Self Esteem Issues

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    Apr 12, 2013 2:39 PM GMT
    How do you deal , cope with self esteem issues I think I'm attractive but what bothers me sometimes is my body sometimes I think that's all people want and that I'm ugly
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    Apr 18, 2013 4:39 AM GMT
    man, i feel your pain, man. self loathing kills though. you know, it's hard to shake those feelings off especially when you have dealt with them for a long time where you can't run away from them. did you have bullies growing up?
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    Apr 18, 2013 3:16 PM GMT
    well i used to get teased in school
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    Apr 18, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    anthony2394 saidwell i used to get teased in school


    well, that's bullying. you know, as much as the saying for "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" goes, it's not true. words do hurt even if you were to put some resistance against them. if someone were to tell you that you look ugly every day they saw you and that's all you heard from them, that times 6 other people, you're going to eventually believe that you're ugly. who wouldn't? people look for feedback from others in order to know how to interact with others or if they're accepted in society or not. it's natural. people usually see themselves through the eyes of other people. when you're a kid or a teenager, that's how it usually is and when you dealt enough blows and insults, then it has an impact on who you are as a person where you start to look down on yourself because other people do. it's a psychological thing.

    when you're an adult however, you become responsible for your own well being unlike when you're a teenager. it's difficult to undo the damage and i'd help you to do so if i knew the answer but i'm in the same boat as you are. there's a thread on the all things gay forum where i asked the same question you are in this thread and there's many feedback from posters on there. they gave some good advice to follow. hope that helps. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 19, 2013 12:07 AM GMT
    anthony2394 saidHow do you deal , cope with self esteem issues I think I'm attractive but what bothers me sometimes is my body sometimes I think that's all people want and that I'm ugly


    You are very sexy and attractive.
  • Mark87

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    Apr 19, 2013 7:40 AM GMT
    Ok now I gotta say that I see a trend in your posts. You really need to start acknowledging your worth. I have epic confidence issues and sometimes I really struggle. You just have to start doing things you love. I had a drink.
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    Apr 19, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    yeah I'm better than before , I'm starting not to care what people think anymore this is the way I was made not everyone is gonna like you , and im not changing for anyone
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    Apr 20, 2013 9:36 AM GMT
    If you're better then stop making so many threads about it kthanxs












    ...did anyone else see what I did there?
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    Apr 20, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    Incendiary saidIf you're better then stop making so many threads about it kthanxs












    ...did anyone else see what I did there?


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