I don't think anyone's going to rape me right in the middle of a bar haha! Right? Right?
This seems to be a grill as well as a bar, which I presume admits under 21, like our "Rosie's" here. Therefore you won't be raped, and you might not have access to the bar if it's closed off from the dining area. I don't know the place, though I've been in Huntsville. Anybody been there? They have a number you can call.
Yeah my friend (who's 21) has been there a couple of times, and he's said it's not separated. I think they put an "X" on your hand so you can't buy any type of alcohol.
I'm just so confused what to do. Can I order water at a bar? Am I supposed to tip bartenders for water? What if there's no place to sit? So many questions... haha
You'll get the hang of it quick enough. Mixed-age bars like that will either stamp or otherwise mark the back of your hand, or band your wrist. Then you can order anything non-alcoholic at the bar. You should always tip the bartender for anything served to you, even water.
You'll prolly be given chilled bottled water, costing nearly as much as a soft drink. A Coke or Sprite in a glass on ice will look the same as a mixed drink, especially if you ask for a slice of lime, might make you feel less self-conscious about your age.
I think you'll be relieved how tame it's gonna be. I hope you have fun. And be sure to LOOK like you're having fun & smiling the whole time, you'll meet more guys that way, if that's on your agenda. Tell yourself it's gonna be fun just by being there as a first-time observer, no matter you do, and that positive glow will be noticed by others.