do you mind being viewed as a sex object to other people?

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    Apr 13, 2013 4:50 AM GMT
    as in, other people masturbating to you, wanting to fuck you and basically be treated like a sex toy????


    i do mind. icon_sad.gif it makes me feel really uncomfortable to the point where i just want to run for my life or my anxiety rate pumps up when i get the memo that someone is like icon_wink.gif. icon_cry.gif the irony is i certain don't mind viewing other guys as sex objects. it's hard not to. i appreciate masturbation and the internet. dunno why that is. i appreciate being a virgin though. it has nothing to do with religion or theism. i'm an atheist.
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    Apr 13, 2013 4:52 AM GMT
    Um, not to be rude, but exactly who is masturbating to you?
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    Apr 13, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    showme saidUm, not to be rude, but exactly who is masturbating to you?


    where did i say that there are people masturbating to me? icon_question.gif

    if you're going to take a shot @ me, you might as well empty out the whole clip. you can say that i'm ugly if you think so, what the hell can i do to you? it's not like i can kick your ass for saying that shit. might as well if you're going to do that, man.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:03 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    scaredmidget said
    showme saidUm, not to be rude, but exactly who is masturbating to you?


    where did i say that there are people masturbating to me? icon_question.gif


    a) it was rude

    b) seriously? Dude is a stud. icon_cool.gif

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    thanks, man.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 13, 2013 5:12 AM GMT
    ooops I may have, sorry. But really if you don't like it why don't you change your pics, hide yourself or just delete the message without reading it??
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:14 AM GMT
    No. I have to understand I can't attract everyone but have what it takes to attract those genuinely intrested.

    Some people do view me as this and I am fine with it.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:15 AM GMT
    i would love to be viewed as a sex toy.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
    so would it be cocky if I said yes.. but then would it be cool if when it happens and i get uncomfortable that I always say "Look Mom, I'm a whore"
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 13, 2013 5:22 AM GMT
    hottieaussie saidi would love to be viewed as a sex toy.


    Good, you already are sexy. Me too btw.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:26 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    scaredmidget saidthanks, man.

    ME?? icon_eek.gif YOU!! icon_lol.gif

    You're the one with the bangin' bod and the sexy lil' "muscle nerd" thing going on that everyone likes these days. And with the beard [swoon] .....and you seem comfortable in your [black] skin (which is ALWAYS attractive).....you seem to exemplify RJ, frankly. Thanks for being you.

    Hope that didn't make you feel too uncomfortable, hahahahaha. icon_biggrin.gif (...being "viewed as a sex object".)


    thanks, man. i appreciate your compliments. icon_redface.gif there's two reasons why i'm uncomfortable with the comments. forgive me if this sounds pathetic and pitiful.

    -i don't believe/think that i'm attractive, good looking, desirable, have low self esteem and etc where i'll think the worst about me. when showme said that comment, it actually confirmed what i think about myself. i actually don't expect good comments or things to be said about me. sometimes, i'll think that i'm attractive or be somewhat confident like how i was yesterday surprisingly for about some hours or so BUT that self loathing just comes back in full effect. more than likely, it was the zoloft that made me feel like that in terms of being confident where i took the pic in the avatar.

    -i'm scared of having sex, dating, and everything of that nature with someone else. when i see or hear that someone shows that kind of interest towards me such as viewing me in that light, i just get scared and avoid it altogether. the strange thing is there's times that i do want those things but i keep those thoughts to myself as i'm too frightened to act on them. i'm cool with masturbating though and sometimes, even that makes me feel a little funny to jerk off to a guy that has his shirt off and certain way. i just feel a bit guilty of looking at someone like that too.

    *runs*



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    Apr 13, 2013 5:26 AM GMT
    OMG your soo hot why are you single...

    If I have to hear that fucking question one more god damn time by ignorant stupid idiotic bitchy vapid neurotic arseholes I'm going to go bitch on there arse and slap them so gawd damn hard they'll find out what it is to be a graceful swan as they fly through the air!

    But no, I'm not really bothered by the few people who look at me as a sexual object. Best of all they aint never gonna get to play with this toy!
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:28 AM GMT
    hottieaussie saidi would love to be viewed as a sex toy.


    I'm right there with you. I don't see anything wrong with it, and it certainly doesn't make me uncomfortable.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidooops I may have, sorry. But really if you don't like it why don't you change your pics, hide yourself or just delete the message without reading it??


    i dunno. i would like to hide who i am but then again, isn't the point of the message board to show that we're really hitting up the gym though? i don't think people look @ my pics in that kind of light anyway especially when there's hot guys all over this site. i'm not one of them.
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    Apr 13, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    scaredmidget said
    jo2hotbod saidooops I may have, sorry. But really if you don't like it why don't you change your pics, hide yourself or just delete the message without reading it??


    i dunno. i would like to hide who i am but then again, isn't the point of the message board to show that we're really hitting up the gym though? i don't think people look @ my pics in that kind of light anyway especially when there's hot guys all over this site. i'm not one of them.


    I thought that was the premiss of your post:

    " as in, other people masturbating to you, wanting to fuck you and basically be treated like a sex toy????


    i do mind. it makes me feel really uncomfortable to the point where i just want to run for my life or my anxiety rate pumps up when i get the memo that someone is like . the irony is i certain don't mind viewing other guys as sex objects. it's hard not to. i appreciate masturbation and the internet. dunno why that is. i appreciate being a virgin though. it has nothing to do with religion or theism. i'm an atheist."
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 13, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    go ahead and beat off away ... but don't expect me to watch ... unless you're really hot and want be to join you icon_twisted.gif
  • Guycicle

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    Apr 13, 2013 6:19 AM GMT
    As long as I'm not aware of it I couldn't really care less, but sometimes it's pretty uncomfortable getting intense elevator eyes from someone creepy.

    If it's someone I'm into, on the other hand, I expect and encourage it. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 13, 2013 6:29 AM GMT
    as long as the guy is hot then hell yea seeex me up lol we have inboxes for a reason icon_twisted.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 13, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    Hell yah, can I sell tickets?
  • MadeinMich

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    Apr 13, 2013 3:28 PM GMT
    scaredmidget said
    yourname2000 said
    scaredmidget saidthanks, man.

    ME?? icon_eek.gif YOU!! icon_lol.gif

    You're the one with the bangin' bod and the sexy lil' "muscle nerd" thing going on that everyone likes these days. And with the beard [swoon] .....and you seem comfortable in your [black] skin (which is ALWAYS attractive).....you seem to exemplify RJ, frankly. Thanks for being you.

    Hope that didn't make you feel too uncomfortable, hahahahaha. icon_biggrin.gif (...being "viewed as a sex object".)


    thanks, man. i appreciate your compliments. icon_redface.gif there's two reasons why i'm uncomfortable with the comments. forgive me if this sounds pathetic and pitiful.

    -i don't believe/think that i'm attractive, good looking, desirable, have low self esteem and etc where i'll think the worst about me. when showme said that comment, it actually confirmed what i think about myself. i actually don't expect good comments or things to be said about me. sometimes, i'll think that i'm attractive or be somewhat confident like how i was yesterday surprisingly for about some hours or so BUT that self loathing just comes back in full effect. more than likely, it was the zoloft that made me feel like that in terms of being confident where i took the pic in the avatar.

    -i'm scared of having sex, dating, and everything of that nature with someone else. when i see or hear that someone shows that kind of interest towards me such as viewing me in that light, i just get scared and avoid it altogether. the strange thing is there's times that i do want those things but i keep those thoughts to myself as i'm too frightened to act on them. i'm cool with masturbating though and sometimes, even that makes me feel a little funny to jerk off to a guy that has his shirt off and certain way. i just feel a bit guilty of looking at someone like that too.

    *runs*





    @ yourname2000, I know you were just being honest and didn't mean to come off as nice, but your affirmation of scaredmidget was the kindest thing I've ever heard you say to someone on here. I appreciated that for scaredmidget. I have half a mind to stop ignoring your posts now.

    @scaredmidget. You are hot. I would kill for your body and your low body fat%
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    Apr 13, 2013 3:32 PM GMT
    I wouldn't mind at all , but at my age , it is not going to happen ...Aarrghhh
  • rnch

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    Apr 13, 2013 3:38 PM GMT
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    Apr 13, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    It's whatever to me... It rarely to never happens, but when it does I'm not going to stop people from doing it. People are free to do what they want...
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    Apr 13, 2013 3:46 PM GMT
    It rarely happens, but when it does I don't really like it to be honest.
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    Apr 13, 2013 3:48 PM GMT
    scaredmidget said
    yourname2000 said
    scaredmidget saidthanks, man.

    ME?? icon_eek.gif YOU!! icon_lol.gif

    You're the one with the bangin' bod and the sexy lil' "muscle nerd" thing going on that everyone likes these days. And with the beard [swoon] .....and you seem comfortable in your [black] skin (which is ALWAYS attractive).....you seem to exemplify RJ, frankly. Thanks for being you.

    Hope that didn't make you feel too uncomfortable, hahahahaha. icon_biggrin.gif (...being "viewed as a sex object".)


    thanks, man. i appreciate your compliments. icon_redface.gif there's two reasons why i'm uncomfortable with the comments. forgive me if this sounds pathetic and pitiful.

    -i don't believe/think that i'm attractive, good looking, desirable, have low self esteem and etc where i'll think the worst about me.

    -i'm scared of having sex, dating, and everything of that nature with someone else. when i see or hear that someone shows that kind of interest towards me such as viewing me in that light, i just get scared and avoid it altogether. the strange thing is there's times that i do want those things but i keep those thoughts to myself as i'm too frightened to act on them. i'm cool with masturbating though and sometimes, even that makes me feel a little funny to jerk off to a guy that has his shirt off and certain way. i just feel a bit guilty of looking at someone like that too.

    *runs*





    Consider that sometimes we have to take a good long look in another's mirror that compliments us instead of our own and realize that they are right, rather than the mirrors of others that agree with our own harsh mirror of self critique.

    Now, being a smarmy kind of guy, here's a little song for you, and in the end the words talk about important it is to have someone or someones in your life that buoy you up when you believe them.



    "Sometimes these hands get so clumsy
    That I drop things and people laugh
    Sometimes these hands seem so graceful
    I can see them signin' autographs

    What I want to know from you
    When you hear my plea
    Do you like or love
    Either or both of me
    Do you like or love
    Either or both of me

    Sometimes this face looks so funny
    That I hide it behind a book
    But sometimes this face has so much class
    That I have to sneak a second look

    Sometimes this life gets so empty
    That I become afraid
    Then I remember you're in it
    And I think I might still have it made"

    very warmly,
    -Doug



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    Apr 23, 2013 2:17 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidOMG your soo hot why are you single...

    If I have to hear that fucking question one more god damn time by ignorant stupid idiotic bitchy vapid neurotic arseholes I'm going to go bitch on there arse and slap them so gawd damn hard they'll find out what it is to be a graceful swan as they fly through the air!

    But no, I'm not really bothered by the few people who look at me as a sexual object. Best of all they aint never gonna get to play with this toy!


    How. I. Feel.