If you and your S.O. decided to have kids who would be the bio dad?

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    Apr 20, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    A person I was talking and I were discussing this a while ago. If you and your partner wanted kids which one would be the bio dad? His (fucked up) viewpoint was that he wanted to be the bio dad and that the other dad would be 'dad 2'. I said I wouldn't want biological kids and my spouse would be the bio dad but that doesn't make me number two or like other parent. He said that if he and the other dad broke up he should get the kids because he is the biological parent. I said that's not fair because the spouse also put a lot of effort and money into raising those kids.

    Would you want to be the biological father or let your partner do it?

    How would you make the decision of who'd be the biological father?

    Would you feel like less of the child's parent if you were not biologically related to him or her and your partner was?

    If you and your partner broke up who would get the kids?
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    Apr 20, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
    That would be a discussion between my partner and myself.

    Would you feel like less of the child's parent if you were not biologically related to him or her and your partner was?

    Nope. I would be focusing on raising a loving, caring, kid. That's all that matters.

    If you and your partner broke up who would get the kids?
    We'd make it work. Because it's still about the child.
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    Apr 20, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    it doesn't matter. his dna or mine, they're still OUR kids and i'd love them regardless. would love to give my mom a grandkid. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 21, 2013 6:46 AM GMT
    neither. biological children are for fools.
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    Apr 21, 2013 6:47 AM GMT
    McQueen saidneither. biological children are for fools.


    Lol why do say that?
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    Apr 21, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    McQueen saidneither. biological children are for fools.
    Lol why do say that?
    world is overpopulated, adoption should be an automatic first choice when deciding to have children.
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    Apr 21, 2013 6:59 AM GMT
    McQueen said
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    McQueen saidneither. biological children are for fools.
    Lol why do say that?
    world is overpopulated, adoption should be an automatic first choice when deciding to have children.


    Some people want to pass on their genes to the next generation.
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    Apr 21, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidSome people want to pass on their genes to the next generation.
    Greedy, self-entitled people.
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    Apr 21, 2013 7:11 AM GMT
    McQueen said
    MashogaNubianPrince saidSome people want to pass on their genes to the next generation.
    Greedy, self-entitled people.


    It's human nature to want to breed.
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    Apr 21, 2013 7:13 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidIt's human nature to want to breed.
    That's what homophobic Christians say.
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    Apr 21, 2013 8:46 AM GMT
    Lord knows I should not pass on my genes to the next generation. Ill let the other guy be the bio father. icon_lol.gif
  • Varanus

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    Apr 21, 2013 9:06 AM GMT
    I'm surprised no one has thought of this one already.

    Since It's all men on my side of the family I'd want to be the "Dad" for one simple reason.
    My current partner of 2 years has 3 sisters and him being the only male apart from his dad so the easy way to do it would be to get one of his sisters to donate some eggs.
    That way we not only have my genetics in the child but my partners side also as the genetic resemblance would be quite close from his sister to himself, its a win win situation.
    So in the case of genetic make up of the child if tests where done would show both mine and my partners key points within the child.

    Although that is a length process to undertake and would rather adopt a child who needs a home over bringing yet another human being into the society.
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    Apr 21, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    McQueen said
    MashogaNubianPrince saidIt's human nature to want to breed.
    That's what homophobic Christians say.


    It's the truth though.
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    Apr 21, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    I'm fugly, so I would probably want to go with his dna.
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    Apr 21, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    Varanus saidI'm surprised no one has thought of this one already.

    Since It's all men on my side of the family I'd want to be the "Dad" for one simple reason.
    My current partner of 2 years has 3 sisters and him being the only male apart from his dad so the easy way to do it would be to get one of his sisters to donate some eggs.
    That way we not only have my genetics in the child but my partners side also as the genetic resemblance would be quite close from his sister to himself, its a win win situation.
    So in the case of genetic make up of the child if tests where done would show both mine and my partners key points within the child.

    Although that is a length process to undertake and would rather adopt a child who needs a home over bringing yet another human being into the society.


    Yeah but then the situation becomes weirdly incestu-esque. My friend was talking about doing that with her partner and her brothers semen, until I was like, on some level you'd be having a baby with your brother.
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    Apr 24, 2013 1:30 AM GMT
    we don't really want kids, but if we did, I'd personally like my DNA. I think i'm just selfish like that :/
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    Apr 24, 2013 1:36 AM GMT
    Varanus saidI'm surprised no one has thought of this one already.

    Since It's all men on my side of the family I'd want to be the "Dad" for one simple reason.
    My current partner of 2 years has 3 sisters and him being the only male apart from his dad so the easy way to do it would be to get one of his sisters to donate some eggs.
    That way we not only have my genetics in the child but my partners side also as the genetic resemblance would be quite close from his sister to himself, its a win win situation.
    So in the case of genetic make up of the child if tests where done would show both mine and my partners key points within the child.

    Although that is a length process to undertake and would rather adopt a child who needs a home over bringing yet another human being into the society.


    Actually I would find it kinda creepy that bio mommy to my kid would be my sister and my partner would be the bio daddy.
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    Apr 24, 2013 1:40 AM GMT
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    Varanus saidI'm surprised no one has thought of this one already.

    Since It's all men on my side of the family I'd want to be the "Dad" for one simple reason.
    My current partner of 2 years has 3 sisters and him being the only male apart from his dad so the easy way to do it would be to get one of his sisters to donate some eggs.
    That way we not only have my genetics in the child but my partners side also as the genetic resemblance would be quite close from his sister to himself, its a win win situation.
    So in the case of genetic make up of the child if tests where done would show both mine and my partners key points within the child.

    Although that is a length process to undertake and would rather adopt a child who needs a home over bringing yet another human being into the society.


    Actually I would find it kinda creepy that bio mommy to my kid would be my sister and my partner would be the bio daddy.


    You're not the only one.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Apr 24, 2013 1:43 AM GMT
    He would. I already have three biological children and he deserves the joys and trials of seeing your dna looking back at you.
  • Montague

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    Apr 24, 2013 1:45 AM GMT
    Who ever gets a chick pregnant first!

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    Apr 24, 2013 1:47 AM GMT
    Montague saidWho ever gets a chick pregnant first!

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    The same chick or different women?
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Apr 24, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    Some guys choose to both donate, combine the sperm, and then let best swimmer win.
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    Apr 24, 2013 1:56 AM GMT
    LuckyGuyKC saidSome guys choose to both donate, combine the sperm, and then let best swimmer win.


    I thought that was only a joke on sitcoms. I didn't know people actually did that.
  • Montague

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    Apr 24, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince said
    Montague saidWho ever gets a chick pregnant first!


    The same chick or different women?


    Different women. The losers baby shall be reminded of how he was 2nd choice. ;)
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    Apr 24, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    Two kids, same mom, one for each,