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What are some of the safe ways to douche before having sex ?

There are enema kits (the more correct name for a rectal flush) you can buy in drug stores, or at sex stores, including online. The medical enema style can still include a cumbersome bag, looking something like a hot water bottle, with a long hose attached.

The more compact style is just a simple rubber bulb or squeeze bag, with a syringe-like plastic tip. And some guys use an actual vaginal douche kit, since they are virtually identical in operation, only the plastic tip being sometimes different in shape. Plus you may have to pay for an included vaginal douche solution.

The instructions will suggest what solutions to use, based on the medical condition being addressed. But ordinary tap water at body temperature or very slightly warmer is common for a simple flush.

You can also get douche attachments for your shower, basically a slender probe with holes in it, connected to a hose. I've known a number of guys who have them permanently installed in their showers. Some use them just for the sensation of the water going up there, even when they aren't about to bottom. I would not share them, however.

Sex stores also have versions with larger anal probes, essentially "wet" dildoes and butt plugs. Obviously, experienced safe play is required.

Thanks for your comments , I had heard though that douching is dangerous if repreated too many time , lets say withn a week , and if you read the comments on a vaginal douche it does say that ! How often can it really be done ?

bigbuddyboyja saidThanks for your comments , I had heard though that douching is dangerous if repreated too many time , lets say withn a week , and if you read the comments on a vaginal douche it does say that ! How often can it really be done ?

I am not aware of any limits on a rectal enema with plain water. The vaginal limits are based on solutions with ingredients such as vinegar, and anti-fungal ingredients.

The rectum is a different structure than a vagina, which has a mucous lining that is continuously regenerating, to protect against corrosive intestinal contents passing through it, being therefore relatively robust. I could envision a situation where damage might occur with excessive flushing, followed by unlubricated sex, or by a bowel movement immediately afterwards. I do not know of any studies that suggest a single enema followed by anal sex once a day would be excessive or harmful.

Actually there have been several studies where constant enema use can overtime prevent the colon from working properly and causing a patient to become dependent on enema use. In the hospital we still prefer to use oral stool softners to enemas for constipated patients. Occasional use will probably not harm you but you should consult with your physican.

Be sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

MunchingZombie saidBe sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

"Getting fucked by a tentacle". Is that what you would call octopussy sex?

Either that or I find just going to teh bathroom a good 45 minutes to an hour before having and fun down there.


If your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

Greygull and Zombs Public Service Announcement:

Greygull saidIf your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

and should be wearing a condom anyway.

Tru That!

I wish more gay men knew about proper cleaning.

Although I agree with the latter 2 posts about destiny of a gay man's penis to slip, fall and end up to its ears in shit... no pun seriously haha,


but if you're gonna bottom, use one of those really versatile ear syringes, they are so easy, you can practically carry one with you. Cost is less than 4 bucks at most drug stores and they are not embarrassing to buy and use.

They clean really well for what its worth---

SurrealLife said

MunchingZombie saidBe sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

"Getting fucked by a tentacle". Is that what you would call octopussy sex?

I call it Thursday nights at the pier.

oceanboy11 saidbut if you're gonna bottom, use one of those really versatile ear syringes, they are so easy, you can practically carry one with you. Cost is less than 4 bucks at most drug stores and they are not embarrassing to buy and use.

They clean really well for what its worth---

Good suggestion! All you're trying to do is get some water, blended with some solution or not. squirted up your butt to flush out the loose crap.

Any rubber bulb or bag with a syringe on the end will work. With the provision that it be made of hygienic materials for medical uses, like the ear syringes you mention. An auto mechanic's squeeze bulb for topping-up car batteries would prolly not be a good choice.

MunchingZombie saidGreygull and Zombs Public Service Announcement:

Greygull saidIf your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

and should be wearing a condom anyway.

LMFAO on the more you know!!! That was hilarious!

Maintaining a high fiber diet makes it easier for things to get cleaned out on a regular basis anyway.

Me and my partner have a shower enema that we use. It's clean and simple.

shower enema?

So what you shit down your leg in the shower?
The water under you is full of shit?

Wow can't believe there is a forum for this, how awesome lol.
Its hard to tell newbies about this, it sounds more sick then it actually is.

I should also add that you should not douche directly before sex. It can irritate your rectum and make it more susceptible to injury and thus STI transmission or other infection.

So, give it a little time for your prostate to slime the whole thing up a bit.

MunchingZombie saidI should also add that you should not douche directly before sex. It can irritate your rectum and make it more susceptible to injury and thus STI transmission or other infection.

So, give it a little time for your prostate to slime the whole thing up a bit.

You always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

SurrealLife saidYou always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

I have a million monkeys with million laptops hard at work on those gems. ^_~

MunchingZombie said

SurrealLife saidYou always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

I have a million monkeys with million laptops hard at work on those gems. ^_~

As long as the monkeys are treated well and are paid a fair wage, I am cool with that. I am a strong believer in delegation.

I talked to a guy once that says he uses room temperature coffee... he swears that it cleans him out better than anything.

JaseinOC saidI talked to a guy once that says he uses room temperature coffee... he swears that it cleans him out better than anything.

What flavor? Hazlenut? Might give a little taste to those that like to rim first!

hazel nut?

put a little flava in that douche lol

See if only guys ive dated that never had a dick back there knew about this forum. Can you imagine me telling someone what might happen if I fuck them and they have never had a dick up there.

I don't know how to do it, so seriously they need an idiots guide to anal sex

ONSLAUGHT saidSee if only guys ive dated that never had a dick back there knew about this forum. Can you imagine me telling someone what might happen if I fuck them and they have never had a dick up there.

You get all the virgin ass huh?

I'm a very clean person in general. When it comes to anal sex I could be considered OCD: Wash, Shave, Douche, and if I know he's into eating out, then I even put a dab of cologne down there.

I know this is weird! But 1. I doubt I'm the only one do be this picky and 2. I've had nothing but compliments haha. I suppose I do this for both myself, as I don't want the embarrassment of a mess, and for him...well...slamming into a tight, clean, smooth rear end is the cats ass

Anyone else this picky?

after flushing with thirty two gallons of saline solution, might I recommend inserting two pine cones attached to ribbons for that true forest pine scent..

Its a good thing.

lilTanker saidafter flushing with thirty two gallons of saline solution, might I recommend inserting two pine cones attached to ribbons for that true forest pine scent..

Its a good thing.

Thanks, Martha.


But you know what the most important part of cleanup is? Eating enough fiber. You can douche till the cows come home, but if you haven't eaten enough fiber, there's no way to be sure you're providing a happy home for little willie for any extended amount of time.

MunchingZombie saidI should also add that you should not douche directly before sex. It can irritate your rectum and make it more susceptible to injury and thus STI transmission or other infection.

So, give it a little time for your prostate to slime the whole thing up a bit.

It's probably true that douching directly before sex might be something to exercise a little caution, but...

the prostate has NOTHING to do with the rectum, or any other part of the digestive tract.

*shudders*

after "backflushing" i do a 5 finger dab/insert with mouthwash.

my bf will rim me for what seems like all night when i add this last step.

speedobuff saidIt's probably true that douching directly before sex might be something to exercise a little caution, but...

the prostate has NOTHING to do with the rectum, or any other part of the digestive tract.

My bad, you are correct sir. However, giving a little time for your guts to get slimed up again is important, just not with the prostate. Sorry, when ever I think about butt sex my mind immediately jumps to the prostate.

This in TMI for me. It's like hearing about a woman's period!!

Kit!

um water bottle with squirt top works perfect...


you get alot of water and wont poop for days lol

JaseinOC saidI talked to a guy once that says he uses room temperature coffee... he swears that it cleans him out better than anything.

Coffee is supposedly a great detox for the colon. I guess it "perks you up" a bit, too. Never tried it, though

Just use warm water, but I really don't know I top.

once you take the job of a fudge packer, just know there will be plenty of chocolate around.

theonslaught saidonce you take the job of a fudge packer, just know there will be plenty of chocolate around.

No

theonslaught saidonce you take the job of a fudge packer, just know there will be plenty of chocolate around.

ROFTL!!!! Best quote of the day!

dont expect any stupid chocolate around ,just keep it clean its not that hard. and alot of guys just added more than one way to clean ur self so as i said dont expect any chocolate .

I just joined the forum today. You guys are rib splitting hilarious.

These forums are very educational - Love the pinecone idea - I'm doing a fresh Rosemary marinade tonight ( I'm serving chicken )

Or if you want to multi-task try a pork & bean enema to add a bit of flavor and spice to the experience. What botom does not like to be porked anyway ? Sex and food = big fun

LOL! Wow! Too much!

chgobuzz1 saidOr if you want to multi-task try a pork & bean enema to add a bit of flavor and spice to the experience. What botom does not like to be porked anyway ? Sex and food = big fun

Nasty....just nasty....

after you clean down there a splash of mouth wash. minty fresh.

If you could actually sterilize the inside of your anus, you would die. As it stands, the most you can do is splash some cool water up there (because hot will burn and warm will contain more germs) and hope for the best. But if you'd rather not end up rolling around in your own feces during (and when you sleep after), it might be best not to set out to go there in the first place.

It is impossible to sterilize the food you eat, the water you drink, the lips you kiss. It was impossible for your parents to sterilize his penis or her vagina. It was imposable for them to sterilize her womb, the birth canal, or the world you popped into.

Stop with the paranoia already.