Longest you've ever held out waiting for a guy (and I don't mean for sex)

  • Darwin1122

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    Apr 17, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    I think most people at one time or another have had feelings for someone who didn't quite like them back. There's definitely something to be said for fighting for what you want but at some point you need to admit defeat and move on. I want to know what is the longest you've ever held out for a guy? A month, 6 months, a year, more??? I'd really like to know.
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    Apr 17, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    Darwin1122 saidI think most people at one time or another have had feelings for someone who didn't quite like them back. There's definitely something to be said for fighting for what you want but at some point you need to admit defeat and move on. I want to know what is the longest you've ever held out for a guy? A month, 6 months, a year, more??? I'd really like to know.

    Depends. Guy who just wasn't going to like you back or a guy you just have an enormous crush on that you probably never meet?

    For the former, 4 months. And I was delusional and thought that "THIS will be the day he calls me!" icon_rolleyes.gif

    For the former, probably 9 months to a year. You never quite forget your first crush.

    But you do need to be able to admit defeat eventually. You might blind yourself to other possibilities.
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    Apr 17, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
    Literally...2 weeks! I just won't hold my breath! If he hasn't returned my calls, texts, emails, etc. within a certain timeframe, then I move on. Plain and simple!