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What are some of the safe ways to douche before having sex ?

There are enema kits (the more correct name for a rectal flush) you can buy in drug stores, or at sex stores, including online. The medical enema style can still include a cumbersome bag, looking something like a hot water bottle, with a long hose attached.

The more compact style is just a simple rubber bulb or squeeze bag, with a syringe-like plastic tip. And some guys use an actual vaginal douche kit, since they are virtually identical in operation, only the plastic tip being sometimes different in shape. Plus you may have to pay for an included vaginal douche solution.

The instructions will suggest what solutions to use, based on the medical condition being addressed. But ordinary tap water at body temperature or very slightly warmer is common for a simple flush.

You can also get douche attachments for your shower, basically a slender probe with holes in it, connected to a hose. I've known a number of guys who have them permanently installed in their showers. Some use them just for the sensation of the water going up there, even when they aren't about to bottom. I would not share them, however.

Sex stores also have versions with larger anal probes, essentially "wet" dildoes and butt plugs. Obviously, experienced safe play is required.

Thanks for your comments , I had heard though that douching is dangerous if repreated too many time , lets say withn a week , and if you read the comments on a vaginal douche it does say that ! How often can it really be done ?

bigbuddyboyja saidThanks for your comments , I had heard though that douching is dangerous if repreated too many time , lets say withn a week , and if you read the comments on a vaginal douche it does say that ! How often can it really be done ?

I am not aware of any limits on a rectal enema with plain water. The vaginal limits are based on solutions with ingredients such as vinegar, and anti-fungal ingredients.

The rectum is a different structure than a vagina, which has a mucous lining that is continuously regenerating, to protect against corrosive intestinal contents passing through it, being therefore relatively robust. I could envision a situation where damage might occur with excessive flushing, followed by unlubricated sex, or by a bowel movement immediately afterwards. I do not know of any studies that suggest a single enema followed by anal sex once a day would be excessive or harmful.

Actually there have been several studies where constant enema use can overtime prevent the colon from working properly and causing a patient to become dependent on enema use. In the hospital we still prefer to use oral stool softners to enemas for constipated patients. Occasional use will probably not harm you but you should consult with your physican.

Be sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

MunchingZombie saidBe sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

"Getting fucked by a tentacle". Is that what you would call octopussy sex?

Either that or I find just going to teh bathroom a good 45 minutes to an hour before having and fun down there.


If your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

Greygull and Zombs Public Service Announcement:

Greygull saidIf your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

and should be wearing a condom anyway.

Tru That!

I wish more gay men knew about proper cleaning.

Although I agree with the latter 2 posts about destiny of a gay man's penis to slip, fall and end up to its ears in shit... no pun seriously haha,


but if you're gonna bottom, use one of those really versatile ear syringes, they are so easy, you can practically carry one with you. Cost is less than 4 bucks at most drug stores and they are not embarrassing to buy and use.

They clean really well for what its worth---

SurrealLife said

MunchingZombie saidBe sure to add a little sea salt to the enema broth, it will keep the enema from sapping all your electrolytes.

With bags, you can fill your guts with the contents of an olympic sized pool. It is completely unnecessary to get that clean unless you plan on being fucked by a tentacle. Getting just enough water in there to loosen things up and flush them out is all you need.

"Getting fucked by a tentacle". Is that what you would call octopussy sex?

I call it Thursday nights at the pier.

oceanboy11 saidbut if you're gonna bottom, use one of those really versatile ear syringes, they are so easy, you can practically carry one with you. Cost is less than 4 bucks at most drug stores and they are not embarrassing to buy and use.

They clean really well for what its worth---

Good suggestion! All you're trying to do is get some water, blended with some solution or not. squirted up your butt to flush out the loose crap.

Any rubber bulb or bag with a syringe on the end will work. With the provision that it be made of hygienic materials for medical uses, like the ear syringes you mention. An auto mechanic's squeeze bulb for topping-up car batteries would prolly not be a good choice.

MunchingZombie saidGreygull and Zombs Public Service Announcement:

Greygull saidIf your partner isn't comfortable with the possibility of getting a little shitty dick, he shouldn't be sticking it up there,

and should be wearing a condom anyway.

LMFAO on the more you know!!! That was hilarious!

Maintaining a high fiber diet makes it easier for things to get cleaned out on a regular basis anyway.

Me and my partner have a shower enema that we use. It's clean and simple.

shower enema?

So what you shit down your leg in the shower?
The water under you is full of shit?

Wow can't believe there is a forum for this, how awesome lol.
Its hard to tell newbies about this, it sounds more sick then it actually is.

I should also add that you should not douche directly before sex. It can irritate your rectum and make it more susceptible to injury and thus STI transmission or other infection.

So, give it a little time for your prostate to slime the whole thing up a bit.

MunchingZombie saidI should also add that you should not douche directly before sex. It can irritate your rectum and make it more susceptible to injury and thus STI transmission or other infection.

So, give it a little time for your prostate to slime the whole thing up a bit.

You always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

SurrealLife saidYou always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

I have a million monkeys with million laptops hard at work on those gems. ^_~

MunchingZombie said

SurrealLife saidYou always have such an elegant way of putting things. "Slime the whole thing up a bit" is not something I would have dreamed up in a million years.

I have a million monkeys with million laptops hard at work on those gems. ^_~

As long as the monkeys are treated well and are paid a fair wage, I am cool with that. I am a strong believer in delegation.

I talked to a guy once that says he uses room temperature coffee... he swears that it cleans him out better than anything.

JaseinOC saidI talked to a guy once that says he uses room temperature coffee... he swears that it cleans him out better than anything.

What flavor? Hazlenut? Might give a little taste to those that like to rim first!

hazel nut?

put a little flava in that douche lol

See if only guys ive dated that never had a dick back there knew about this forum. Can you imagine me telling someone what might happen if I fuck them and they have never had a dick up there.

I don't know how to do it, so seriously they need an idiots guide to anal sex

ONSLAUGHT saidSee if only guys ive dated that never had a dick back there knew about this forum. Can you imagine me telling someone what might happen if I fuck them and they have never had a dick up there.

You get all the virgin ass huh?