Tall hot bottom wants short top

  • whytehot

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    Apr 17, 2013 11:59 PM GMT
    I generally need my bottoms to be within a couple inches of my height (5'6")... at clubs I don't even notice guys taller than 5'9.

    But the other day I hung out with friends of friends, and met this really hot guy who may be interested in me. Actually, not maybe; he had his hand on my thigh by the end of dinner as we were sitting together at a large table.

    I had arrived late, so I didn't know how tall he was until we got up to leave... and to my dismay, his beautiful face rose to a height of over 6 feet.

    Just wondering if there are any positive precedent for short top/tall bottom couples... b/c right now I can't see it happening, as much as I wish the height difference could be overcome.
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    Apr 18, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    My boyfriend is only an inch shorter then I am and he is the dominant of the two of us. No issue or weirdness.

    I think you're being a little shallow. Height is such a trivial thing.
  • whytehot

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    Apr 18, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    (facepalms) Clearly i'm not talking about an inch difference. I'm talking 5'6" vs over 6 feet.
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    Apr 18, 2013 12:15 AM GMT
    I get some guys who are intimidated by my size and height. I'm a tall sip of water and if the shoes give me enough of a heel I'm about 6'8. Many guys don't like that but I find some who do. The guy I'm talking to now doesn't mind my height. Although he did joke that if he had to block a guy from staring at me they could still see the last five inches of me, lol.

    The height difference can be hot though. At my height asking for guy taller than me is like looking for a narwhal. There's substantial proof they exist but finding one is hard. Basically if a guy is like six foot I can live with that because by normal standards he's tall. Although a short guy who can exert his power and confidence would be alluring as well.
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    Apr 18, 2013 12:16 AM GMT
    whytehot said(facepalms) Clearly i'm not talking about an inch difference. I'm talking 5'6" vs over 6 feet.

    So he isn't perfect. You won't find anyone who fits into that perfect man mold.

    4 inches is less then a head. No big deal.
  • davidsticky69

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    Apr 18, 2013 1:24 AM GMT
    You need to ask him to get on all four and see if the height difference is resolved.

    When kissing, ask him to go on one knee in a proposing-stance.
  • whytehot

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    Apr 18, 2013 4:25 AM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    whytehot said(facepalms) Clearly i'm not talking about an inch difference. I'm talking 5'6" vs over 6 feet.

    So he isn't perfect. You won't find anyone who fits into that perfect man mold.

    4 inches is less then a head. No big deal.


    Check your math, and no, the guy's a full head taller! Downplaying the height difference only shows that it's a problem, and that I'm not as comparatively shallow as u say...
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    Apr 19, 2013 12:36 AM GMT
    Its totally possible.

    Im 6' and I used to chase em!
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    Apr 19, 2013 12:38 AM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    whytehot said(facepalms) Clearly i'm not talking about an inch difference. I'm talking 5'6" vs over 6 feet.

    So he isn't perfect. You won't find anyone who fits into that perfect man mold.

    4 inches is less then a head. No big deal.



    lol... math fail.
  • Medjai

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    Apr 19, 2013 12:41 AM GMT
    I'm 6'4", and my boyfriend is 5'10". We do just fine.
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    Apr 19, 2013 1:19 AM GMT
    Medjai saidI'm 6'4", and my boyfriend is 5'10". We do just fine.


    Yea and in the other direction I'm 5'8" and my bf is 6'2" and everything works out just fine.

    For all the things to worry about in finding a bf or partner this is a pretty trivial one...
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 19, 2013 1:20 AM GMT
    davidsticky69 saidYou need to ask him to get on all four and see if the height difference is resolved.

    When kissing, ask him to go on one knee in a proposing-stance.
    LOL what he said. also everyone is the same height when there legs is up in the air. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 19, 2013 1:23 AM GMT
    I'm 6'2", and I loved bottoming for a guy that was significantly shorter than me (5'7ish).

    I've also topped a guy who was 6'5" and thought it was great icon_smile.gif

    My guess is that if you give your tall bottom guy a chance he'll rock your world!
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    Apr 19, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    whytehot saidI generally need my bottoms to be within a couple inches of my height (5'6")... at clubs I don't even notice guys taller than 5'9.

    But the other day I hung out with friends of friends, and met this really hot guy who may be interested in me. Actually, not maybe; he had his hand on my thigh by the end of dinner as we were sitting together at a large table.

    I had arrived late, so I didn't know how tall he was until we got up to leave... and to my dismay, his beautiful face rose to a height of over 6 feet.

    Just wondering if there are any positive precedent for short top/tall bottom couples... b/c right now I can't see it happening, as much as I wish the height difference could be overcome.


    Do you find him still attractive though? If yes, why not give it a go?
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    Apr 19, 2013 4:43 PM GMT
    Shallow? Not necessarily, but definitely myopic.

    Well, if you were Tiberius or Nero, your staff could order up anything you wanted - eye color, height, circumcised, body shape, age -You can be just as picky, but without the same likelihood of imperial success.

    If height is all important, go on looking - there are plenty of short bottoms out there in gayland. Besides, you don't know this guy yet anyway. And if sex is your entree to a BF, you haven't had it yet with him, so how can you know you won't like it?

    And how do you even know that tallguy is a bottom in the first place, as bottoms/tops is apparently a dealbreaker for you?
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    Apr 20, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    Tall bottoms are hot when they are taller then me.. So much more to play with and when you throw there legs over your shoulders you can get lost all up in those legs!

    Plus you can still be the big spoon
  • whytehot

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    Apr 20, 2013 5:35 PM GMT
    Puppenjunge saidShallow? Not necessarily, but definitely myopic.

    Well, if you were Tiberius or Nero, your staff could order up anything you wanted - eye color, height, circumcised, body shape, age -You can be just as picky, but without the same likelihood of imperial success.

    If height is all important, go on looking - there are plenty of short bottoms out there in gayland. Besides, you don't know this guy yet anyway. And if sex is your entree to a BF, you haven't had it yet with him, so how can you know you won't like it?

    And how do you even know that tallguy is a bottom in the first place, as bottoms/tops is apparently a dealbreaker for you?


    Let's just say my gaydar is good enough to tell tops from bottoms... plus both our "roles" were confirmed while playing drinking games with other friends yesterday.

    Thankfully he's not as tall as I remembered. The initial surprise must have thrown off my height perception.
  • kevmoran

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    Apr 20, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    I'm a 6' bottom and I usually go for guys a little more dominant than me. And I'll admit, if he's shorter than 5'10" there is absolutely no chance. I wish I could get over it, but it's too weird.
  • Puppymuncher

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    Apr 22, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Be as shallow as your heart desires. These haters aren't the ones living your life.

    I'm 5'11 and my guy's 5'7, it works pretty well. But with the height difference, do you feel awkward with his height? Would you have to tiptoe just to kiss him?


    Personally, I don't think height plays much role when it comes to the sex, but the bottom line is can you date him without it feeling uncomfortable?
  • He_Man

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    Apr 22, 2013 8:56 PM GMT

    IDK... My ex was 6'2'' at 250lbs, and I am only 5'11'' at 230lbs. I am a top, so it was pretty awkward trying to top him. We could never stand up during sex because of the size difference. We would have to get creative to make it work.

    Most of the time, I felt like this:

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    Apr 22, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    I don't give height a second thought.
  • Eccomi09

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    Apr 22, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    whytehot saidJust wondering if there are any positive precedent for short top/tall bottom couples... b/c right now I can't see it happening, as much as I wish the height difference could be overcome.


    If your question is about logistics, it is a little awkward for certain positions, but it can (and is) done without hitch. YOu'll just not be able to do doggie style (just lay him on his stomach and pull his face back and up to meet yours).

    I hope that description sounded a little hot because, in short (pun intended), the logistics are tolerable. What's not tolerable is to be so superficial that you'll discount someone only on their height when everything else works.
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    Apr 22, 2013 9:57 PM GMT
    If you're a good top, then the height difference shouldn't matter!
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    Apr 22, 2013 10:01 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    whytehot said(facepalms) Clearly i'm not talking about an inch difference. I'm talking 5'6" vs over 6 feet.

    So he isn't perfect. You won't find anyone who fits into that perfect man mold.

    4 inches is less then a head. No big deal.


    Hahah this
  • ATXnative

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    Apr 22, 2013 10:06 PM GMT
    im 6' and my bf is 6'4. We do fine, and are versitile. We have the same height at the hips. I have a short torso, he has a long one. Its kind lame when Im big spoon cuddle time, but he hunkers down a little and it's just fine. I don't notice the difference all the time.