aquaintance trying to set me up with rice queens

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    Apr 13, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    the last few times I've been going clubbing, I keep running into this asian guy who's friends with some of my friends. Each time, he presents me with a white guy and then leaves us alone. The guys are not even subtle about it... the first question is "wanna dance?" me: "sure"... 5 seconds later, "wanna kiss?" me: "haha, maybe not". Granted I might have said yes if these guys were super hot, but they were too tall. Not worth being someone's fetish for that.

    That friend wants to know why I wasn't interested... I ask "was he a rice queen too?", and he says "yeah". I give him a pat on the back "nice effort, eventually you'll find one I like haha". I just don't get his motivations.
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    Apr 13, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    the context of that was anecdotal; stop gravitating to every race thread that doesn't even exist, geez
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    Apr 13, 2013 8:54 PM GMT
    kennykwan saidthe context of that was anecdotal; stop gravitating to every race thread that doesn't even exist, geez


    Then learn to write in a fashion that doesn't elicit that response. Because that's what naturally comes to mind from how you wrote your post. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Ad why the hell would you make a post while hidden. Seriously? icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 13, 2013 8:55 PM GMT
    Then choose someone yourself, and just because your friend set you up with someone doesn't mean you have to sleep with them. So stop complaining over nothing.
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    Apr 13, 2013 9:21 PM GMT
    Too tall eh? Maybe you are too short icon_razz.gif
  • kevmoran

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    Apr 14, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    Is he supposed to set you up with people that aren't interested in you? I realize it's a little racist, but you can only complain so much when your friend is going out of his way to set you up with potential mates.
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Apr 14, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    I'm sorry but isn't rice queen a rude thing to say?
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    Apr 14, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    Not really. I know a few guys who self-identify as such.

    And I'm not complaining, I'm just curious why he's doing me these "favors", since we're barely friends. And he's got a boyfriend, if that's relevant at all.
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    Apr 14, 2013 6:23 PM GMT
    *yawn*icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 6:27 PM GMT
    i understand, i dont want to be rejected because of my race, but i also dont want the person to want me just because of my race, i dont want to be someones fetish
  • jtz03932

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    Apr 14, 2013 10:18 PM GMT
    Oh look... Another Asian...
  • WApilot

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    Apr 15, 2013 4:37 AM GMT
    intensity69 said
    kennykwan saidthe context of that was anecdotal; stop gravitating to every race thread that doesn't even exist, geez


    Then learn to write in a fashion that doesn't elicit that response. Because that's what naturally comes to mind from how you wrote your post. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Ad why the hell would you make a post while hidden. Seriously? icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    exactly, don't post a thread that points towards race baiting. That would be like if someone posted a thread saying, "why white guys are into jigaboos"
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    Apr 15, 2013 5:23 AM GMT
    WApilot said
    intensity69 said
    kennykwan saidthe context of that was anecdotal; stop gravitating to every race thread that doesn't even exist, geez


    Then learn to write in a fashion that doesn't elicit that response. Because that's what naturally comes to mind from how you wrote your post. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Ad why the hell would you make a post while hidden. Seriously? icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    exactly, don't post a thread that points towards race baiting. That would be like if someone posted a thread saying, "why white guys are into jigaboos"


    The OP is "kennykwan," a one-post troll who is always whining, never has anything positive to say, and never has any facts to back up his accusations. (The douche actually accused me of being dishonest in another thread.) See a creepy, racist, ageist post by a hidden member in your thread? Probably "kennykwan." No surprise that he's afraid to show his face.
  • Puppymuncher

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    Apr 22, 2013 9:01 PM GMT
    Yes, tell us more about how hard life is for you, turning down all those guys at the club. Seriously, who puts up with that shit?

    But seriously, it's kinda fun trying to be matchmaker at a club. This one time we went, I would belligerently and not too subtly point out every attractive woman in a 5 m radius from us to our straight single friend. Got a bit embarrassing when one came over and he didn't want to dance with her..
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    Apr 22, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidi understand, i dont want to be rejected because of my race, but i also dont want the person to want me just because of my race, i dont want to be someones fetish


    You haven't lived until you've been someone's fetish!
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    Apr 22, 2013 9:11 PM GMT
    The thread title made me hungry for sushi.
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    Apr 22, 2013 9:36 PM GMT
    I asked LingLing is he felt objectified because I am only attracted to him because of his ethnicity. He nodded and bobbed his head about, even then, I could not understand those silly gestures he makes, but lord knows, on a Monday there is no way that ball gag is coming out.
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    Apr 22, 2013 10:08 PM GMT
    I like it the rice, the beans, the chocolate, the crackers, the curry,and the hummus, and whatever the hell they eat in Australia yay! me!

    Also know how to cook beans if you like it hit me up lol
  • gwuinsf

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    Apr 22, 2013 10:22 PM GMT
    kennykwan saidthe last few times I've been going clubbing, I keep running into this asian guy who's friends with some of my friends. Each time, he presents me with a white guy and then leaves us alone. The guys are not even subtle about it... the first question is "wanna dance?" me: "sure"... 5 seconds later, "wanna kiss?" me: "haha, maybe not". Granted I might have said yes if these guys were super hot, but they were too tall. Not worth being someone's fetish for that.

    That friend wants to know why I wasn't interested... I ask "was he a rice queen too?", and he says "yeah". I give him a pat on the back "nice effort, eventually you'll find one I like haha". I just don't get his motivations.


    I just don't get the point of this story.