Attracting someone

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    Apr 15, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    I want to know, the best way to attract someone, Weather physically or Personality wise...?
  • Apparition

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    Apr 15, 2013 8:20 PM GMT
    everyone is different.

    giving them a billion dollars cash would at least make them your friend for life though.

    Having the body type and age and experiences they are looking for is good.

    If they are smart, be well educated.
    If they are dumb, be well educated and understanding.

    Being fit, healthy, charming, caring, and the correct top/bottom matchup works wonders.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.
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    Apr 15, 2013 8:26 PM GMT
    Thank you, for your advice... I really appreciate it
  • thackur

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    Apr 15, 2013 8:48 PM GMT
    Be open to new things, happy, and love to laugh. Try to do things and behave like someone you would look up to. Physically i dunno... i mean they either find you physically attractive or not, and other than exercise and get small or work out and get big there isnt a whole heck of a lot you can do about it. Im not particularly handsome, but there are some ppl that find me physically attractive and some that totally dont..

    Ultimately, you should go out and just try to have a good time all the time cuz if you are fun to be around you're bound to show up on someones radar...
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    Apr 15, 2013 8:56 PM GMT
    AdrianDaniel saidI want to know, the best way to attract someone, Weather physically or Personality wise...?


    just be yourself and the rest will follow. there's people that will like you for who you are and dislike you for who you are. you can't change people even if you try to kiss their ass and be who you want them to be. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 15, 2013 10:13 PM GMT
    Oh someone mentioned it above. Be charming, I feel like now-a-days guys just don't know how to do that at all. Learn how to smile at them, My mother always told me to smile like you have a little secret (it does wonders!). Give them a sense of mystery, don't throw out your whole life story at one go, be modest about how you dress, wearing tight everything just shows you're desperate and hate to say it a bit trashy. Be kind, and genuine because they will know, if they are smart, that you're just being fake. Oh and it helps if you're funny, it keeps the awkwardness down to a minimum.

    Some rely on their muscles, and good looks as their bait, which are very effective methods. But there are some guys out there who are un-phased by this, so I wouldn't use it as your main magnet. icon_smile.gif

    I feel like mannerisms for me are the biggest. If I see you acting obnoxious to get attention, no matter how good looking you are, it's just kills the image.
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    Apr 15, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    Simple....Be a peacock
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:00 PM GMT
    Apparition said
    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.


    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 15, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    Tie a piece of raw meat around your neck icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:08 PM GMT
    Be yourself. That's the only necessity.
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:12 PM GMT
    Be you and do you. They don't like that keep it movin
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:23 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    Apparition said
    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.


    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.


    Totally agree
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:24 PM GMT
    put out
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:28 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    Apparition said
    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.


    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.





    COSIGN !!!!!!!!! THEY WILL PUSSYFOOT TO NO AVAIL !!!!!!
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:33 PM GMT
    Roofies.
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    Apr 15, 2013 11:43 PM GMT
    Claystation saidput out


    Well aren't you Hot.
  • EricLA

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    Apr 16, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    Don't be someone you're not. You have to be authentic. If you're fake you might be able to attract someone temporarily, but when they figure out who you really are then they'll run.

    But be who you'd want someone else to be. Be truly interested in someone else. Invest time in them. Be nice.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Apr 16, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    AdrianDaniel saidI want to know, the best way to attract someone, Weather physically or Personality wise...?


    Converse about the weather whether it is sunny or raining.
  • calibro

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    Apr 16, 2013 4:29 AM GMT
    show your peen
  • He_Man

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    Apr 16, 2013 4:51 AM GMT
    Apparition said

    MOST OF ALL ASK! Gay men are all pussies waiting for others to make the first contact for the most part.


    That is perhaps the simplest, most basic truth about gay men, dating and relationships that I've ever read.

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    Thank you!
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    Apr 16, 2013 4:52 AM GMT
    LuckyGuyKC said
    AdrianDaniel saidI want to know, the best way to attract someone, Weather physically or Personality wise...?


    Converse about the weather whether it is sunny or raining.
    haha sunny, my bad it was auto-correct...!
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    Apr 16, 2013 5:10 AM GMT
    be the best person you can and never try to do them..always do you and keep it 100 mudafucking percent every time.
  • EricLA

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    Apr 16, 2013 5:44 AM GMT
    Oh, and another thing, stop sticking your tongue out in so many pics. Guys who do that look like d-bags. ;-)
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    Apr 16, 2013 6:29 AM GMT
    EricLA saidOh, and another thing, stop sticking your tongue out in so many pics. Guys who do that look like d-bags. ;-)


    Haha, It's a thing I do.. Even when I lift weights: I don't know why... Lol thanks i'll keep that in mind..
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    Apr 16, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    You need both.

    Physical appearance attracts the boy. Have some personality to keep him around. I dated a couple of dumb pretty guys before, boring as hell. Guys who are not attractive, troll but super nice - nah, not my taste either.

    I'd say personality wins in the end. Look is sorta subjective, well at least for me, look fades and I want someone to keep me on my toes.