Sex in gym

  • recalledz

    Posts: 12

    Apr 17, 2013 5:45 PM GMT
    HI guys!

    So I met this guy at the gym, late 30 maybe, nice bod but not that great. Day i met him he kept staring at me so i decided to make an approach but we just talked normally (gym tips ect.) and exchanged numbers so we could go to the gym together. Later that day he called me and kinda insinuated he wanted some sexual experience with a guy even though he said he wasnt gay, so i just kept my mind open for the time being.

    I was really unsure of his motives and i started to get creeped the subsequent days (we went on one workout session and some calls) becuase he was very shady and had wierd requests. So basically becuase of this i just ignored him (and his calls) for some time (also was very busy on exams at college to give to much thought).

    After like a month i saw him today at gym when i was about to finish my routine, we handshaked as if nothing and continued with our lives. When i go to the locker room to take a shower he was there and told me he was gonna shower too interestingly. So we got into the shower and he started to jack off while looking at me. I looked at him and laughed (he looked kinda funny) but then i felt creeped out and didnt know what to do. I was not in the mood and though this had been one of my fantasies (hook ups at gym!!) i felt even grossed out at the moment a bit.... shortly after i got out the shower put on my cloths and he looked at me wierdly (as if he wanted to finsih i guess?) i said goodbye to him and left.

    So what do you guys think bout this? what would you do? i wonder if any other person wouldve just enjoyed it idk...

    Srry for the long post!
  • helloandgoodb...

    Posts: 622

    Apr 23, 2013 11:35 AM GMT
    not sure what the big deal is here. he was interested, but feeling you out, you teased enough to keep him moving forward but when he did you backed off. If you like him and just freaked, tell him what you want. if you don't, you can be pretty sure he feels stupid enough to not make a move again.
  • Koaa2

    Posts: 1556

    Apr 23, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    If your not interested, have less contact with him and stay out of the shower when he is in there. Sounds like your unsure yourself what you want. Better get it figured out, your not a teenager anymore.
  • recalledz

    Posts: 12

    Apr 23, 2013 11:17 PM GMT
    thnx for the rep!

    I decided i was not going to continue this, have seen the guy but i avoid him and cut conversations with him just to let him know im not interested.

    Oh! and Havent said i have a Bf, but we have talked bout this and he understands my need to maybe explore, which is why i "teased" for a bit,cuse , but ifigured it was not the way (having casual hookups). Decided to stay put.

    Anyways, this last month have met some real crepos (and older) hanging in bath/loocker area, requesting bluntly sex, and even more wierd shit (like giving me 30$ for every piece of clothing i was wearing in that moment wth?!). So i concluded this would happen often and that i wasnt going to keep putting up with it.
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    Apr 24, 2013 8:37 AM GMT
    You and he should both have your memberships revoked. You cruise, you lose #YCYL. You know that guilty feeling you experienced? Yeah, that. That's an eternal reminder: #YCYL motherfucker.
  • helloandgoodb...

    Posts: 622

    Apr 24, 2013 10:46 AM GMT
    he likes being wanted, encourages it and the calls them creeps for following up? a total cock tease