped up blond Chelsea boys, we are dating eachother, not to make a statement or out of "absolute necessity" either.

    Actually, I would say that most gay men of color end up marrying another man of color. It's just pure statistics. Don't be fooled by the outliers, they are not representative at all.
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    Apr 21, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    NeutralObserver said
    Generaleclectic saidNice thought, but it would never happen unless it was out of absolute necessity (as in living somewhere with virtually only people of your race around).

    Actually, I think even then, most color-struck gay men would rather be dateless and celibate than consider someone non-white. icon_razz.gif


    I'm sorry, but this is the saddest thing I've read in a while. I don't know where you are, but in the big cities there are beautiful, brilliant gay men of color everywhere, in fact, we make up the majority of the gay community. And we are not all lining up to date primped up blond Chelsea boys, we are dating eachother, not to make a statement or out of "absolute necessity" either.

    Actually, I would say that most gay men of color end up marrying another man of color. It's just pure statistics. Don't be fooled by the outliers, they are not representative at all.


    And this is true and I think same sex marriage would actually be a huge boon to Latino and black communities because more closeted gay and lesbian blacks and Latinos would be feel strong enough to come out of the closet. Hopefully a good sixty percent of these people get married and adopt black and Latino children. Of course that's my hope of how things would pan out. Most gay blacks I know don't date anything but other gay blacks and on occasion a Latino. In the bigger cities like Orlando and Atlanta they mostly date one another.
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    Apr 21, 2013 5:49 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Generaleclectic saidNice thought, but it would never happen unless it was out of absolute necessity (as in living somewhere with virtually only people of your race around).

    Actually, I think even then, most color-struck gay men would rather be dateless and celibate than consider someone non-white. icon_razz.gif


    Bullshit I love Latin men. In fact, I think Cuban men lay down the pipe the best. If you haven't had any, you should try!!! You won't walk straight for a week!icon_twisted.gif


    Would you date/have you dated black, Asian, Middle Eastern, etc men?
  • Generaleclect...

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    Apr 21, 2013 9:20 AM GMT
    NeutralObserver saidI'm sorry, but this is the saddest thing I've read in a while. I don't know where you are, but in the big cities there are beautiful, brilliant gay men of color everywhere, in fact, we make up the majority of the gay community. And we are not all lining up to date primped up blond Chelsea boys, we are dating eachother, not to make a statement or out of "absolute necessity" either.

    Actually, I would say that most gay men of color end up marrying another man of color. It's just pure statistics. Don't be fooled by the outliers, they are not representative at all.


    Oh, I absolutely agree. Though the OP is referring to the men who have hangups dating within their own race, so that's what I'm responding to.

    I live in NYC, so I know the diversity all too well, but you gotta admit - at least in America - that there's a good deal of minority gay men who have this preference. Look at the amount of threads started by Black or Asian men about this very issue. Hell, your thread is a response to this.
  • spemat

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    May 06, 2013 6:20 PM GMT
    I have dating Iranians, Lebanese, African Americans, had one nighters with some Latin Americans too and it was no different to me... However, if people want to date their own race and be proud, all power to them.

    The people that say it should be illegal are the ones I can't deal with.