Steroid Rage on the Dance Floor

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    Apr 21, 2013 11:07 AM GMT
    Liken to road rage but on the gay dance floor..............icon_question.gif?

    In my 22 years of outness and dancing many parties and to many remixes and many DJ's, NEVER have i ever encountered (1.Unexpectedly experience or face (something difficult or hostile). 2.Meet unexpectedly and confront (an adversary). on a dance floor full of gay men)

    Having a good time dancing with many hotties on the dance floor and introducing ourselves, the LA party i attended tonight was so so anyway, small crowd but usual fair.

    Dancing with the same guys most of the night, along comes, out of no where, steroid body builder dude, he must have just arrived, comes into our "circle" and immediately accosted me (1.Approach and address (someone) boldly or aggressively. 2.Approach (someone) with hostility or harmful intent.)

    I didnt know who this person was at all, but he insisted (1.Demand something forcefully, not accepting refusal.) that i leave the dance "space" and go to another space (that is what he said), im like, hell to the NO....i said something like, "i understand your Aries masculine energy tonight"

    A few minutes went by, he then proceeded to dump his bottle of water on top of my head and on my shirtless chest which dripped down to my pants, although refreshing.... i stopped dancing and made the gesture... WTF icon_evil.gif,

    Steroid body builder dude managed to clear 7 men i was dancing with from the dance floor, but not right away. One guy in our group escorted Mr Steroid off the floor while the rest of us continued to dance. I guess the rest of them felt uncomfortable after that because the other 6 soon left the floor within a few minutes after

    I stood my ground and wasnt about to leave because brutis bully came out of no where causing trouble and everyone else there felt embarrassed on what this total stranger (at least to me) just did, i have never experienced this type of jealousy and contempt ( a secondary emotion and is a mix of the primary emotions disgust and anger.) in my life from other gay men esp on a dance floor

    I told the bartender that i was just "assulted" by some roided out dude, he told me to tell security, which i did, i left the club shortly after that, this seemed to me just plain jealousy or hatred that i was making conversation with a group.

    Somebody PLEASE explain this behavior icon_question.gif.... what the hell was this dudes intent?????, other than being roided up and on some other drug, there was no reason for such hostility in a "FUN" cruisy, loud happy environment, it was happy until he ruined everyones fun
  • KZNindian

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    Apr 21, 2013 11:40 AM GMT
    Heya...the guy most probably can't dance ... must of been jealous of the moves you can pull of.

  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Apr 21, 2013 12:21 PM GMT
    He might have had a past or had been jilted by one of the hotties in your group.

  • Fable

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    Apr 21, 2013 12:25 PM GMT
    do you really have to define words for us? so annoying.
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    Apr 21, 2013 12:27 PM GMT
    Why did you have to include so many dictionary definitions? icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 21, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    He wanted some rough sexin.
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    Apr 21, 2013 1:44 PM GMT
    I don't get people sometimes...I was out with a co worker the other night and she started to get in an argument with someone she knew from 5 years in the past. I was like icon_eek.gif

    and ps...Why did you have to define (1. to state or set forth the meaning of a word, phrase, etc, 2. to explain or identify the nature or essential qualities of; describe: to define judicial functions.) all those words?
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 21, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    fable saiddo you really have to define words for us? so annoying.


    I would not have been able to follow along had the definitions not been included. I still had to look up dance, circle, energy embarrassed.
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    Apr 21, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    I think he was just annoyed by the pop-up dictionary definition bubbles floating around you.
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    Apr 21, 2013 2:28 PM GMT
    This thread needs this video

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    Apr 21, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    He was just pissed off because he has a small dick. Not much you can do about that other than suggest he use a strap-on.
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    Apr 21, 2013 3:07 PM GMT
    Most likely the dance floor was full of juicers, none of whom with roid rage. Unfortunately there's always a black sheep.
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    Apr 21, 2013 3:08 PM GMT
    Too many variables:

    He could have been drunk
    He could have been on something
    Maybe he thought you were someone else (someone he didnt like)
    Maybe he recognized you from (some other time) and was like "I know who that asshole is"
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 21, 2013 3:11 PM GMT
    Somehow I think there was more to this than described by OP. And why do you follow stupid conventional wisdom about "roided up?" This whole attempt to find some way to belittle someone who is into bodybuilding is getting tiresome. I've never encountered anyone losing it because of steroid use and harkens back to the morons who believe in reefer madness.
  • coolarmydude

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    Apr 21, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    {I couldn't read this. Do not insert definitions into a prologue [or a dialogue]. That is [(1. ridiculous 2.) difficult to read 3.) insults our intelligence.]}
  • Fable

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    Apr 21, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod said
    fable saiddo you really have to define words for us? so annoying.


    I would not have been able to follow along had the definitions not been included. I still had to look up dance, circle, energy embarrassed.




    Too many polysyllabic words I don't understand



    I don't understand

    Bitch


    I dont understand!!!!

    Why'd you turn fake on me?
  • metatextual

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    Apr 21, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    the OP should've used footnotes icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 21, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    KZNindian saidHeya...the guy most probably can't dance ... must of been jealous of the moves you can pull of.



    this is what happens when you build to much muscle, your stiff as a brick, and you can't bust out them moves icon_wink.gif

    To the op, I think he was probably on something. Nothing you could have done.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Apr 21, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    let me get this right. a guy out of the blue just came up in a crowd of guys and poured water on you for no reason? my question to you is why you? had you ever seen the guy before? maybe you slept with his bf or was dancing with his bf or a ex. my other question to you is why the hell didn't you knock the shit out of him? i am always amazed at the number of guys who will be quick to slap or hit a woman but will not stand up for themselves. oh well maybe it is the hood in me. ha ha ha i do not tolerate craziness like that
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 21, 2013 4:34 PM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidlet me get this right. a guy out of the blue just came up in a crowd of guys and poured water on you for no reason? my question to you is why you? had you ever seen the guy before? maybe you slept with his bf or was dancing with his bf or a ex. my other question to you is why the hell didn't you knock the shit out of him? i am always amazed at the number of guys who will be quick to slap or hit a woman but will not stand up for themselves. oh well maybe it is the hood in me. ha ha ha i do not tolerate craziness like that

    I think I'll stay out of the hood.
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    Apr 21, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    even though i used definitions for encountered, accosted, insisted and
    contempt...you get the point, what im really looking for the explaination of this behavior and his direct violation of my personal space and bullying in a threatening manner, much like a women fighting over a man

    i dont know who the fuck this guy was and why he decided to use his hypermasculinity to show dominance in a crowd most undoubtedly juiced up

    i picked steroid because the guy obviously was the only one in the crowd that could lift a piano by himself... what is this, fucking high school? It was like LA traffic, he was on a motorcycle while the rest of us were in our cars (if you know LA, then you know motorcycles are allowed to drive in between lanes of traffic, danger when a driver changes lanes real fast or opens a door, smash!)

    the whole US just went through hell this week with all the people killed, injured by no fault of there own and the capture of actual terrorist, in a world small as the gay community is, i would think a homo body builder narcissist creating terror would be the last thing one would expect on a night out at a club

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    My body is like this... and im happy with that
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    NOT this.. way too much work, high maintainence(well maybe works for straight women)
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    I think it be more important to be happy with ones self then.. low self
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    Apr 21, 2013 5:18 PM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidlet me get this right. a guy out of the blue just came up in a crowd of guys and poured water on you for no reason? my question to you is why you? had you ever seen the guy before? maybe you slept with his bf or was dancing with his bf or a ex. my other question to you is why the hell didn't you knock the shit out of him? i am always amazed at the number of guys who will be quick to slap or hit a woman but will not stand up for themselves. oh well maybe it is the hood in me. ha ha ha i do not tolerate craziness like that


    yes, no reason,
    i dunno why me,
    nope, never seen him before,
    an ex or bf? how was i supposed to know if this was the case,
    fighting in a club is usually reserved for straight guys, then the cops come,
    i stood up for myself by not leaving "my space" that he wanted to occupy, whereas he thought he could intimidate me into moving away from this crowd as he entered my space, when i didnt move, he decided to save his masculinity and poor the water over me in front of everyone

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  • Montague

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    Apr 21, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    scruffLA said
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    I'd motor boat it
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 21, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    Oh so he was on a motor cycle when he burst into your circle of friends, you didn't mention he was riding a motor cycle in the first account.

    The motor cycle allowed him to move faster because he was on steroids?

    This is confusing would the motor cycle have moved slower if he was not on steroids?
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    Apr 21, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidOh so he was on a motor cycle when he burst into your circle of friends, you didn't mention he was riding a motor cycle in the first account.

    The motor cycle allowed him to move faster because he was on steroids?

    This is confusing would the motor cycle have moved slower if he was not on steroids?


    ^analogy^....do i have to define?
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