Unconventially Attractive

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    Apr 14, 2013 2:24 PM GMT
    I'm curious to know what this means because I was told this by a friend while at the film premiere for Scary Movie 5 a few days ago.

    He told me that I was not classically attractive nor had a certain look that was a required standard (Model like face, feminine bottom attitude, abs, defined body) but rather more of an unknown, laid back, determined, outspoken persona that was different than the standard above.


    I still would like to more about the unconventially attractive term though because I felt as though he was insulting me at first.

    But the thing is if he was I wouldn't care because I know that some people will not be intrested or attracted to you and some will.
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:06 PM GMT
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:16 PM GMT


    It's not an insult! Bill and I consider ourselves unconventionally attractive.

    It has to do with the way the inside of you animates the outside of you. It goes a lot deeper than physical appearance alone.

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    Apr 14, 2013 3:19 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    It's not an insult! Bill and I consider ourselves unconventionally attractive.

    It has to do with the way the inside of you animates the outside of you. It goes a lot deeper than physical appearance alone.



    Thanks meninlove. That seems to make more sense
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:21 PM GMT
    Yes Edward, you may bot be Abercrombie but you do have a unique swag that I am quite jealous of tbh icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:26 PM GMT
    It means You don't fit the mold but can still stop traffic -- it's the best place to be!!!

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    Apr 14, 2013 3:28 PM GMT
    Cash saidIt means You don't fit the mold but can still stop traffic -- it's the best place to be!!!

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    Lol thanks Cash
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  • MikeW

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    Apr 14, 2013 3:39 PM GMT
    meninlove said it perfectly.

    think about what you find attractive. there may be commonalities between them but aren't there also exceptions to the rule? there are also levels to attraction, from the superficial physical (they fit a certain type) to something harder to define (who they are inside and the way that gets expressed). for myself, i'm often surprised by who i find attractive because i see they don't conform to any 'type' i'm familiar with.
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:44 PM GMT
    You're hot in your own way, more like a trend starter than follower.
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    Apr 14, 2013 3:50 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidYou're hot in your own way, more like a trend starter than follower.


    Cool
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  • TheBizMan

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    Apr 14, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    Almost always unconventionally attractive means that I wouldn't normally find this guy attractive based on looks, but because he has a brilliant personality, I find myself wanting to know more about him. There's been so many guys that I've known that some would consider butt ugly, however their attitude is just too damn sexy for words, and their quirky, goofy demeanor is far too endearing.
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    Apr 14, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    It's a great compliment !

    It means you stand out from the cookie cutter gays that populate the mass media/gay culture. That's incredibly valuable and enviable icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 5:18 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    It's not an insult! Bill and I consider ourselves unconventionally attractive.

    It has to do with the way the inside of you animates the outside of you. It goes a lot deeper than physical appearance alone.


    Perfectly said! as what I was about to say. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 5:22 PM GMT


    No worries Ed, everyone is a distinctive star of its own, there are so many beautiful stars out there in space, as how we gaze the night sky always icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    Unconventional - yes.
    Attractive - I guess it depends on who's looking.


    I have come to understand that I'm a "specific" type. Most people aren't interested, but occasionally I will turn a head. I'm completely OK with that. It makes those rare moments more worthwhile.
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    Apr 14, 2013 5:28 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidIt's a great compliment !

    It means you stand out from the cookie cutter gays that populate the mass media/gay culture. That's incredibly valuable and enviable icon_biggrin.gif


    Agreed!
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    Apr 14, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidAlmost always unconventionally attractive means that I wouldn't normally find this guy attractive based on looks, but because he has a brilliant personality, I find myself wanting to know more about him. There's been so many guys that I've known that some would consider butt ugly, however their attitude is just too damn sexy for words, and their quirky, goofy demeanor is far too endearing.



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    Apr 14, 2013 9:10 PM GMT
    I think it's cool being unconventionally attractive. It just means that not everyone will appreciate your beauty, but someone unconventional will!
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    Apr 14, 2013 9:31 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidI think it's cool being unconventionally attractive. It just means that not everyone will appreciate your beauty, but someone unconventional will!


    Blah, blah, blah.....bullshit beauty queen answer.


    I'm no male model, but I pull some fine dick. I was at Miami Beach Pride today earlier, and saw a few guys I hooked up with over the past few months. They were hot. The kinda guys most here on RJ would find "hot"....


    I don't really see what they see in me, but I ain't complaining!!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 14, 2013 9:36 PM GMT
    i've been told the same thing, it's not meant as an insult!
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    Apr 14, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    ithnku8micr8on saidi've been told the same thing, it's not meant as an insult!


    That's good lol
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    Apr 14, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    many people will say that it's NOT an insult but it actually is. what the fuck is "unconventially attractive" supposed to mean? like if you think someone is hot, they're hot. there's no such thing as someone that is universally attractive or unattractive to everybody's eyes. beauty and ugliness is all a matter of taste and opinions. some people will think you're ugly and some people will think you're hot. calling someone "unconventially attractive" is basically saying that "i think you're cute but people will think i'm crazy for saying such a thing because they don't think you're hot." what the hell does someone who is "conventially attractive" look like? how the hell do they know what other people are thinking? forgive your friend.
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    Apr 14, 2013 9:42 PM GMT
    scaredmidget saidmany people will say that it's NOT an insult but it actually is. what the fuck is "unconventially attractive" supposed to mean? like if you think someone is hot, they're hot. there's no such thing as someone that is universally attractive or unattractive. it's all a matter of taste and opinions. some people will think you're ugly and some people will think you're hot. calling someone unconventially attractive is basically saying that "i think you're cute but people will think i'm crazy for saying such a thing because they won't think the same thing." how the hell do they know what other people are thinking?


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  • barriehomeboy

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    Apr 14, 2013 11:25 PM GMT
    Your friend is the one with the issue. You're as attractive as 80% of the gay men out there. Tell him to fuck off the next time he tries to make himself feel better by making you feel worse.
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    Apr 14, 2013 11:28 PM GMT
    barriehomeboy saidYour friend is the one with the issue. You're as attractive as 80% of the gay men out there. Tell him to fuck off the next time he tries to make himself feel better by making you feel worse.



    Thanks. I did find what my friend said to be somewhat rude but he did try to say he wasn't being offensive